Blackett:
Wondering how any of it is your business. . . I often wonder if folks like you have a life you care about. It's rather appalling how you can sit down and analyze other peoples lives and choices, and call it appalling.

Newsflash: It's their lives, their decisions. The consequences of their actions, they live with it, not you or anyone else. Start worrying about your own life and how to make yourself better. Pointing fingers at others and analyzing the lives of others doesn't make you a better person. . . Doesn't even pay your bills. It only earns you "likes" on nairaland from your fellow jobless beings who also have no life, than to sit down and nit pick the lives of others.

Blackett:
Stop this nonsense crowd mentality bullshit. . . Anyone who writes rubbish for fun should do so within the confines of his bedroom, roll it up, and send it to the thrash can. . . You don't put out your half thought out observations as a matter of "fact" on a PUBLIC domain, call it fun, and then pick offense when members of the PUBLIC call it the bullshit it rightly is. If it's for fun, it shouldn't be made public.

Now, marry your ass to a nice chair.

safarigirl:


Secondly, the 'mirage' you speak of, is what heightens marketability. Yes, if you want to get attention, you have to look shiny, nobody buys the dull looking toys. Even you, would not walk up to a girl with zero make-up and 'attachment' on the road or anywhere. No, people are drawn to the attractive girls, Nd the 'brighter' you are, the more people will approach you. It is a fact many male hypocrites here will attempt to dispute.


So, Mr. OP, for everything you find nauseating about any girl's attitude, there are thousands of guys that find it attractive, you're just one dude in over a billion on earth, your opinion will only matter to one girl- your wife.

mirexxx:

I know right?

Hey!

Deejavuu:
Op.as much as i agree with some of your points. But 4 and 5 is void, some very mature people (in age and reasoning ) change thier dps always. It's used to some people, it doesn't have anything to do with maturity. ...


Pouting suits some ladies very well, so how's is "appalling "..

babyfaceafrica:
Nice post....I don't really agree to all but I won't resort to insults and abusses like some people here...just an advice OP....u don't rily need to reply anytime you re mentioned ,there are certains things u need to ignore..I guess u did dat latter

tunnamania11:

What happens after conning a guy with a mask (heavy makeup) ? She gets laid and dumped afterwards.
You dont need to makeup to attract people, being original gives u a competitive advantage. No matter how beautiful a girl is, if she uses excessive make up, she becomes a masquerade to me. Why the use of makeup when you are naturally beautiful? what do u stand to gain looking beautiful in d day and ugly at night? Beauty lies in simplicity not wearing of mask.
As for your info, a girl with bare face command respect than mask wearing girl because her originality must be appreciated by sane beings .

Teempakguy:
I honestly don't want to comment on this topic because I will end up contradicting.

Teempakguy:
I honestly don't want to comment on this topic because I will end up contradicting.

Blackett:
The way I choose to address an issue is what it is - my choice. . . I don't see how it's any of your fvcking business.

Learn how not to interject in the choices I make, and stay religiously, on your fvcking lane.

Cheers.

oyewale0001:
meaning, u ar part of those dat is encouraging those girl 2 destroy der with all dis habit

safarigirl:
Thank you for your insightful post, but let me tell you a reality you fail to realise.

This write-up is some inconsequential BULLSHIT.....girls wey dey change DP everytime do so because they take a lot of pics......and there are people who appreciate them. I change DPs once in at least 3 months and ain't nobody chatting me up for that.

Secondly, the 'mirage' you speak of, is what heightens marketability. Yes, if you want to get attention, you have to look shiny, nobody buys the dull looking toys. Even you, would not walk up to a girl with zero make-up and 'attachment' on the road or anywhere. No, people are drawn to the attractive girls, Nd the 'brighter' you are, the more people will approach you. It is a fact many male hypocrites here will attempt to dispute.

Thirdly, any girl wey wan open leg go always find guy wey wan make her leg dey permanently open and that guy will marry her. Afterall, there are many renowned oloshos now living happily with their husbands while all the girls whose legs remained closed are starting to develop cobwebs between them cuz nobody has time to start welding that shiiit open.


So, Mr. OP, for everything you find nauseating about any girl's attitude, there are thousands of guys that find it attractive, you're just one dude in over a billion on earth, your opinion will only matter to one girl- your wife.

Blackett:
Wondering how any of it is your business. . . I often wonder if folks like you have a life you care about. It's rather appalling how you can sit down and analyze other peoples lives and choices, and call it appalling.

