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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 27, 2015
chibwike:
Your opinion tho'. Am also a member of the public. and to me its just fun.

case closed
Why won't it be just fun to you? Do you know any better? No, you don't.

You're duller that the blunt side of a very sharp knife.

Don't bother quoting me again.

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 27, 2015
chibwike:
Your opinion tho'. Am also a member of the public. and to me its just fun.

case closed


grin cheesy

When young folks get all worked up about a tiny thread.... Lolz...it's funny cheesy and disappointing sad

It's fun to me bro. Kids everywhere... undecided

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by chibwike(m): 12:16am On Jul 27, 2015
Blackett:
Why won't it be just fun to you? Do you know better? No.

You're duller that the blunt side of a very sharp knife.

Don't bother quoting me again.
You must have been given an award for the most intelligent individual on earth

congrats man grin

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:18am On Jul 27, 2015
Emusmith, I think you don't know what a pout is. Reminds you of bingo? An insect or fly drops on your tongue while pouting? You obviously don't know what a pout is.

Poutings are cool. smiley

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Deejavuu(f): 12:19am On Jul 27, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Emus..mith, I think you don't know what a pout is. Reminds you of bingo? An insect or fly drops on your tongue while pouting? You obviously don't know what a pout is.

Poutings are cool. smiley

grin grin

lipsrsealed .. I think pouting has a new style
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:30am On Jul 27, 2015
Deejavuu:


grin grin

lipsrsealed .. I think pouting has a new style
I tire o. grin
We no hear the news of the new style o. grin
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Deejavuu(f): 12:40am On Jul 27, 2015
AgapeCharis:
I tire o. grin
We no hear the news of the new style o. grin

It's trending o..

Okbye lipsrsealed
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:56am On Jul 27, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Emusmith, I think you don't know what a pout is. Reminds you of bingo? An insect or fly drops on your tongue while pouting? You obviously don't know what a pout is.

Poutings are cool. smiley
u took that out of my head,lol...even guys are pouting these days...

y'all need to give girls a break,everyone has his/her own struggle...if I put on a ton of make up,just so I feel pretty,and then feel happy too,that should be a good thing,afterall happiness is key..in the end girls would always be girls,even pretry girls pout in pictures and wear butt pad and what not too..so I don't think u have a totally valud point..

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 1:19am On Jul 27, 2015
Deejavuu:


grin grin

lipsrsealed .. I think pouting has a new style


Yes na grin
#back to
sleep#
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by malonephill(m): 6:10pm On Jul 27, 2015
cool
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Abimbolaile(f): 6:05pm On Jul 28, 2015
safarigirl:
Thank you for your insightful post, but let me tell you a reality you fail to realise.

This write-up is some inconsequential BULLSHIT.....girls wey dey change DP everytime do so because they take a lot of pics......and there are people who appreciate them. I change DPs once in at least 3 months and ain't nobody chatting me up for that.

Secondly, the 'mirage' you speak of, is what heightens marketability. Yes, if you want to get attention, you have to look shiny, nobody buys the dull looking toys. Even you, would not walk up to a girl with zero make-up and 'attachment' on the road or anywhere. No, people are drawn to the attractive girls, Nd the 'brighter' you are, the more people will approach you. It is a fact many male hypocrites here will attempt to dispute.

Thirdly, any girl wey wan open leg go always find guy wey wan make her leg dey permanently open and that guy will marry her. Afterall, there are many renowned oloshos now living happily with their husbands while all the girls whose legs remained closed are starting to develop cobwebs between them cuz nobody has time to start welding that shiiit open.



So, Mr. OP, for everything you find nauseating about any girl's attitude, there are thousands of guys that find it attractive, you're just one dude in over a billion on earth, your opinion will only matter to one girl- your wife.


OMG!!! you just nailed it....take five abeg! thank you jare

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 28, 2015
safarigirl:
Thank you for your insightful post, but let me tell you a reality you fail to realise.

This write-up is some inconsequential BULLSHIT.....girls wey dey change DP everytime do so because they take a lot of pics......and there are people who appreciate them. I change DPs once in at least 3 months and ain't nobody chatting me up for that.

Secondly, the 'mirage' you speak of, is what heightens marketability. Yes, if you want to get attention, you have to look shiny, nobody buys the dull looking toys. Even you, would not walk up to a girl with zero make-up and 'attachment' on the road or anywhere. No, people are drawn to the attractive girls, Nd the 'brighter' you are, the more people will approach you. It is a fact many male hypocrites here will attempt to dispute.

Thirdly, any girl wey wan open leg go always find guy wey wan make her leg dey permanently open and that guy will marry her. Afterall, there are many renowned oloshos now living happily with their husbands while all the girls whose legs remained closed are starting to develop cobwebs between them cuz nobody has time to start welding that shiiit open.


