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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by mrsmith11(m): 1:04pm On Aug 18, 2015
Come to think of it; maybe some of these girls shouting been raped by a guy has once raped a male child before.

Bunch of rapist grin

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by vick555(m): 1:04pm On Aug 18, 2015
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Na so one lady rape my guy.. My guy run outside unclad..d lady follow am up drag am bk inside room. Na so my niggi dey shout.. Pls am ok ,am ok. Lol. That was in 2012@ gariki , enugu.



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Na so one lady rape my guy.. My guy run outside unclad..d lady follow am up drag am bk inside room. Na so my niggi dey shout.. Pls am ok ,am ok. Lol. That was in 2012@ gariki , enugu.



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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Demmzy15(m): 1:04pm On Aug 18, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Female rape seems common than male rape because of the outcry.... I can bet you that 7 out of 10 guys have been molested one way or another....... if a guy says he has been raped the next question is "didn't you enjoy it?"..
On point, very correct. The mind of people has translated male rape to enjoyment. Many see it as nothing, in most cases,the boy is beaten by the parents.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Atlantian: 1:05pm On Aug 18, 2015
Just like female rape, male rape has a stigma. If people, both male and female are bold enough to come clean, I believe a greater percentage of both males and females have experience sex and sexual abuse in their lives. In the case of the males, they are not forced, they are ignorantly abused. Most males are actually disvirgined by more experienced and older females, not by male suggestions, but by the females' coercion with the ladies making the first and most important moves.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by okotv(m): 1:05pm On Aug 18, 2015
Nice topic. The fight must go on.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Holyfield1(m): 1:05pm On Aug 18, 2015
shaybebaby:

What are you, some kind of sicko? What has your stupid question got to do with the fact that a child was abused and you are busy asking about gory details? You are an animal! angry
Before nko...I ain't denying the fact that I'm an animal, so I don't expect u to do otherwise

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by shaybebaby(f): 1:08pm On Aug 18, 2015
Holyfield1:
Before nko...I ain't denying the fact that I'm an animal, so I don't expect u to do otherwise
Then you should be out down!

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:08pm On Aug 18, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


How many females have you seen ask that question so far?
It's still you guys that would joke about it, same way they are already joking and calling feminist.
If this was a female rape thread, ladies would have been here to tear down that guy, but no_ you guys are here waiting for feminist to talk.
Keep waiting. grin

Please teach your younger brother, cousins and sons to CRYYYY!!!

We are not arguing here if they have actually been molested or not, because any sane human knows that male kids get molested too.
We are trying to understand why orientation on theirs isn't as widespread as their female counterparts.

@bolded it is because of the widespread belief that guys are programmed to enjoy sex irrespective of age.....it has to change.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:09pm On Aug 18, 2015
mrsmith11:
Come to think of it; maybe some of these girls shouting been raped by a guy has once raped a male child before.

Bunch of rapist grin

Hahaha abi o.
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 18, 2015
Okay, so I guess this means one thing . . . men and women can never be equal . . . like seriously, look at the number of guys here confessing to molestation, and it-s like we're sharing jokes. grin
In the end, the difference is biological. Our biological differences which grant men partial superiority.

Okay fine.I'm being a male chauvinist here. But come on! Give a guy a break Na. I've got this huge ego to maintain. tongue

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by daveP(m): 1:10pm On Aug 18, 2015
Had this junior that i noticed was too fragile. He later opened up en said he was raped by an aunt. Since then he couldnt behave manly or like his male folks again.


If he wants to get even a biro from a female adult or a huger classmate, he wont go unless he was escorted.


See the fact is that the outcry is more on the female side, but the ladies get over this than the guys. The expectation that it could have been enjoyed by the guy is so digusting a thought and uncalled for.


Many ladies came out of this stuff years later, but the guys, some have muscles, packs, built BUT it still vivid and frightens them.


Still looking for a constructive contribution from the ladies.......

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:11pm On Aug 18, 2015
Demmzy15:

On point, very correct. The mind of people has translated male rape to enjoyment. Many see it as nothing, in most cases,the boy is beaten by the parents.

..and in most cases the male child is ignorant of what is being done to them.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 1:11pm On Aug 18, 2015
Holyfield1:
Before nko...I ain't denying the fact that I'm an animal, so I don't expect u to do otherwise
Werey. grin grin
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Holyfield1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 18, 2015
shaybebaby:

Then you should be out down!
Is that u being kissed by Oyinbo?
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by camaraderi(m): 1:12pm On Aug 18, 2015
The year was 1988, I was 6 and my aunt will be in her 20's m. Just came to Lagos for the first time from akure. Was staying in Pedro area with my Dad's step sister and she made do all sorts to her. It was years later that I realised the effect of what she has done. Still trying to understand why my aunt will do such a terrible thing to me, one day I will confront her

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:13pm On Aug 18, 2015
daveP:
Had this junior that i noticed was too fragile. He later opened up en said he was raped by an aunt. Since then he couldnt behave manly or like his male folks again.


If he wants to get even a biro from a female adult or a huger classmate, he wont go unless he was escorted.


