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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 6:58am On Dec 30, 2015 |
agarawu23:story But you'll feel more manly iF she was depending on you for everything abi? Including money for sanitary pad But as she's making her own money body dey pepper you 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 7:22am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 7:24am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Oyind17:I've been around since |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by 2mNaira: 7:41am On Dec 30, 2015 |
eyinjuege:Why would they do that? I mran do it and swear they cannever do it. Were they forced? |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 7:44am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Wetin u knw. Talking when necessary is not talkativeness. Keeping quiet when talking is necessary cld be regretable. The children are not deaf and dumb, they have a mind of their own. They themselves can see what's going on he only has to relate with them b4 they choose to follow their mother's footsteps. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 8:01am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:indeed.that's what happens when you marry a boy not a man.it's only an immature boy that cannot grow balls but be doing cho cho cho about. Before you know it you're talking to the wrong person who WIll use the information against you .yeye dey boom. Or you think your kids Don't have friends who they confide in.Before you say Jack Robinson all your marital life is in public and a table for discussion then you become a laughingstock. Continue. Shebi them no use hot water press your mouth for small 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 8:22am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Have u closely experienced such a situation b4? Or u're so insensitive to know that whethr u like it or not, its a 3rd party dat will settle this kinda case. U'll leave reality and start blowing grammar on NL. Tell me how familiarity will make a woman who earns 4-5times ur pay listen 2 u. Do u even knw how maturely d man has been bearing it b4 he spoke out? Or u expect him to come on NL again after conversation with his adamant wife so u can say he's reporting again and again like a kid. A man knws he will talk with his wife, he must rather have done that or would do that. He needs to knw what 2 do afterwards. Familiarity is normal in marriage and that's why a confidant is needed here whom his wife would listen to. Even d op knws this. That's why he chose NL as a 3rd party but unfortunately NL would not speak to his wife. So let ur thinking be versatile. Mumu SAMBARRY: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 8:30am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:wailer shut up your mouth and go and brush your teeth.your mouth is smelling. One random person brought his wife matter on nl and you're here ranting, dishing One sided judgement without hearing the second party. Try get sense na 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 8:38am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Who will hear 4-5times more than ur pay and take ur side b4. See 4get d abuses u're bragging abt. Reality is what matters. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 8:43am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:she earns 4x your salary isn't that enough to respect her and her decisions. If he was that wise why couldn't he be earning 10x her salary abi how many times have you seen the likes of dangote or otedola lament for who is the head of the house and who's the tail of the house No get sense you hear 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 8:47am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Ah you're dribbling backwards again. Dangote and otedola are richer than dia wives. Lol don't worry, d matter pass ur ability. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 8:49am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:you sef you know say you no get any point again so carry your judgement hammer to another courtroom Fake judge 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 8:51am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Oga dangote and otedola are richer than dia wives. Simple |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 8:55am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:exactly my point. So instead of the man wailing lamenting and sulking like a wounded lion let him double his grind and work harder.when he makes more money than his wife no-one Will need to drag head or tail of the house. Cho cho cho.elejo Wewe Abi your mother didn't teach you that a man that doesn't have money will lack respect? Do you see dangote begging for respect To now crown it all he's now an elejo wewe 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 8:59am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Ohhkkk. I no knw say na like dis u be. U just wnt win argument dts ur problem. I shd have knwn. Ure so fake. Wetin u no fit accept na hm u dey advice ur fellow man. Sha no pray make he happen to u. Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 9:01am On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:elejo we we okunrin. Go and spread your wife's pant in front of your neighbours house you hear Don't go and make money be crying for respect 1 Like |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Jesuspistol(m): 9:19am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Sorry to interfere. I've been following the arguments of both of you. I really respect your stand on your point. But broda you need to be more real.Life is not about getting attentions of "like and shares" by using curses or abusive words haba barry I believe you know life more than that. The hammer guy has real points than you do.Please always try to put yourself in the situation first. Respect 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 9:24am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Jesuspistol:he started the insults and cuses first na Why are you making me look like the devil na and him the saint .when he was talking to me like a civil gentleman I responded to him in like manner.in the same vein when he started addressing me with aggressive and provocative tone I gave him a taste of his words So what have I done wrong? 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 9:49am On Dec 30, 2015 |
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Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 9:56am On Dec 30, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Hehehe!! Sambarry ooohhh!! It only happens on nland, with nland boys... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 9:58am On Dec 30, 2015 |
flokii: Don't bring tribalism here. That's got nothing to do with the "issue" on hand. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 30, 2015 |
PastorAji: What does it even mean? There is no advice I can give here. Maybe the wife is too demanding and rude but maybe the husband is just too lazy and annoying. Who knows? 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by EfemenaXY: 10:14am On Dec 30, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Abegi. The post screams of inferiority complex jor. The guy obviously has way too much time on his hands, hence the complaints. Rather than trying to micro manage his wife, he should be grateful she's taken the initiative to put their house in order despite being a full time working mum. He should get over himself and his wounded ego and get busy. Good Morning 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: It does. The guy obviously has way too much time on his hands, hence the complaints. Rather than trying to micro manage his wife, he should be grateful she's taken the initiative to put their house in order despite being a full time working mum. Maybe. Good morning to you too. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by SAMBARRY: 10:20am On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:I suppose so |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 1:01pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer: OP mentioned the 36k later Are you married? I ask because I sense intolerance in your tone. A third party involvement doesn't always work.They talk and go but it's the couple that must consciously work out their marriage. Marriage requires a lot of hard work and vigilance. The issue of familiarity crops up in most if not all marriages. Your response to it is a function of how your husband reacts to'mess ups'. If the Man of the house is overtly permissive,the woman may unknowingly enjoy the over-familiarity but if the man is reasonably firm,the woman is bound to be alert. I once heard of a man whom his wife hands over her salary to him on her knees. The man knows his place, but she also knew that he wouldn't mis-manage the funds because he was a hustler himself. The man in question needs to sit up,work on his demeanour and income in order to regain his respect. This union can still be saved.e never baje! |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by flokii: 1:22pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: why can't you mind ur business? are you d OP facing the problem... or have I in way insulted any tribe.. drop ur comment and move on... SIMPLE |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by balad009(f): 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
EzePromoe:Earning more or being an entrepreneur is no justification for a wife to be bossy sofar the husband can provide for his family. Not every1 ll prosper as an entrepreneur. Pple do so well too working for others |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 1:25pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Chidoks:Amin o. Iya aladura Na 2 way solution; -he shd find a beta job wch we all knw is scarce -he shd set his life apart The woman is bent on embarassing him already. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by Chidoks(f): 1:30pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:I no be iya aladura o. I just feel for them and wish they settle the issue asap before it gets really bad. He must not wait till he gets a better job,side kicks will help in redeeming the situation. |
Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by PresVA: 1:33pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Why would a wife do something without minding whether it's convenient for her partner or not? Not cool ... shows no regard... Just talk to her about it.. or are you two not in good terms? |
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