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Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 5:22pm On Aug 01, 2015
I have this motto about EXes,which is:

Being friends with an EX after a breakup means I was never in love with him during the relationship.

I find it awkward to even talk or chat with my ex not to talk of seeing each other...

So romancelanders,whats ur take,can you be friends with an EX and still feel comfortable with it?
Do you feel like you were never in love with them?

Lets keep it rolling in y'allcheesy

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Re: Friends With My EX? by kossyablaze(m): 5:23pm On Aug 01, 2015
Hmmm well...its not easy buh I must say you really have to move on for ur best interest...I'm still in good terms with my exs tho buh there's this particular one I couldn't even list as an ex.To me,she never existed and I don't know her even when I'm hanged by the balls,I still don't know her.
SEEING,DATING or GOING BACK TO UR EX,IS LIKE LICKING BACK UR VOMITS
Now playing :FETTY WAP-TRAP QUEEN
I C U Behira Smartkossy

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Re: Friends With My EX? by buygala(m): 5:25pm On Aug 01, 2015
I keep being friends with all my exes because one never knows where help may come from in the futuresad ....


And yes.... I still have 'accidental' sex with my exes cool...

That's how they will be like... "Vicky this has to stop, you know I have a boyfriend" cry

And I will be like... "I think so too... I don't know what got over us"sad sad....


Yet we get back to fvcking some days later sad

If not for sex with my exes, how could I have survived being single for so many weeks? sad

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Re: Friends With My EX? by IamLEGEND1: 5:27pm On Aug 01, 2015
there is no being "Friends" with ze ex.
there is only going on the hunt for new prey
Re: Friends With My EX? by MyaBriggs52(f): 5:36pm On Aug 01, 2015
Well it depends on the reason behind the breakup. I don't think there is anything wrong in being friends with an EX if it was mutual.
Re: Friends With My EX? by bammy777(m): 5:39pm On Aug 01, 2015
Life with different people. As for me , Ex "till we meet in next life ". Ex don't exist.
Re: Friends With My EX? by Princeparix(m): 5:40pm On Aug 01, 2015
A f**k that has been f**ked can be re-f**ked



I still remain friends with my ex but the eating-long-spoon kind of friends undecided

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Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 01, 2015
MyaBriggs52:
Well it depends on the reason behind the breakup. I don't think there is anything wrong in being friends with an EX if it was mutual.
hi.

Is this mayapop
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 01, 2015
eeeew.



Keeping contact with an ex is disgusting,its like sniffing spoilt food,now imagine having sex with an ex,that's eating ur vomit.
That's what it is to me sha.

If u are my ex don't text me,don't call me,don't wish me a happy birthday,just buzz off!


Exes are bad news.




Op.its BEIGN not been.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 5:54pm On Aug 01, 2015
buygala:
I keep being friends with all my exes because one never knows where help may come from in the futuresad ....


And yes.... I still have 'accidental' sex with my exes cool...

That's how they will be like... "Vicky this has to stop, you know I have a boyfriend" cry

And I will be like... "I think so too... I don't know what got over us"sad sad....


Yet we get back to fvcking some days later sad

If not for sex with my exes, how could I have survived being single for so many weeks? sad
HAHAHHAHA...a player spotted,gurgle come and see him

Cutehector na so u sef dey do o,even black mrcock and john4aguero...or bankyblue.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by MyaBriggs52(f): 5:55pm On Aug 01, 2015
Largas:
hi.
Is this mayapop
No am not
Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 5:59pm On Aug 01, 2015
ahsekeena:
eeeew.
Keeping contact with an ex is disgusting,its like sniffing spoilt food,now imagine having sex with an ex,that's eating ur vomit.
That's what it is to me sha.

If u are my ex don't text me,don't call me,don't wish me a happy birthday,just buzz off!

Exes are bad news.

Op.its BEIGN not been.

Lol, you're so immature. There's nothing bad in being "friends" with ya exes, but there has to be a limit and you should stay away from seeing each other or spending time together. Apart from these two, everything else can normal - especially phone calls and text messages.

Exes are just human beings, who happen to be part of ya journey in life. It just never worked out but that doesn't make them an enemy.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015
SirShymexx:


Lol, you're so immature. There's nothing bad in being "friends" with ya exes, but there has to be a limit and you should stay away from seeing each other or spending time together. Apart from these two, everything else can normal - especially phone calls and text messages.

Exes are just human beings, who happen to be part of ya journey in life. It just never worked out but that doesn't make them an enemy.

Pls tell her again. Her comment and way of reasoning almost made me throw up.
I am friends with some of my exes, we have a good platonic relationship now, they will always be my friend, some are married with kids now.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 6:15pm On Aug 01, 2015
sinestro24:


Pls tell her again. Her comment and way of reasoning almost made me throw up.
I am friends with some of my exes, we have a good platonic relationship now, they will always be my friend, some are married with kids now.

That's what's up. A lot of exes know more about you and will always care about you more than most people, especially if the relationship was a long term one. So why deny yourself the privilege that comes with getting to know them and bringing them into ya life for a long period?

A lot of exes are like bosom friends you had sexual relationships. And once you can negate the sex bit, by not put yourself in a space where it will happen - then there's no harm in keeping the friendship, unless the individual is perverted.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 01, 2015
SirShymexx:


Lol, you're so immature. There's nothing bad in being "friends" with ya exes, but there has to be a limit and you should stay away from seeing each other or spending time together. Apart from these two, everything else can normal - especially phone calls and text messages.

Exes are just human beings, who happen to be part of ya journey in life. It just never worked out but that doesn't make them an enemy.





