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Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Arami92: 1:21pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
ihedinobi2: See that's where my confusion sometimes lies...I love my parents and I know they will never steer me wrong, and even the bible says to seek wise council...and if majority of my elders are telling me to stop worrying about men..then I don't get it. One of my biggest fears is that ill wind up single or settling in old age.. I'm thinking now of relocating to a city with many Nigerians so that maybe in the process of furthering my education I can meet a nice guy.. Thank you, great response! |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by ihedinobi2: 3:07pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Arami92: That's a good thought. I think that getting out there is a good idea. And that it is extremely good to keep your parents and elders as a part of your decisions. They're invaluable to you. But don't assume that they're always right. I'm glad you think highly enough of the Bible to quote it. Use it as your litmus test for every piece of advice you are given. Where you find your parents and elders at variance with the Bible, you know that the Bible should win out in preference. Also, the idea that romance distracts from your goals is actually quite wrong. I thought I should point that out. Think of your pursuits as a destination you want to arrive at. If they are, then taking on a travel companion headed the same way will not distract you. Rather, it will encourage you and motivate you even when you are too tired or beaten to keep going. That is really what romance offers: a friend that is always there and committed to helping you get where you need to go. So, while the dating game is full of neck-breaking falls waiting at every corner, one man who is committed to you like that is worth being with if you find his goals worthy of your support and in agreement with yours. He will help you and if you two play it right and according to the Bible you will walk down the aisle and make a great life together. I'm much honored I could help at all. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by 3DCYCLOPS: 4:38pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
You beg dem girls to date you...later on they be begging you to marry them #Lifeisfair 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Insidous: How are you gonna eat that pizza? Pepper! |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
olukenzo: That is sweet pepper (the one we call ‘Bawa') |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Insidous: Ah adupe, I thought atarodo. But, Ramadan...? |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
olukenzo: It waa for Sahur and Ramadan is going on fine. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by mablie(m): 12:19am On Jul 12, 2015 |
I like Sagamite because he is intelligent and unique.He really is quite special isn't he?.I truly am in awe of him 3 Likes |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 2:25pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
mablie: Notyourb1tch? 1 Like |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Anti loreal campaign? |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Notyourb1tch(f): 6:50pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite:why are you mentioning me? You could not possibly think that she is me? |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:10pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
andromida: I am the General Secretary of the Anti-L'Oreal Coalition. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:14pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: No I did not think he was you. Just calling you to witness, so as to re-emphasise my point that when you attack me, never attack me from that angle as there is no chink in my armour there. As I said back then, you are new to Nairaland, so you did not know. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Notyourb1tch(f): 8:23pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite: So basically you are proud of the fact that some gay guy admires you . Wow Mr Fuku Faka Fuku I think you must be losing your 'charm'. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite: Why are you campaigning against such goodness? Its time to retire |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by MarryMeee: 8:40pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
sonofananimal:your father did and unfortunately she ended up with a fool for a son. 2 Likes |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:50pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: What relevance does his sexuality have with recognising intellect? I can't lose my charm. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3FdccEkCF8& 5 Likes |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:51pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
andromida: I will never retire until I win. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite: Ohhhhkay but what do you want to win? Because you already know we are worth it so what is there to win? |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 9:23pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
andromida: We need to end self over-valuation. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Interesting read. I think this further highlights the point that the balance of opportunities is tilted against our women and societal reward system is highly flawed and often leaves focused dedicated goal driven females like Arami92 with the short end of the stick. I think the middle ground is for our ladies to keep an open mind at their peak periods and make do with options that make marital and career fulfilment mutually inclusive . I certainly do not support the idea of surrendering your goals and dreams on the altar of marital convenience... 6 Likes |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite: Lol. Self over valuation is never good so I agree with you. Have you noticed how men try to over value themselves these days competing with chics for the feminine spot Yeah we need to stop self over valuation. I totally agree 1 Like |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Notyourb1tch(f): 9:30pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
tolusan:I like this.... 3 Likes |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 9:36pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
andromida: We finally agree on something. My God! There is hope for Israel and Palestine. The first girl here is an example of how I respond to girls that over-value themselves. https://www.nairaland.com/1089625/worth-reading-white-womans-opinion/1#12826823 |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite: Israel and Palestine? Was it ever that bad? Yeah we all prefer people with warm attitude. Sometimes a girl is just having a bad day also it takes some people longer time to warm up. Be gentle with the gals you might just miss out. |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by mablie(m): 11:12pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
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Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by mablie(m): 11:16pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Sagamite:Goodevening my good man.I log into this site specifically to read only your posts.I'm always enlightened and entertained by them.Thank you for being you sire 1 Like |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Notyourb1tch(f): 1:38am On Jul 13, 2015 |
mablie:Sorry if I offended you. I saw a number of comments of yours and you kept on talking about gay this and that so I assumed you were one. I didn't mean it in a bad way even if you are gay. I don't discriminate |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Obalende: 2:11am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Arami92: Please dont pay any attention to the post showing you an older girl looking good. that girl was just lucky oh, you may not hv that kind of luck... The fundamental mistake most people make in Nigeria is to believe in formalized marriage, if two ppl were to get together and pray to their God to bless their union, they are married. period. no big weddings, nothing like that. most ppl dont know wat marriage is. Now being 23, you can meet a "boyfriend" and commit to each other. You are actually a couple when you do that you dont need to hold a ceremony. All you need is your union to be recognized by your deity. You can continue your medical or law school or high flying career with this person supporting you. that marriage and career have to be mutually exclusive is a doctrine of demons! God made a help meet for adam not someone to help him when he was already there. You can help each other out. The issue with waiting until girls are 30 is they r competing with younger girls; anybody that tells u older is better is deceiving you. with good searching you will find younger girls that embody the so called maturity of older girls. so you catch the drift? be responsible for yourself, pray then put yourself out there. Your man is there to support you and your career not to hinder it as is most often portrayed. You get married unoficcially at 23, the kids can come in when you are 28! It doesnt hv to be immediately. hope this helps you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by mablie(m): 7:55am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch:No problem.I also apologise for my brash response to your post |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:45am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Obalende: One would have assumed that by using the term "exception" and stating what happens to "most" you would have clicked that it was already stated to her that it is not the norm and only if she was lucky. Arami92, more details for you from the catalogue of old posts. https://www.nairaland.com/1204511/what-reasons-high-level-30/9#14566107 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Sagamite Has Been Saying For Years About How Women Operate And Lose! by Sagamite(m): 8:46am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: Wow! You are learning well. |
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