Newsflash: It's their lives, their decisions. The consequences of their actions, they live with it, not you or anyone else. Start worrying about your own life and how to make yourself better. Pointing fingers at others and analyzing the lives of others doesn't make you a better person. . . Doesn't even pay your bills. It only earns you "likes" on nairaland from your fellow jobless beings who also have no life, than to sit down and nit pick the lives of others.

Blackett:
Wondering how any of it is your business. . . I often wonder if folks like you have a life you care about. It's rather appalling how you can sit down and analyze other peoples lives and choices, and call it appalling.

Newsflash: It's their lives, their decisions. The consequences of their actions, they live with it, not you or anyone else. Start worrying about your own life and how to make yourself better. Pointing fingers at others and analyzing the lives of others doesn't make you a better person. . . Doesn't even pay your bills. It only earns you "likes" on nairaland from your fellow jobless beings who also have no life, than to sit down and nit pick the lives of others.

Musicminista:


Sorry to say Im quite surprised and kinda dissapointed with some of your statements. And baffled at the likes?? Are you now advicing ladies to be promiscuous? If you are true to yourself you will admit that very few guys marry ladies for only beauty and if they do? theres always adultery and unresting the marriage. My girl puts on virtually no make atall not even powder and Iv had guy walk up to me and say this you woman is gorgeous. She has a beautiful chatacter and dresses gorgeously n is respectful to everyone around her. I believe ders hardly any nan who will pick fake eye lashes over natural beauty and home culture. Well when we all get married we will know the truth of what entails a happy marriage.

Deejavuu:
Op.as much as i agree with some of your points. But 4 and 5 is void, some very mature people (in age and reasoning ) change thier dps always. It's used to some people, it doesn't have anything to do with maturity. ...


Pouting suits some ladies very well, so how's is "appalling "..

emusmith:
Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".


At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly.
Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.

Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast

The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?

"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!


My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self".

Quickly, lemmie list some:

---

1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this #
Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way!

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies

It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross?
Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


3. They open their legs

Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."

What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.

Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.

CHANGE is at the door!


4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly

As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes?
Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity!
To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world.
Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.



5. "Pouting" on a selfie

The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.

MODIFIED


6. Bleaching Their Skin

This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION.
FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones?
#Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#



7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials

"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.

What do I mean?
Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.

The list is endless...

Change, I say CHANGE.


LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.

Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember?
At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..

Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major!
The earlier the better, in terms of many things.

Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself

Deejavuu:


Same thing with the thread. Your opinion

emusmith:
Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".


At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly.
Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.

Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast

The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?

"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!


My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self".

Quickly, lemmie list some:

---

1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this #
Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way!

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies

It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross?
Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


3. They open their legs

Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."

What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.

Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.

CHANGE is at the door!


4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly

As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes?
Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity!
To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world.
Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.



5. "Pouting" on a selfie

The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.

MODIFIED


6. Bleaching Their Skin

This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION.
FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones?
#Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#



7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials

"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.

What do I mean?
Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.

The list is endless...

Change, I say CHANGE.


LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.

Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember?
At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..

Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major!
The earlier the better, in terms of many things.

Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself

evegran:
OP half of what you've written is bullshit.
I love changing my dps on bbm, I love fashion and trends- so I take a lot of pictures when I can.

Op don't you have better concerns tho? Like the economy? Security challenges in the country?

I believe people should be free to do whatever makes em happy, and I also believe everybody's beautiful. It's weird seeing a guy post this, like you're sad and beefing beautiful girls who apparently mostly say NO to you.

0_o

Truckpusher:
Your fourth opinion is nothing but concocted bullshiit always being spread by women of easy virtue .

When guys wants to finally settle they know exactly the signs and marks to look out for though I've seen some guys that had a tough time with a very iidiotic background running after oloshos, and anything shiny with the right moves will always be their queen - But the real guys won't fall for that shiit and deception instead na better peniss you go chop month in month out until you catch your mugu

Boys dun wisely up finish o.

Musicminista:


Sorry to say Im quite surprised and kinda dissapointed with some of your statements. And baffled at the likes?? Are you now advicing ladies to be promiscuous? If you are true to yourself you will admit that very few guys marry ladies for only beauty and if they do? theres always adultery and unresting the marriage. My girl puts on virtually no make atall not even powder and Iv had guy walk up to me and say this you woman is gorgeous. She has a beautiful chatacter and dresses gorgeously n is respectful to everyone around her. I believe ders hardly any nan who will pick fake eye lashes over natural beauty and home culture. Well when we all get married we will know the truth of what entails a happy marriage.

Deejavuu:
Op.as much as i agree with some of your points. But 4 and 5 is void, some very mature people (in age and reasoning ) change thier dps always. It's used to some people, it doesn't have anything to do with maturity. ...


Pouting suits some ladies very well, so how's is "appalling "..