And u think u are mature? Becos u are friends with ur exes that miraculously makes u more mature than I am?





Well,its ur choice and It doesn't have to be mine.

I don't see my exes as enemies,we just stop being friends. Simple

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Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2015
kossyablaze:
Brb
Come back na...u just buy land sinceundecided

Adeh4 where at thou
Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2015
ahsekeena:

And u think u are mature? Becos u are friends with ur exes that miraculously make u more mature than I am?

Well,its ur choice and I doesn't have to be mine.

I don't see my exes as enemies,we just stop being friends. Simple

Lol. Not claiming anything - being vain is foreign to me. Regardless, immature in the context I was alluding to has to do with inability to take responsibility and lack of wisdom, when it comes to judgement. I'll just stop there

Err, let's take the "mature" bit out of it since it seems that'd hit a nerve. So why would you stop being friends with someone you once saw as ya other half and someone who probably knows/understands you than most people cos it never worked out? Does it have anything to do with ya inability to take responsibility for whatever role you played in the break-up, or you can trust ya judgement when it comes to folks you were sexually/romantically linked to in the past?
Re: Friends With My EX? by McBeee(m): 6:37pm On Aug 01, 2015
misspicy:
I have this motto about EXes,which is:

Being friends with an EX after a breakup means I was never in love with him during the relationship.

I find it awkward to even talk or chat with my ex not to talk of seeing each other...

So romancelanders,whats ur take,can you be friends with an EX and still feel comfortable with it?
Do you feel like you were never in love with them?

Lets keep it rolling in y'allcheesy
same here
if i use to be in love with u, even if we didnt date, we cant be friends
cos the feelings and awkwardness will be all over the place
Re: Friends With My EX? by tuffgongjo(m): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2015
I keep 'em as friends cus of emergency Kpanshing.
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
there is no being "Friends" with ze ex.
there is only going on the hunt for new prey
Preyshocked...ha hummmm
Re: Friends With My EX? by IamLEGEND1: 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2015
misspicy:
Preyshocked...ha hummmm
That's how we (hunt)roll
#ApexPredators
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 01, 2015
friends with benefits.....cos "once debe, always debe"
Re: Friends With My EX? by Cutehector(m): 6:54pm On Aug 01, 2015
misspicy:

HAHAHHAHA...a player spotted,gurgle come and see him

hector na so u sef dey do o,even black mrcock and john4aguero...or bankyblue.
misspicy, pls be my ex gurlfrnd
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:59pm On Aug 01, 2015
Cutehector:
misspicy, pls be my ex gurlfrnd
I was never your current gf.undecided
What do u tink abt this?
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 7:03pm On Aug 01, 2015
Ladyboss... Farano bae mr NL tomfrench And miss NL tophaz
Where at y'all
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 01, 2015
PEOPLE MOVE ON!


Befriending an ex, invites terrible and unnecessary flashbacks, sandwiched with Depression..

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Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Aug 01, 2015
What's wrong with being friends with an ex? Not all, but some personalities and experiences have the ability to inspire a move from relationship to mutual friendship. Although, I gotta say there're some true-born actors out there who'll play the role of a friend rather convincingly, for years, only to pull something funny, so I'd urge you to exercise caution and weed out the bullshyt.

I will say that, for me, there're limits to post-relationship friendships that aren't there otherwise.

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Re: Friends With My EX? by Gurgle(f): 7:20pm On Aug 01, 2015
misspicy:

HAHAHHAHA...a player spotted,gurgle come and see him

Cutehector na so u sef dey do o,even black mrcock and john4aguero...or bankyblue.

LOL lipsrsealed please don't call me again haha

mehhhhn embarassed
Re: Friends With My EX? by vizkiz: 7:21pm On Aug 01, 2015
ahsekeena:
eeeew.

Keeping contact with an ex is disgusting,its like sniffing spoilt food,now imagine having sex with an ex,that's eating ur vomit.
That's what it is to me sha.

If u are my ex don't text me,don't call me,don't wish me a happy birthday,just buzz off!


Exes are bad news.

Op.its BEIGN not been.

yeah, that is why I always tell you to upgrade! undecided
Re: Friends With My EX? by Cutehector(m): 7:57pm On Aug 01, 2015
misspicy:

I was never your current gf.undecided

What do u tink abt this?
lol I think I hav to do smth abt it wink
Re: Friends With My EX? by boynigeria(m): 7:59pm On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 01, 2015
SirShymexx:


Lol. Not claiming anything - being vain is foreign to me. Regardless, immature in the context I was alluding to has to do with inability to take responsibility and lack of wisdom, when it comes to judgement. I'll just stop there

Err, let's take the "mature" bit out of it since it seems that'd hit a nerve. So why would you stop being friends with someone you once saw as ya other half and someone who probably knows/understands you than most people cos it never worked out? Does it have anything to do with ya inability to take responsibility for whatever role you played in the break-up, or you can trust ya judgement when it comes to folks you were sexually/romantically linked to in the past?

I'm gonna keep my reply simple.



If the person knows/understands me so well,why then did we break up? U'll ask,how about exes I broke it off with,it means I did not know/understand the person as well! What's the point of being friends with someone I do not understand well. U make friends,u lose friends.





When dealing with past relationships,I live by one rule;there's no future in the past. Especially when I go into a new relationship, I severe all contact with my ex. Would u like ur gurl calling up her ex boyfriend in the name of "keeping in touch"? Do u know the "okafor's law"?

Well,I won't like it if my man calls his ex for any reason whatsoever. U can't date me and still be calling ur ex girlfriend,tori kini? And what do exes have that I cannot get elsewhere? What?

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