rabbuy:

Abi oh ufan tell this o.p it seems like he is a Jew man.. He doesn't know women secret watch word worldwide....

No finance
No romance

this is where we are all getting it wrong
finally relationship is turning into business venture where you guys get to pay for sex.
money and gift should be given out of live not because you are expecting sex, or because u already had sex with ur girl. romance can actually take place without finance, cos the girl involved will be doing it for the live and not for the money

hmmmmmm you sure?hmmmmmm you sure?hmmmmmm you sure?

Broke Nigga don't deserve kpansh...

Hmmmmm.... is that all?



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No bro. All things have their time. Settle your future first, making it should be a priority and not chasing woman while broke. #focus

sonofananimal:
SO IF YOU HUSTLE GET MONEY, YOU GO COME DEY CHASE WOMAN

All d broke guy u don hear?

Rapmoney:
Why commend ye what ye believeth not in?

thanks for this qs to de gal

cyara, I want to fall in love with u seriously

classicB:

why can't a broke guy have a girlfriend?? aren't we girls broke either?? why didn't u ask " why will a broke girl have a boyfriend"?? talk about low self esteem!!!
na tour type dey make some girls head swell

What should I tell you now? You missed the sarcasm.

Last time I checked " most, I repeat, most " relationships are funded by guys! abi no be Naija we dey again. If only broke guys can use this strategy and time to try to become "unbroke"... How about that?


My definition of broke is not temporary lack of cash and cash equivalents oh, it's a mental and physical state of mind and pocket that may last into the foreseeable future if something does not change drastically.

I mean broke guys have going concern issues and may be unable to settle liabilities that may crystalize as a result of a relationship.

ilobasama:
No bro. All things have their time. Settle your future first, making it should be a priority and not chasing woman while broke. #focus

yeap. but remember, not everybody will even see the end come of the future.

have you ever wonder why the westerner are so free? them see life as simple and on going. a guy with nothing may have a rich girl friend. while a guy with RICHES are even dying to have someone around him.

here in Nigeria, we take things too serious.

Tomfrench:
7. never believe you're broke

The guy is seriously broke o

classicB:

this is where we are all getting it wrong
finally relationship is turning into business venture where you guys get to pay for sex.
money and gift should be given out of live not because you are expecting sex, or because u already had sex with ur girl. romance can actually take place without finance, cos the girl involved will be doing it for the live and not for the money

Switat I know but let's be frank and real..when even made women are still sleeping around for the rabbah... Wha do you want the lower class to do.. Whether we choose to come to the realisation or not most relationship still melts down. To FINANCE

Rexphobia:


What should I tell you now? You missed the sarcasm.

Last time I checked " most, I repeat, most " relationships are funded by guys! abi no be Naija we dey again. If only broke guys can use this strategy and time to try to become "unbroke"... How about that?


My definition of broke is not temporary lack of cash and cash equivalents oh, it's a mental and physical state of mind and pocket that may last into the foreseeable future if something does not change drastically.

I mean broke guys have going concern issues and may be unable to settle liabilities that may crystalize as a result of a relationship.

she is 100℅ right if only you understand her comment carefully.

Rexphobia:


What should I tell you now? You missed the sarcasm.

Last time I checked " most, I repeat, most " relationships are funded by guys! abi no be Naija we dey again. If only broke guys can use this strategy and time to try to become "unbroke"... How about that?


My definition of broke is not temporary lack of cash and cash equivalents oh, it's a mental and physical state of mind and pocket that may last into the foreseeable future if something does not change drastically.

I mean broke guys have going concern issues and may be unable to settle liabilities that may crystalize as a result of a relationship.

okay sha
I wan sleep

rabbuy:

Switat I know but let's be frank and real..when even made women are still sleeping around for the rabbah... Wha do you want the lower class to do.. Whether we choose to come to the realisation or not most relationship still melts down. To FINANCE

if only you take this statement away. there is nothing like class. is just your mental state

Romance without finance is a nuisance

ilobasama:
Why not advise a broke guy on how to get money .....fact remains that for u to have a happy relationship/marriage, finance plays a key role

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Well not everything that works for A works for B, but it goes beyond having a babe/gf. Am talking about that feeling of fulfillment, being able to give your children the future they deserve, being independent. Trust me, those poor guys that meets a rich girl don't go out of their way or need techniques, most times its providence ,fate.

sonofananimal:
yeap. but remember, not everybody will even see the end come of the future........btw your moniker says ntn about d way u reason.

have you ever wonder why the westerner are so free? them see life as simple and on going. a guy with nothing may have a rich girl friend. while a guy with RICHES are even dying to have someone around him.

here in Nigeria, we take things too serious.

