freecocoa:
Okay, ah! Afraid been catch me o.

But you read my first post on the thread na.

It was only a matter of trying to get what she was saying.

God forbid I support such behavior from the lady. When I'll even use my own money to treat my MIL, na my mama I go come stingy for.

I'll starve to take care of that woman.

I can't keep up with alternative monikers walahi

Kimoni:

I can't keep up with alternative monikers walahi

He started it. He's jobless and i am super jobless.
Where is that 39years old medical doctor wannabee?

laide4:

He started it.
He's jobless and i am super jobless.

Where is that 39years old medical doctor wannabee?

Laide I am cracking my brain to know who you are

Kulyie likes long and funny monikers, Francistony prefers posh English names

So Biko, Laide who are you naa

laide4:
5minsmadness aka efeswerve, i never really cared about your diatribes towards NL women till you merged me with them.
Buhahahaha! Stop running to mods, let's know who has his way better in creating alternate monikers.
You have bought something you wn't finish, and i am ready to be your guest. Bring it on!

B1tch ass motherfucker, asinine.

He even thinks folks don't know he's the one
Dude has been pained from the last encounter he had with me where I called out his hypocritical Christian ass.

Na to hide now dey throw jab e fit do.

5mins you know I know it's you.
But when you get your balls back, come back and I'll treat you like this embarrassing pathetic episode of your life didn't happen.

This is a bit extreme as the bills in question is the wife mother's medical bills.. But there are loads of women who believe that any money they spend in the household is a 'loan' to their husbands. Some will not cook a certain type of food that THEY feel like eating even if they have the money because the feeding money hubby dropped is not enough for it (don't get it sha in this one short life that we have if I was not married won't I feed myself ni ) . Countless who will stay in darkness and not buy diesel till the husband gets back even if they have the money (again who is in the darkness )

That said some men encourage that 'almighty alpha behaviour I must provide everything behaviour'(we had one on another thread today ) they feel that's the only way they can get 'respect' . I know I would be super irritated by it as a man especially if I know you have the money.its like leech behaviour to me.


I don't get it sha and never will but we are all different. I was brought not to feel entitled to anything and if my hubby does things for my parents I don't take it for granted as his 'responsibility'

I even know working women whose husbands pay ALL or most of the big ticket bills that still get upset that they don't get an allowance. Now I am not saying you can't get each other gifts ( my husband puts money in my acct sometimes and says buy yourself something nice) but to actually resent the man for not doing it when you have your own money to do as you wish is something I can't get.

Maybe am too proud sha

Kimoni:


Laide I am cracking my brain to know who you are
Kulyie likes long and funny monikers, Francistony prefers posh English names
So Biko, Laide who are you naa

I am francisT.

cococandy:


But you read my first post on the thread na.

It was only a matter of trying to get what she was saying.

God forbid I support such behavior from the lady. When I'll even use my own money to treat my MIL, na my mama I go come stingy for.

I'll starve to take care of that woman.

I did, was just kinda surprised at the post I misinterpreted.

This kind woman need deliverance(eventhough I don't believe in it) I just have to make this exception.

freecocoa:
I did, was just kinda surprised at the post I misinterpreted.

This kind woman need deliverance(eventhough I don't believe in it) I just have to make this exception.

she needs her bum bum to be whipped. That's what will cure her.

laide4:


I am francisT.

i would never have guessed.....

cococandy:


He even thinks folks don't know he's the one
Dude has been pained from the last encounter he had with me.
Na to hide now dey throw jab e fit do.

He's not smart.
He was accusing me of being a moniker just like 5mins did.

5mins was on science/tech section thread i told sum1 about my birthday and he was using the lines to yab me. Dumb dude!

cococandy:
she needs her bum bum to be whipped. That's what will cure her.

Serious whipping o, if I were the husband, I won't even pay her back for putting up an attitude over it.

Kimoni:


i would never have guessed.....

He knows i am the one. I am not pretending.

bukatyne:


What mentality?

If a husband believes He is the c in c, He must pay for it.


Not saying that 's What is happening here; that is the belief behind the mentality.

Like a Yoruba adage:

You cannot give a family a wife and add kneeling down (respect/begging) to it.

The husband believes he's the C in C ONLY within his nuclear family and NOT the extended family.

So he can only CONTRIBUTE and not ASSUME FULL responsibility. That is the mentality!

laide4:

He's not smart.
He was accusing me of being a moniker just like 5mins did.

5mins was on science/tech section thread i told sum1 about my birthday and he was using the lines to yab me. Dumb dude!

me I know the thread that's paining him.

It was right after that he started targeting me.

Emotional baby imp

TooNoisy:


Answer freecocoa na, we are all astonished at your level of extreme intelligence or idiocy!

