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Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by crystalzoe: 5:12am On Jul 31, 2015 |
TV01:well said! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Lucasbalo(m): 5:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
AdaEkube:You make the most sense. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Smooyis(m): 5:21am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Doh I feel your pain but just be a little patient because of your two kids. Everything will work itself out soon. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ElFenomeno1: 5:31am On Jul 31, 2015 |
ozycy: She hasn't said anywhere the hubby is based in Yankee dunce |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Ayomel(m): 5:33am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa:first I think you are a good wife so will advise you to stay that way. Secondly you said your husband is married to only you. Your marriage have no problem. So please don't creat problem for your self. Your man is there working to give you and your children a better life. The only way u can help the marriage is to find a way to help and support your marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 5:38am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2: You and the 33 people that liked your post are obviously children. What can kids do that your husband should, stating with sex? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by creekman(m): 5:44am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Op, my candid advise is for you to investigate very well if ur husband has another wife or he's in a very strong relationship in wherever he is.You never can be too sure. Your findings will definitely inform ur next decision to make. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Raiders: 5:46am On Jul 31, 2015 |
supereagle:or maybe the man don't have enough money or good job to relocate his family. The process of moving a family overseas is expensive. some Nigeria prefer leaving their family back home while they work in US. My uncle works and live in US but his family and wife is back home in Nigeria. he always visit during the holidays |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by DWJOBScom(m): 5:47am On Jul 31, 2015 |
innervoice: from the story I don't think he has another lady wherever he is. The fact that he tried getting his family over proves that. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 6:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
innervoice: Are you deaf? |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by handsomeyitayo(m): 6:02am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa:OP u see what you hav caused urself..when they say do nt jump into relationship, be patient and time to study each other ..u would hav find time to investigate about him..the reason why you marry him is bcoz he is a readymade husband, financially ok .u never bothered abt maybe he is travellin out..now u are feelin lonely..i wil advice u that u better carry ur cross..just gba fo olorun..and watch over ur children..dnt go and be sleepin around oo..it dangerous..dnt invite problems to ur peaceful home..just be prayerful.always use prayer to support ur husband ..do not adulterize .. .u children ar hs prototype..just c them as if u ar with ur husband.. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Luyeanka(f): 6:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
kaorama:In your senses, you feel it's smart to offer advice without background knowledge of the problem. That shows your level of smartness. The OP did as I said and now she's getting better advice from wise people. Dear, get therapy, motherly love or Jesus, you need at least one of these. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 6:34am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Cheri Kam Bia marriage.... One chance . People get mind sha. How can I see my kids once a year..no matter the sweetness of any Fanny am Swindling. The guy is living double life. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by kraftykc(m): 6:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Lol this is an asinine quote if I ever saw one. Do u expect her to talk to her kids about her day like adults, or take them for a romantic walk? Or maybe she should hold them in the night when she longs to touch someone or better still run to them when house and office duties start to swamp her. I didn't even mention the most crucial part sef. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ndugoodnews: 6:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Keep ur faith together things must surely change some day . |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Harfisco(m): 6:38am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa: hmmmm, please think twice before taking any steps that may put your marriage in problem.i urge you to discuss this issues with his family members mostly his parents and see how it goes |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by kazmanbanjoko(m): 6:38am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by gregokara: 6:44am On Jul 31, 2015 |
This is really touching. You go to bed every night without your man and you have married neighbors around you. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ebakhaiyhe(m): 6:45am On Jul 31, 2015 |
If you have being patient with him all these years, I request that you apply more caution. I appeal to you that no matter how challenging your situation is now, never submit yourself into the arm of another man. If you start, you would not be able to end it. You will end up ruining your marriage and the life of your children. Just be patient and pray to God for financial uplifting. Part of the truth about his financial situation, you already know and that was why the embassy refused your visa application. Lastly, never you consider your marriage to him as a great mistake. The Lord will see you through and eventually unit both of you together. Patient is golden 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by dozzynet(m): 6:57am On Jul 31, 2015 |
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Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by leefbi: 6:59am On Jul 31, 2015 |
You are a second wife just move on, I'm sorry |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by AleAirHub(m): 7:15am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia:Good morning Jorussia Same thing happen to our co-tenant in benin - city, the lady waited for good whole 17yrs before her husband finally relocated to Nigeria. But the lady was tempted along the line and the whole issues was resolve base on Benin Traditions. So they are happily living together for good since the lady husband relocated.... My advice for Her is to keep praying and trusting God for Miracle. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by liveexoticfish: 7:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
1st don't and don't divoice !!!!!!! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 7:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa:Do some feasibility studies before is next visit or vacation. Telling him to come back without helping him with how or what to come back to might make things worse. if what he does is kind of a professional job then you advice him to plan to search for jobs whenever his around or otherwise make a plan as to how much exactly he could race as capital for a legitimate biusness with good turnover. if you dont come up with these your story could continue like that and I pray the devil won't gain control. Both of you should work these together think of how much capital you need for what. White in our country also do this. They came with something in mind the moment they achieve that they move. Of he eventually get the papers then good for his travelling in and out. Too bad to miss ones children early days. I hope you guys make the best of decision. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by prinwa(f): 7:36am On Jul 31, 2015 |
dozzynet:. Thank you all for the advice. I really do appreciate. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 7:39am On Jul 31, 2015 |
lolaxavier: Pls tell him again |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Princematarazzi(m): 7:41am On Jul 31, 2015 |
My dear printable, it could be that he doesn't want you to see how he's suffering over there or he doesn't want you to suffer. I believe he loves you and don't go outside for sex. Be strong and be patient prinwa: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 7:47am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Women are so insatiable. Please,accept his offer of you and kids only visiting him,as time passes he may change his mind. Just be grateful. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 7:48am On Jul 31, 2015 |
this is sad. you should try to at least communicate more when he's not there. maybe you can find new ways for that to give you a better sense of whether he sees himself with you long term. write each other, send him pictures and ask him to send you pictures of his everyday life as well. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by yollychika(f): 7:48am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Women we nor get sense asweardown... Ur hussy get wife for abroad jawe |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Princematarazzi(m): 7:53am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Chi why you go talk like that na? E no good walai yollychika: |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by saintfrank(m): 8:08am On Jul 31, 2015 |
If he truly love you and his kid's he should be man enough to ask you to travel to where his so as to have a firm family. A lady at your age should have her hubby by her side always not only to spice up your sexual life always' but his your kid's do need a parental steadfast love. I just pray that God should touch your hubby and also touch the friends around him to kindly advice him to bring his family together under one roof. |
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