Gbammm!!!!

deebsman1:
Romance without finance is a nuisance

rabbuy:

Switat I know but let's be frank and real..when even made women are still sleeping around for the rabbah... Wha do you want the lower class to do.. Whether we choose to come to the realisation or not most relationship still melts down. To FINANCE

yes, finance that wud make you meet the wrong girl.
the only advise I have for well to do guys is to date a well to do babe too, i hate this idea of thinking the whole of the finances should be on the guy, is he dating himself?? let the girl finance small too nah, what can she offer you financially?? if she can't, then she doesn't worth your money. relationship is about giving and taking, not one sided taking alone

.....is she a begger??

money121:
Getting the girl of your dreams does not necessarily have to depend on how much you have in your bank account. A girl who truly loves you and desire to be with you will be charmed, not by cash, but by some other great things you can offer.
Let us take a look at some of the things that can help you land the girl without putting yourself in debt.

1. Look the part: The first thing that would draw a girl’s eye to you is the way you look. You do not have to break the bank to look good, clean and well kept-together. If she sees how well you look, and she finds it appealing, then that is one step closer to getting her attention, and hopefully, her heart.

2. Dazzle with your personality: When all you’ve got is your personality, make sure you make it count. Do not be afraid to show off what you are made of. If you are funny, brilliant, or talented in other areas, let her experience this. Show her that she can have a good time with you and have a lot of other reasons to respect you without you having to resort to buying her expensive gifts.

3. Be inventive: When you do not have money to distract her, you can actually focus on inventive ways to spend time with her. The whole point of winning her heart is to make her love being with you, it does not matter where you are or how much you spend.
No doubt, having the big bucks is an easier way to get her interested, and not having this to your advantage could make things a little challenging. But, get creative, work for her attention, she will see your effort and reward them.

4. Make her feel special: Everyone loves to feel special, and that includes women. So, to make her keep thinking about you, let her know how beautiful and special you find out. Make her feel like the only girl in the world and let her have nothing but positive feelings when she is around you or talking to you.

5. Get to know her: Another way to her heart is to make sure you take your time to get to know your lady. No information is too small or too useless. Know what makes her thick and what drives her. Be her best friend and confidante. Let her share her successes with you and come to you when things are not so good.

6. Avoid insecurity: It is easy, when you are not so affluent, to focus on the things you do not have and some men often take it to another level by taking it out on the girl. Do not keep bringing up the fact that you are still struggling, do not let her see any sign of insecurity or jealousy.

- http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/08/how-broke-guy-can-get-girl.html

Why on earth will a broke guy focus on getting a girl, unless she is dangotes daughter. Does he want to get brokers ? Isnt being broke bad enough, why waste time chasing girls when you can chase money that brings girls ?

sonofananimal:
if only you take this statement away. there is nothing like class. is just your mental state

Well the need for grouping and classification is essentially important to identify a sect of common level of reasoning ...or values so in as much as I know is a thing of the mind how else do you want me to identify with those ones cause whether you like it or not those ones will still be abundant in the land

Rapmoney:
This is the type of thread that makes some young men lose touch with reality! My sympathy!!!

lol

Omotayor123:
Nice points OP.. Money is Good but it's not Everything.!
Even if the guy is not broke, this points are needed to boost his relationship level with ladies.

Better pickim

deebsman1:
Romance without finance is a nuisance

Says Who?? if the guy is too broke to finance the relationship can't the girl help him out?? must it be the guy spending all the time?? that is why they have tagged we girls 'golddiggers'

kinibigdeal:

The guy is seriously broke o

lol.....this dude don finish me

Tomfrench:
lol.....this dude don finish me

sonofananimal:
she is 100℅ right if only you understand her comment carefully.

That a broke guy is entitled to a girl? I thought that had already been established. Who am I to tell a broke guy what to do? Personally, I won't... Relationship costs money.... Doesn't mean I'll be the only one paying

Very nice one op! I loved reading this....
but change the title.
it should be:
How to get friendzoned by a girl

ClassicB r u for real? I like ur comment but still doesnt change what i said in reality

classicB:

Says Who?? if the guy is too broke to finance the relationship can't the girl help him out?? must it be the guy spending all the time?? that is why they have tagged we girls 'golddiggers'