bukatyne:


What does Ndidi mean?

Endurance ... 'patience' better still.

Toks2008:







Tim buktou i doff my hat for you because i actualy got so pissed when i read Kachi sbarbie comments because just as you reterated,i believe the write up is so clear but then some people just have difficulty comprehending and sometimes i just do not bother explaining.

Thumbs up for clarifying

Naso.
You didn't get pissed at jmoore's question, but you got SO pissed because I 'discussed/elaborated' on his question.
Then your days of getting SO pissed on NL shall tarry... no offeinse

xynerise:

Because he has not been caught doesn't mean he doesn't cheat

*Runs out sighting someone*

xynerise:

Story

freecocoa:
Really? Every man must cheat, if I ever for any reason believe this after my research, than that means I'm cheating in marriage, because whatever will make him cheat despite trying his best not to, (meaning he couldn't say no), will definitely happen to me too, leading me to cheat, as afterall, we are both humans with no self control.

Toks2008:


One of the dumbest statements ladies utter is "My man can never cheat on me"

Even pastors and bishops cheat on their wives and just as you wrote..only the ones that are caught are called philanderers while smooth operators are the pride of their women.

The earlier ladies wake up the better. If you like change spouse a million times,except there is a way to know a potential cheat,any lady who leaves a man due to sexual unfaithfullness to be with another man is only playing a ping pong game with her body and emotions.

A guy can die for you yet cheat on you and its either a lady understands this or she remains in delusion as long as she lives.

Toks2008:


Absolutely you are free to cheat on a vheating hubby...its your choice as long as you can bear the stigma.

See dont ever be among those who claim equality with men when it comes to philandering except you just want to jettison your essence as a woman.

If you are divorced base on adultry,walahi it will take the grace of God to find even a blind man to marry you except he has no clue...be wise.

freecocoa:
It's alright, after all, no one can sincerely say they know all what their partner's been up to(well unless you are taping him/her, goodluck with that.)so no need to say one's a 100% sure, so when he is dying for her and cheating, he better make sure she never finds out.

If what you claim is true, then expect that more men won't be real fathers of their kids.

Toks2008:


That last paragraph is confusing...please explain the last paragraph.

freecocoa:
Lmao

Dude, I will beat a man in a cheating game if it ever came down to that.

Which stigma? Are you saying my hubby will cheat to my face?

Toks2008:


Why not use words liike tough? sounds more intellectually decent but i guess you are far from understanding the marital institution so its ok to feel they are crazy.

Only marrried ladies will identify with the relevance.

Maybe only married ladies should make comments...so that the thread can serve its purpose except maybe you are married.

freecocoa:
You say that it's in a man's nature to cheat, meaning nothing can be done about the cheating, then am saying if this is indeed true, then women will cheat more, thereby giving men kids that aren't theirs, to father.

Omotayor123:

I use the word crazy because your 5 questions only give married women one Option And that is to stay with a philanderer husband.

Don't women deserve more than that Why should women stay with a philanderer Why not talk to the men to be a faithful and caring husband Men deserves a faithful wife but women don't deserve a faithful husband shey

The thing dey vex me seriously. No, I'm not married But I will sooner or later.
Letz say A big No to Cheaters!!!

Toks2008:


I understand you but unfortunately you can only hope your hubby does not cheat on you cos you have no discresionary tendency to know a potential philanderer.

Toks2008:


Freecoco you are on your own o. Whatever rocks your boat.

Sometimes i laugh at some ladies that hink cheating is a way of revenge. T will surprise them when it dawns on them because the same man you cheat with will tell you to your face how useless you are...

We are living n a wicked world of men.

Toks2008:


lol.. nah today woman don dey cheat?

The point is that for a woman with a slutty mindset number 4 is perfect for her but at the end she will be a miserable loner because after screwing the whole men she can find,she will end up a miseranle loner for the rest of her life.

I see such ladies everywhere who galivants about in the 20s 30s and even early 40s after they were driven out by their hubby just to be alone in their later years.

One secret many ladies dont know is that except a man is really rich,all his gragra is just for a short time.

