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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by simplisity(m): 3:49pm On Jan 05, 2016
Gradual watching of Indecency and masturbation can lead to sex obsession and sex obsession leads to sex abnormality which give birth to, beasialim, homo, lesbianism etc. May God help us to be doers of the word not just hearers in Jesus name.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by joseph1832(m): 3:49pm On Jan 05, 2016
SerialGist:


This is where i have to come in and disagree with you. Do you literally mean every sperm inside a man was meant to be used in forming another being? Imagine how ur reasoning goes. Like how many kids a man would have produced if all his sperms were to be put into human formation? I am sure you attended biology classes.
You see! This is part of the narrow mindedness I said the OP is exhibiting.

At the embolden, imagine every sperm fertilizing every ova, men! The world population will be something else....
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ableguy(m): 3:51pm On Jan 05, 2016
kachnov:


Dude,if you have made a deliberate decision in your infinite wisdom not to quit masturbation,at least give others a chance to overcome this mental disorder instead of countering the OP on his thread.
Creating a thread is free,you can open yours on why we should all self-juice.

Thanks.

Please tell em
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by abbey621(m): 3:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
The problem with Nigerians is that we think we are smarter than everyone else when in reality we are being made a laughing stock! Masturbation is the most natural thing any human can do, it's not only for guys but for women too and in fact 80% of all humans within their prime do it. We've seen cases were men and women were so Hot that they slept with someone they should never have slept with, we've also seen cases were a guy visits a who.re house just so he can cure his urges. That's not all, we've seen pedophiles and adultery gone up because of strong uncontrollable urges by some individuals! The solution to some of these urges has always been masturbation for many, it provides immediate relief without the risk of STDs or unwanted consequences, it is a promoter of faithfulness and a saver of money, why would anyone be against such a natural thing? I believe where most people are confused is when it becomes excessive or when we have guilty conscience from doing it and to those people I say, life is all about self control! Most of you feel guilty for masturbating but feel no guilt for smashing a girl you just met or sleeping with a guy you are not married to, we've become such an hypocritical society that we are willing to fight something which has little to no medical consequences and yet keep shut about the more dangerous acts many of us practice secretly, SHAME!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Cesclxg(m): 3:53pm On Jan 05, 2016
chibwike:
When the urge to commit the sinful act comes.

What exactly should one do?
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God (Matthew 5 vs cool
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by JehanEddy07(m): 3:53pm On Jan 05, 2016
chibwike:
You can stop it. Firstly, let's start from here

Have you mastubatted this year?
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by kachnov(m): 3:55pm On Jan 05, 2016
joseph1832:
Don't get me wrong Mr, I'm not saying anyone who wants to quit shouldn't, what I'm saying is for the OP to stop shoving his religious belief down peoples throat.

Yes I can open a thread and harp on the benefit and joy of masturbation, but that thread will never see front page, because of what is obtainable here. So, here is my best bet to counter him.

Anyone who wants to stop masturbating should see a doctor, not seek for juvenile help/opinion online. Plain and simple.

OK Boss,knock yourself out.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by vinceton: 3:56pm On Jan 05, 2016
kaeforum:
He is just talking rubbish. angry
he is saying facts
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by chibwike(m): 4:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
Cesclxg:

Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God (Matthew 5:cool
I know. buh that doesn't answer the question
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Optimisticgondy(m): 4:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
Toks2008:


Oh im so happy for you because apparently ladies NO LONGER RRUN AWAT FROM YOU but you now enjoy fornicating with them....

Just presuming out loud.
Iwo wii; I'm not an hypocrite. By the way, that was then. Who knew if my fiance would have alrun away from me too? Some homes break, these days, due to the inability of hubbies to satisfy their wives sexually. People shld learn from me, bro. It really ruined my sexual life
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by chibwike(m): 4:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
JehanEddy07:



Lwkmd.. *falls frm iroko tree*
bro, why you dey laff na
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by wheredemdey: 4:04pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:

one result of chronic masturbation is that it instills in one the atittude of self-centredness which uve just displayed here, how is it a gift from God to man and yet He is advising us against it.
You are only looking at ur collaegue's dangerous act from one perspective. How abt look at it from here, note first that what ever a man constantly feeed on or thinks about has a way of dominating his ways or life. With time that colleague of urs will no longer see that his wife as a lover but just as a mere sex object to gratify his sexual satisfaction. Even when he has real sex with her, he will still be longing to satisfy himself the other way he is used to while they are not together.
Lol u said masturbation is disease free, what about the possibility of doing so with a bacterial infested hand?, is it pain-free?, if helps to focus? Really? On what? Satisfying urself? Does it help to focus on other important things in ur life? My dear, in as much as ure trying to sugar-coat this act to make it look harmless, it still all point towards the fact that it is Bad and should be stopped.

