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Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 8:25pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine: Abeg you and freecocoa should kiss and make up |
Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 8:27pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Onegai: @ bold: Lols! This thread was for a purpose, it must be fulfilled |
Re: Submission In Marriage by BABE3: 8:33pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: I'm a Christian o. Come aunty bukatyne, is it possible to be a Christian and not go by the bible? and just love my neighbor as myself ? thoughts on this submission wahala? Dunno, don't care. Sowi. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freshvine(f): 8:34pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: I like freecocoa. She's intelligent and unbiased in her view. She reminds me of late Vivian but this night she treaded the inglorious path |
Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 8:36pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
BABE3: Christian that doesn't believe the Bible? Hmmmm... Thought you would care about it |
Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 8:38pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine: And you decided to tread with her... just kidding We always can't agree... Oya Free, leave the inglorious path |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 8:38pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: Bukatyne, I was going to call you out on your bvllshit but this atheist feminist above has set you straight. Number 1. Buky, you don't have to agree with the bible. Number 2. You do not have the authority to re-write the bible or misinterpret it deliberately. The bible explicitly states that wives are to submit to their husbands as unto the Lord. We all know what submission means and we can either accept to abide by biblical injunctions or dump them. We cannot make them into what we would like. Come on. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 8:41pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Timbuktou: I believe you read the OP? Goodnight 6 Likes |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freecocoa(f): 8:45pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine:You started it, just like you did with phema and I made mention of your husband because that's who you are married and submitting to, which makes you think every other man or woman should be in that type of relationship, all I did was tell you not all men are like that, seeing it as an insult just shows you aren't even comfortable with what you are here preaching. Anyways, I'm not offended at your comment, as I couldn't care less what you think of me, its just disappointing, talking like a woman being single is something shameful. 3 Likes |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 8:47pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: I know this is a masturbatory thread and I'd love to leave you alone but there are others out there who would benefit from another point of view. So, ignore me. Anybody with a functional brain will appreciate the merit in my posts. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 8:51pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: And then you will brook no questioning your opinion? You want everybody to just accept your views? What if my daughter comes here? God forbid she doesn't see a rebuttal to your narrative. Your stand is weakened when it is unfalsifiable. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Submission In Marriage by shaybebaby(f): 8:59pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne:Aaah in an ideal setting. But submission means giving absolute power to me and we know what they say, absolute power corrupts. Where are the cheques and balances in place for the ones who demand submission? 2 Likes |
Re: Submission In Marriage by shaybebaby(f): 9:00pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
babygirlfl:And there lies the problems, interpretations become subjective. 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freecocoa:Exactly, marry a good man who loves you and these submission bla bla won't even apply to you.. Both of you would know how to please each other and also know what to do at almost every point in time, it will flow just like that. ... No room to battle for superiority or otherwise. .. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by babygirlfl: 9:04pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
shaybebaby: These check and balances have always been the problem most people have with submission and headship. What is in place for those who demand submission. People make mistakes. Should people who make mistakes with their choice of partner have to suffer forever or divorce over demand of submission? 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Bibol(f): 9:04pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Caracta: Bet my inlaw you know that ain't petty na |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freshvine(f): 9:17pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: Don't be emotional to your fellow woman. Accept your mistake to enable us move on. Running circus on what is your making makes you look like a sycophant. 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freecocoa(f): 9:20pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:True, it all starts with marrying the right person. I've never had to battle with anyone on this, in a relationship before. It just has never come up and this me here, is the same in the real world with all my ideologies. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freshvine(f): 9:22pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Ideal marriage built fantasizing. Marriage is two temperament coming together to work on their differences for a happy Union. Marriage is PURE work and sacrifice. Trust me with time a typical couple will see things differently. Who will bow matters from that point. 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by shaybebaby(f): 9:23pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freecocoa:Totally foreign to me as well. My previous partners obviously did not receive the memo thankfully. Neither did the present one. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freecocoa(f): 9:28pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine:Just imagine. You do know the meaning of the word 'sycophant' e kwa? How can you tell me to accept a mistake I never made? Babe advice yourself before trying to advice someone else. I'm not anywhere near emotional, you fecked up for taking a jab at me for being single, I don't say that for myself but because of how the society behaves as regards that issue and also being that that is one of the things we are trying to change, there's no shame in being single, being married is not all there is to life, learn that today. 4 Likes |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine:Of course, marriage also involves sacrifices but those sacrifices are made out of love and not compulsion. . When they see things differently, they have to reach a decision/compromise and that decision will still be in the best interest of both of them... In a marriage where the two partners love and value each other, submission or battle for Who is superior, inferior, subordinate, beneath, under or whatever is the least of their problem. .. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by GHoJes: 9:35pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
bukatyne:Its a pleasure! Thanks too. |
Re: Submission In Marriage by freecocoa(f): 9:36pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
shaybebaby:Lol, we are lucky like that. 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by GHoJes: 9:37pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
freshvine:Your dossier? |
Re: Submission In Marriage by dinachi(m): 9:57pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Timbuktou:My brother dont bother yourself. Apart from a few Godly women here, the rest are mastubators and regurgitators intent only on blasphemy and manipulating the word of God to suit their reprobated minds. Here you have women who promote homosexuality and directly challenge God. They submit to their parents, they submit to their bosses in the office but when it comes to their husbands they start questioning his authority and the Bible. Such women will also question God for being a male figure! Thank God for the Godly ones here who are truly representing Biblical marital principles in the face of opposition from desperate people here. 7 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Submission In Marriage by dinachi(m): 10:05pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
My genuine Christian sisters chido and co please open a genuine Christian thread about Godly submission in marriage and we will comment. This thread is an affront on real Christian marital submission opened by people who have no single regard for the Almighty God and the Bible. I am out of here 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Submission In Marriage by snakebeat: 10:08pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Phema:@bolded God is not an author of confusion! Don't play pranks with him! I presume u're a lady for asking such question. As a true christian, the bible should be your ultimate guide. It's written in the bible, honour thy father & thy mother, as a student, it's obligatory to obey your teacher, but that doesn't mean saying NO to anything that goes contrary to the bible isn't right. ''If it's your hand that will lure u into sin, it's better to cut it off''. God is too pure to identify with sin, likewise anything inspired of him, when he said submit to your husband in all things, as a christian u should know he was talking about the good things. Your father ask u to prepare a meal, u refuse. A husband tells his wife to prepare a meal for the family, she refuse, just to prove she's equal to her husband, she starves the family & commits disobedience, which violate's God's command, because what the husband asked of her wasn't against God's command. But when a man tells his wife to sleep with his friend, it's expected of the wife to say NO, because it's adultery, it violate's God's command. I really don't like it when I see feminists dragging God's name into their pride motivated rebellious ideologies. Feminists are bereft of humility, they don't have a modicum of it. We all know the truth, God's commandments are well laid out in the bible, trying to twist God's word all in a bid to suit their misplaced sentiments & pride will only lead them to hell. There is no correlation between feminism & christianity, they are two parallel lines. Feminists should stop scoffing God by making reference to the bible when propagating their pride motivated rebellious ideologies... 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Submission In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: 1 Like |
Re: Submission In Marriage by buggaboo: 10:41pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Richiy: Simple |
Re: Submission In Marriage by Nobody: 10:49pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Lol. I just find it funny that a practising christian. Wants to re-write the bible. It's one thing to not like or subscribe to submission, it's another to lie against the bible in a bid to justify your preferences. 3 Likes |
Re: Submission In Marriage by thorpido(m): 11:18pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
To the critics of the bible who say the bible speaks from both sides of the mouth or people giving their own definition to words e.t.c. The bible was not written in english and so words written in the english bible were translated.Some words could mean more than one meaning e.g knowledge could be eido or ginosko and they don't mean the same thing.Learn about the Septuagint. Submit as used in the bible could be hupakoe or hupotasso. Hupakoe means to obey or subject to.Hupotasso means to be at a disposition of another.It also means to lift one up to a level of worthiness.When the bible says a woman should submit,it's talking about Hupotasso. What's wrong with a woman elevating her husband to a level of worthiness?Of course it goes both ways as shown in other bible verses. 1 Like |
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