Madam, How would I respond to you without quoting you?

Ode

damiso:
This is a bit extreme as the bills in question is the wife mother's medical bills.. But there are loads of women who believe that any money they spend in the household is a 'loan' to their husbands. Some will not cook a certain type of food that THEY feel like eating even if they have the money because the feeding money hubby dropped is not enough for it (don't get it sha in this one short life that we have if I was not married won't I feed myself ni ) . Countless who will stay in darkness and not buy diesel till the husband gets back even if they have the money (again who is in the darkness )

That said some men encourage that 'almighty alpha behaviour I must provide everything behaviour'(we had one on another thread today ) they feel that's the only way they can get 'respect' . I know I would be super irritated by it as a man especially if I know you have the money.its like leech behaviour to me.


I don't get it sha and never will but we are all different. I was brought not to feel entitled to anything and if my hubby does things for my parents I don't take it for granted as his 'responsibility'

I even know working women whose husbands pay ALL or most of the big ticket bills that still get upset that they don't get an allowance. Now I am not saying you can't get each other gifts ( my husband puts money in my acct sometimes and says buy yourself something nice) but to actually resent the man for not doing it when you have your own money to do as you wish is something I can't get.

Maybe am too proud sha

Dami, even whatsoever mentality, it should not get to extended family. The woman may have brothers, sisters or even a father. Should the man now shoulder all their responsibilities because he married one of them?

C in C even in the extreme is applicable to the nuclear family. Very soon if the wife gives money to a friend or a beggar on the street she will collect it back. May be she also collects her church offering back too.

By the way she is working o!

bukatyne:


Madam, How would I respond to you without quoting you?

Ode

You are Sooo not funny! Mor0n!

nltrue:


Look at this gay dude,you think everyone is jobless and useless as you are.What do you know about job that your stupid father didn't teach you?
Has your ashawo mother pay your fees yet?
You are gay,whether you acknowledge it or not,we know.
You have no life outside here,you keep coming back even when you are ban.How do you live with your self?
No job,no father,no life,no money....

Dont mind francis. The 17yr old paaained teenaga
Loolz

laide4:

What a scum of the earth.
Tell that to your mother, asinine.
You are a shameless she-cow sired by a worthless father.
Scared? Expose your real moniker, oragutan and a rectum licker.
You are nothing but a worthless being with an intelligent quotient at its nadir, fvcking befuddled oaf.

Useless son of a LovePeddler,who are you?You are nothing here and outside NL.
So he spent his Bday here and alone?ahahahahahahahha lonely dude.
What about your uncle who dis-virgin you?didn't he give you your usual dose?
Shameless useless lonely vagabond with no father figure,struggling in life.You think you are young?your mates are done with university and working,making money.You kept repeating classes because your mother can't afford to pay your school fees.
A 23 years old transgendered with no ambition,he started a blog then failed,a failure you are.

Francistony yuh obsession wit 5minsmadness knowz no bounds

Yuh will kip on creating new monikerz til yuh leave diz site

Efeswerve:



Dont mind francis. The 17yr old paaained teenaga
Loolz

17 years old,who told you?he has been deceiving people here,the gay is 23 years old jobless,useless,lonely she.male.
He is a failure,his father abandon him and his mum when he was told that francistony is a cursed child.His mother couldn't get pregnant so she had to sleep with the drunkard by the road side.

nltrue:


Useless son of a LovePeddler,who are you?You are nothing here and outside NL.
So he spent his Bday here and alone?ahahahahahahahha lonely dude.
What about your uncle who dis-virgin you?didn't he give you your usual dose?
Shameless useless lonely vagabond with no father figure,struggling in life.You think you are young?your mates are done with university and working,making money.You kept repeating classes because your mother can't afford to pay your school fees.
A 23 years old transgendered with no ambition,he started a blog then failed,a failure you are.

A worthless shecow scared to post with her real moniker.
Lonely plus depressed simpleton.
You are nothing but an ill-bred gutter rat with no achievement to its laurel, nincompoop.
Go choke yourself in satan's heine. Goblin.

freecocoa:
I'm confused, please help me out here, c in c of what/who exactly? How is it remotely reasonable that he "must" pay?

Households are run in different modes depending on the belief system of the couple.

Some men believe they are Commander in Chief and rule their household with a heavy hand. Their word is law and they are the sole provider e.g. a colleague of mine said his wife cannot watch teleemundo because He doesn't like it and it is 'his money' and He paid for it. I willbet that the wife will never pay the subscription If it expires neither will the husband allow it; it has broken his control over What his wife watches.

Extend it to other things.

C in Cs generally maintain their rule with money.

In some families, the husband is responsible for all the wife's family especially nuclear.

The husband wanting to 'borrow' tHe money from his wife also speaks volumes.