So, Mr. OP, for everything you find nauseating about any girl's attitude, there are thousands of guys that find it attractive, you're just one dude in over a billion on earth, your opinion will only matter to one girl- your wife.
Ur head dey der wink

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by SWAGGAVILLAGE(m): 11:21pm On Aug 04, 2015
tru
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:23pm On Aug 04, 2015
Teempakguy:
I honestly don't want to comment on this topic because I will end up contradicting. lipsrsealed
Same here...
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 04, 2015
Abimbolaile:



OMG!!! you just nailed it....take five abeg! thank you jare
are tou guilty of any?
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Dindondin(m): 11:26pm On Aug 04, 2015
emusmith:


Your opinion though...


come and pay for using my Last Bullet as conclusion.
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:26pm On Aug 04, 2015
jemimaa01:
u took that out of my head,lol...even guys are pouting these days...

y'all need to give girls a break,everyone has his/her own struggle...if I put on a ton of make up,just so I feel pretty,and then feel happy too,that should be a good thing,afterall happiness is key..in the end girls would always be girls,even pretry girls pout in pictures and wear butt pad and what not too..so I don't think u have a totally valud point..
Spell well... Then I can read your bunkum
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Goldenheart(m): 11:26pm On Aug 04, 2015
Na them sabi jare... e tire me
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by sonofananimal2: 11:27pm On Aug 04, 2015
emusmith:
Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".


At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly.
Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.

Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast

The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?

"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!


My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self"wink.


Quickly, lemmie list some:




1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this #
Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way! sad

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies

It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross?
Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


3. They open their legs

Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."

What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.

Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.

CHANGE is at the door!


4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly

As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes?
Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity!
To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world.
Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.



5. "Pouting" on a selfie

The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.

MODIFIED


6. Bleaching Their Skin

This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION.
FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones?
#Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#



7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials

"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.

What do I mean?
Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.

The list is endless...

Change, I say CHANGE.


LAST BULLET:
If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.

Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember?
At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..

Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major!
The earlier the better, in terms of many things.

Moral Lesson:
Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself
MY SIGNATURE SAID IT ALL angry

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by lonelydora: 11:29pm On Aug 04, 2015
Hian
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by MzThormi(f): 11:30pm On Aug 04, 2015
Exactly my opinion
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 04, 2015
OP half of what you've written is bullshit.
I love changing my dps on bbm, I love fashion and trends- so I take a lot of pictures when I can.

Op don't you have better concerns tho? Like the economy? Security challenges in the country?

I believe people should be free to do whatever makes em happy, and I also believe everybody's beautiful. It's weird seeing a guy post this, like you're sad and beefing beautiful girls who apparently mostly say NO to you.

0_o

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by tartarus(m): 11:35pm On Aug 04, 2015
Why do most guys assume ladies want to look beautiful for them?


Anyways can't a lady decide to look good for herself? must u assume she's doing it to attract the love of a man?

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by hollowpot15684(m): 11:35pm On Aug 04, 2015
i always tell u guys to watch out for this.

Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by scentmarlc(m): 11:37pm On Aug 04, 2015
Teempakguy:
I honestly don't want to comment on this topic because I will end up contradicting. lipsrsealed

Me too...........



Baba how far
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by OluwaChinenyenwa: 11:37pm On Aug 04, 2015
Good to know that we still have intelligent people who read and counter the hogwash when necessary. .


And did the O.P just call someone a kid for stating a different opinion??
Now who is the kid that can't accept other opinions or even debate intelligently.
Rubbish..

I must open thread to bash girls.
If you must do, please conjure up intelligent write up


Thread dead on arrival.

I am sure it was only moved to FP to show you that we still have matured peeps who don't focus their time on 99.9% of irrelevancies..

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:42pm On Aug 04, 2015
scentmarlc:


Me too...........



Baba how far
I'm cool jare. cheesy
How are the awards going?
I have voted in the romance section tho.
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:44pm On Aug 04, 2015
tartarus:
Why do most guys assume ladies want to look beautiful for them?


Anyways can't a lady decide to look good for herself? must u assume she's doing it to attract the love of a man?


I wonder!

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:45pm On Aug 04, 2015
Today on FP dere are already about 3 threads agaist ladies. Watapun na? Na d ops dem send abi na d mods dem send. Leave the ladies biko and deal with a lady of ur choice. We got enof problems in naija already.

None of these apply to me anyway.

Ok but I pout a few times in my picture n dat affects u? Shior!

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:45pm On Aug 04, 2015
Ladies pls do your thing on social pads,spread,pout,change dp as if changin the diapers of a baby with a runnin stomach,pls even photoshop obama pics shaking hands with you and upload it using #whitehousethings on point,yours is the world and everything in it.

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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by vivypretty(f): 11:47pm On Aug 04, 2015
the arguements tough here die and am enjoying it
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:47pm On Aug 04, 2015
Oh! Not this rigmarole again!!

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