See the fact is that the outcry is more on the female side, but the ladies get over this than the guys. The expectation that it could have been enjoyed by the guy is so digusting a thought and uncalled for.


Many ladies came out of this stuff years later, but the guys, some have muscles, packs, built BUT it still vivid and frightens them.


Still looking for a constructive contribution from the ladies.......

Exactly


They feel guys are robots void of emotions... forgetting we're humans with feelings too.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by daveP(m): 1:13pm On Aug 18, 2015
Teempakguy:
Okay, so I guess this means one thing . . . men and women can never be equal . . . like seriously, look at the number of guys here confessing to molestation, and it-s like we're sharing jokes. grin
In the end, the difference is biological. Our biological differences which grant men partial superiority.

Okay fine.I'm being a male chauvinist here. But come on! Give a guy a break Na. I've got this huge ego to maintain. tongue
some tend to share it jokingly (d reason i dont know) but that doesnt undermine the fact that its very high out there. Lol@huge ego

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Holyfield1(m): 1:14pm On Aug 18, 2015
Teempakguy:
Werey. grin grin
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by shaybebaby(f): 1:16pm On Aug 18, 2015
So someone has opened a thread about rape/ paedophilia perpetrated by females on young male children and it appears to me that the victims themselves are trivialising the horror of such happenstance.
How can the gravity be communicated when the victims themselves are making light of it rather than being honest about the emotional and psychological havoc it wreaked and is still wreaking in their lives. We know such experiences becomes part of what shapes their relationships with females in adulthood. Unsuspecting females then suffer as result of this and it continues, a vicious cycle where everyone loses in someway because someone took advantage of a child.
The same education about awareness given to female children should be given to boys as well. I have a son and I shudder to think such could happen, that woman/ man had better be prepared to forfeit future use of any sexual parts they have but they will be fvcked up by me.
Guys, don't make light of this issue, what is wrong is wrong irrespective of gender. If a young boy happens to read the jokes and questions that are being asked on here such as " did you enjoy it?", pray tell, how would ever feel comfortable to speak up when the same people of his gender are making light of his ordeal.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 1:16pm On Aug 18, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


@bolded it is because of the widespread belief that guys are programmed to enjoy sex irrespective of age.....it has to change.

Good.
Then you guys should start your own association, stop bothering about feminist. It's pretty obvious they are more concerned about females.
Let men fight for men.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by shaybebaby(f): 1:16pm On Aug 18, 2015
Holyfield1:
Is that u being kissed by Oyinbo?
Another stupid question!
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by ufelove(m): 1:17pm On Aug 18, 2015
wisdomguy4u:


You are not alone bro.. Mind start @ the tender age of 6yrs

At 5yrs I already knew what kissing and all that meant all thanks to 3ladies..they are married now tho nd they don't know I still have such memories..
Ladies/girls opened guys eyes and now they are complaining. But thank God I hav Jesus

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Holyfield1(m): 1:18pm On Aug 18, 2015
shaybebaby:

Another stupid question!
Silly?...Me? grin grin grin grin

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by OnlyemmyM(m): 1:18pm On Aug 18, 2015
I was in primary Five when was molested by a lady in her early twenties while schooling at command children school Enugu , we were all barrackite , who would ever take it serious, is only when the rape a female Chile then you hear it everywhere, if women gang rape you, my dear that is direct visa to grave yard.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by BeauHomme: 1:19pm On Aug 18, 2015
Thanks OP. I'd always wanted to write about this, but hadn't put my thoughts together.

In primary school and early secondary school, most classes have a known male pervert. At age nine, he's already trying out stuff with girls his age and younger. You may want to wonder where he learnt it from. This thread does justice to that(in most cases).

I'll skip personal experience, but most of my childhood friends had similar stories to tell.

I'm still waiting for when someone will write of situations where ladies(who aren't drunk or drugged) find their way into the beds of drunk (adult) dudes. Dudes they know would never have slept with them on a normal day. Will that also be described as rape?

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by daveP(m): 1:19pm On Aug 18, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Exactly


They feel guys are robots void of emotions... forgetting we're humans with feelings too.
ive noticed the idea that if he cums, then its no longer rap.e, but my own is 'against his her will' should be more appropriate for both sides. That cum theory is loopsided a view! But as this mata dey... Definition on definition no go let pple see beyond just mere exaggeration of facts.

(leans back on cushion)

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by amzee(m): 1:20pm On Aug 18, 2015
I was a victim at age 6...Hmmm Aunty Sha** wan kill me with puss.y

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by teekay213(m): 1:22pm On Aug 18, 2015
shocked shocked

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by adanny01(m): 1:22pm On Aug 18, 2015
My friend whom i suspected to be a virgin even after graduating from uni without a relationship confessed when i embarassed him one time for been a vigin till after graduating. He said its something that he never spoke about and was bitter that he had no opportunity to have a first love.

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Maxwell279(m): 1:23pm On Aug 18, 2015
Was a victim twice, with a lady and a man....

No homo...

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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by daveP(m): 1:23pm On Aug 18, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


Good.
Then you guys should start your own association, stop bothering about feminist. It's pretty obvious they are more concerned about females.
Let men fight for men.
Twill do no good overall!!

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