Toks2008:
Many ladies are always quick to say they can not stand an adulterer as a husband and some will threaten to rain fire and brimstone on a philandering hubby. Yes we know that not all men cheat but in case you discover your hubby cheats on you please what would you do

1.Would you rather leave your marriage, remain single and celibate for life rather than cope with a philanderer as a hubby?

2.Would you rather leave your philandering hubby and start philandering about with other men?

3.Would you keep changing the present man to start all over with another if he cheats on you?

4.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby and also shamelessly philander about in the bid to seek a revenge?

5.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby,live a decent lifestyle and focus on your life and that of your children and just see him as a sex partner?

Please don't answer with "none of the above because if you are in that position,you will certainly be faced with an option.

Rocktation:
Chineke, na by force?

Toks2008:


Im sorry i have edited and number 4 is now number five and i muust say you are likely not to have issues in your marriage with this reasonable mindset.

I have conseled many married ladies and 8 out of 10 issues bothers on the sexual infidelity of the man and after i finish talking to them they tend to realize the truth.

No man is worth your stress and while we know there are men who will not cheat on their wives,there is usually no stamp on their heads that they will be faithful.

My write ups are usually deep and very hard for the immature at heart to decipher. I believe if every lady can care less as difficult as it may sound and ignore a philandering hubby,the happier they will be.

My advice for the guy who have decided to tow this lane is to respect the wife n do it far far away and also use a protection to reduce the chance of bringing home sti to the woman at home.

Most men are not nterested in having you leave for another lady but they just want to have a taste of any emotionally vulnulrable lady who brings herself so cheaply to share another lady hubby but wen you start making trouble wiith him and trying to prevent him from unleashing his passion,that is when trouble starts.

A good guy can turn bad and a faithful man can bcome a reckless philanderer so these questions are very vital only for a lady who is faced with the situation.

Joy1706:
Na no. 4 sure pass o. I know of someone wwho husband was a chronic cheat. She prayed o, begged o every every. One day she told him to his face that th days of her being faithful are over. Now na she dey do pass the man. The man has begged, threatened, reported her. For where? He can't chase her out as she contributed to the building of the house. Now the man don mellow but the woman's own just dey start

Joy1706:

Whaaaaaat! You a marriage counsellor? Those women no like themselves at alllllll

limamintruth:



Are you then insinuating that married women should still remain with their unrepentant cheating husbands? Dont you think the ladies' action of condoning their spouses' immoral ways will send across a bad message to the kids (that it is ok to cheat in marriage)?


Remember life itself is a risk; hence, its not an impossibility for a female divorcee to later find true love and successfully remarry after the divorce.

freecocoa:
Lol, oh! Aren't you a clown?

cococandy:
If you're not ready to accept cheating you're unmarried or a teenager.?
Na today?
Marriage counselor ko.

Toks2008:


Easy to say.

Si at 26 say you caught your hubby cheating then you will leave and never have sex again?

I hear you.

Ngokafor:







....Honestly that dude is something else ...The worst part of the whole thing is that he is delusional enough to call himself a 'Marriage Counselor'..tragic indeed.

cococandy:

Come to think of it, isn't better to leave at a young age than wait until it's too late?
For a woman less than 40 and still sexually active, putting up with a serial philanderer is a good way to waste her youth.
The earlier she leaves, the better chances she has of putting her life back on track and moving in with someone else if that's what she wants.

God forbid at 26 a lady has to endure a philanderer. Until when?

At that stage, she should be enjoying her marriage and experimenting in all the corners of the house with her darling husband, but he's busy donating his cum all over town and bringing the watery remains back to her. Tufia.
It's a waste of young womanhood. Horrible waste.

It would even be easier for a woman above 45 to find other ways of dealing with a man who started philandering in his middle age. Maybe do back to him with her own young bobo or ignore him if she's "menopausing" and not interested in sex with him anymore.

justcallbuki:

if u marry some1 like me,i will catch u and if u like store their names with mechanic1,mechanic2...... I will knw.cos na same banana i dey chop since wey i no complain,u too dey chop ur pomo like dt without complain


*wink*

Toks2008:


If you don't know how to post comments intellectual;ly i may just stop replying to you.