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Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:17pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
ronald4lif:I believe the girl was talking about giving out money, raw cash, ego, kudi, owo!!! It's totally different if I take you out to a nice restaurant or buy you a lovely necklace, earrings, or perfume etc. but making it out to sound like 'IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY COS WE DATING?' Hell no! 2 Likes |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 6:19pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I think the idea of spending on her should be while you on dates or doing things together. That would be nice and romantic but I don't agree it is advisable to give her money unless maybe she is not well off. 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:20pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Mrcork...come and see this homebase female begging for moineyyy 2 Likes |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 6:25pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zaragal: Disclaimer: this is a public forum Won't you feel ashamed of yourself when you collect from your bf? I blame the sense of entitlement you grew up with. What you have should be enough for you and what he has can go into planning for your future. And if you are not financially well off, of course he can help but would you the same if you were in his shoes I can see why my brother told me categorically that he can't marry a lady who isn't from an average home. 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by TS2(m): 6:26pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zaragal: The day you have someone new on your p and you guys go out for the first time, let me give you one dub...offer to pay at least HALF of the bill and no less. He might not agree and if you are insistent he might. The next time, offer to pay half or even if its a little fraction. Of course he's not likely to let you. By that you would have won his respect forever and if he has sense, he wouldn't let you go. You would also have painted yourself as an independent, not-fazed-by-your-cash picture even though its all yarns. You'll thank me later. Btw, I'll quote whoever I want to quote. 2 Likes |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 6:27pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
@zaragal, that situation is different. He shoupd have helped but I don't think a man should take responsibilities of his GF except she is in truly in need. |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:32pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos:Just yesterday I was having this same discussion with a colleague at work. Love alone is no longer enough. And then we blame the super rich who get married to only people in their circle? I don't blame them. An average girl wants to milk you dry the moment the both of you meet. My dear, wife-to-be must have something doing as well. 2 Likes |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by ronald4lif(m): 6:32pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zicoraads: I understand she meant cash but for a guy who doesn't believe in handing fiscal gifts he can still assist her to a lab and take up the bills. But shouldn't be mandatory but voluntarily. I'm not even interested about her sickness scenario but about her question of the level of responsibilities a man should bear. While it is true that responsibility should be voluntarily and not obligatory it's something that it's expected of a guy no matter how insignificant the level of the responsibility is. The issue of gender equality which you stated in your initial comment sure contradicts chivalry and the traditional role of which men takes up women's responsibility but not every woman holds such opinion. A lot of women are still comfortable with the status quo and still believes a man leads in the home. And holding them responsible for what they don't subscribe to is unfair and unwarranted. The propagandists of gender equality are feminists. |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by justwise(m): 6:33pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
firstEVA: ...and if you have the fear of fairness what will you be doing with your own money? 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Enockia(m): 6:33pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
deadZONE:i smell it too but it comes from ur moniker |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:35pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Where is Caracta...it's been a while. I would love to see her comment on this issue as well. And MizMyColi...do you also hold same view as the OP? |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:37pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
ronald4lif:That is my point. We are saying the same thing! |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by TS2(m): 6:39pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
The problem with girls like zaragal is that they don't listen to advise from people like us. I am telling you CATEGORICALLY...The only women entitled to my resources are my wife and daughter. Any other is going to be decided by charity, discretion and the situation at hand. 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 6:40pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zicoraads: By the time you realise it, her parents responsibilities will become yours by default because the lady that thinks she deserves a percentage of your income, would also believe that it is your responsibility to take care of her parents. |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 6:43pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos:That one strong oooo Lady, family and parents too? For me though, her financial independence is good enough! I wouldn't begrudge her for coming from a family that is not 'strong' enough |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by ronald4lif(m): 6:45pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos: True. Let me not say further before my stand on this issue get misconstrue as giving backings to giving money to women like a mandate. I only feel that a man should bear some form of financial responsibility in a relationship which includes saloon bills and not restricted to outings and the treats. 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I don't think that is right except he wants her to do a particular style, I can definitely understand that part |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
The same percentage the girl is able to cater.for too You dnt expect your guy to help you financially while you sit back doing nothing. Your guy doesn't owe you nothing. IF you want him to be the giver u must learn to give too dear 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 7:09pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
TS2: wait! Wat is ur advice again cos i see none dear |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 7:26pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zicoraads: Cum are you mad?? Or u are just high on cheap drugs, who is begging for money or are you out of ur senses?? Did u read my post @ all or u have no understanding function of ur air brains, come no let me change am for you jst better get off my thread.... |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 7:28pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos: U lack common sense and it's obvious if you have sense u ll go back to my post and pick up some senses....no offense |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 7:33pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
I so regret posting dis thing....half of the entire Nigerians can't even read a passage and understand...I see y comprehension is always the bad part of English language to read and understand .... In my post I said I don't subscribe to damming from guys as much as I love to be independence, in that regard am confuse if a guy is to carry a gal's responsibility and to wat percent as a matter of fact I said I don't ask guys for me cos I don't knw how to but @least ones in a while express your love, did anybody get to read where I said I was sick....is dat too much...clinic I would help a sick person even if he/she is stranger not to talk of my own man....nairaland men cn be so heartless really Am outta here |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Enockia(m): 7:39pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
classicB: dis is about the best comment ive read on dis tread i feel u joor u too much |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by ronald4lif(m): 7:51pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos: Well, maybe, maybe not. I actually don't see anything wrong with it. I only tend to strictly kick against it on here just to discourage the continuous dependent mentality of a lot of ladies to men. I could be wrong thinking it's the right thing to foot hairdo bills. |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 8:36pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zaragal:Stop begging guys for money All this home base females mehn Go and work and earn money and you won't have to see your boify as a money making venture. God knows I can never, ever, ever think about dating anyone like you...even if am paid to do it 2 Likes |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 8:37pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zaragal: It is obvious you are a pest, It would be great if you could learn how to be self sufficient and responsible 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by ORACLE1975(m): 8:41pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
firstEVA:yes if u think so,but how will my girl wait for before she can buy Maggi? 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by zicoraads: 8:44pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zaragal:And now she is getting emotional 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by jmoore(m): 8:50pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
When will some of you folks be emancipated from this type of mentality? Is he your father? What's wrong in a girl making her own money? Na taboo? 1 Like |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 8:56pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
zicoraads: u re nt worth my tym, if i have no worth u wnt b roamin ard my thread ranting thrash frm ur maggot mouth. Anyways u re nt worth my tym, quote me if u re stupid |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Re: How Many Percent Of A Girl's Responsibility A Guy Should Carry by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
oreos: ok so hw do u guys date, u do i love u 4 mouth, i mean hw do u xpress love?, i cn neva date a nairalanda no b swear |
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