One question...where in the Holy Book did God condemn mastubation??....i am waiting...kindly be explicit by reeling out the verse......

You lots just open your mouth and arrogate powers of condemnation to yourself....are you God??...be deceiving yourselves...mastunabtion has zero risk to God and to man.tk ur supposed sanctimonious self far from me.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 4:12pm On Jan 05, 2016
ableguy:


What's the name of your congregation my brother?
college congregation in abeokuta.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by moststylish(m): 4:16pm On Jan 05, 2016
so much preaching on mastubation.......while more evil things are going on in the society,politicians are stealing and making our lives miserable or is that not a sin too
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Fkhalifa(m): 4:16pm On Jan 05, 2016
I have heard/read from ladies even from guys also, how the opposite sex starts losing control, style touching, groping and spilling fluid on them...
we have read about decent men and pastors losing control as a result of excess urge in them..
Go Marry, they ill say holy spirit dey as if sexual urge is evil and not natural, until they get themselves messed up.

Had it been the blow the steam off once a yl,they ill have been saved from these embarrasement

I don not know how relieving oneslf atteact demons yet they ingore fornicators, adulteres, terrorist and orther heinous acts thst affect the society smh

These xtisns ehn their own standard pass God own, and only if you know what they do im secret undecided
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ezzyfx(m): 4:18pm On Jan 05, 2016
This is so encouraging and strong advice that can move a victim to change his/her bad habits.
Thanks bro.
I guess you are JW.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ableguy(m): 4:20pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
college congregation in abeokuta.
Owoduni Lagos, nice meeting you.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 4:23pm On Jan 05, 2016
chibwike:
When the urge to commit the sinful act comes.

What exactly should one do?
You must know this dear, that this urge doesnt come unless u invite it. You must have seen something that aroused the urge in u. It comes around mostly when one is alone, so why not jump outside, go take some fresh air, walk around, chat up with a neighbour or a friend. Get worked up in a bit of exercise, If ure d game freak type, put it on and start playing. But all this are still less-effective compared to sincerely and genuinely saying a prayer to God when urge starts building up, get a bible and start reading or some other inspirational books. The summary of everything is that you should switch the thoughts of ur heart almost immediately. Get busy. First u need to avoid coming in contact with pornography of any kind thats what arouses the urge in the first place.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Cesclxg(m): 4:26pm On Jan 05, 2016
chibwike:
I know. buh that doesn't answer the question
Truth be told, the act of masturbation is addictive. And just like an addict u need that next fix. And just like every addict, the withdrawal stage is the most difficult. Overcoming masturbation as a Christian should be seen as a way to fix ur dead spiritual life. There is no way u have an active spiritual life when u are still under the chains of masturbation. Therefore, the only way to unchain urself is through prayers, self-denial, and sacrifice. U have to talk to ur God asking him for grace. His Grace is sufficient for u. U just have to give up that momentary pleasure, that next fix. Mind u, this is not going to be easy, buh u must persevere. Try not to keep late nites, keep urself busy, immerse urself in God's word and pray always...
On a lighter note, when the urge to masturbate comes, when it seems that all hell is broken loose in u, when it seems that u have the passion of a thousand men put in u, when u feel u can't hold out the monster anymore, when it seems like ur dick has a mind of its own, just handcuff urself. So my last advice, Get a freaking Handcuff!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by moststylish(m): 4:26pm On Jan 05, 2016
abbey621:
The problem with Nigerians is that we think we are smarter than everyone else when in reality we are being made a laughing stock! Masturbation is the most natural thing any human can do, it's not only for guys but for women too and in fact 80% of all humans within their prime do it. We've seen cases were men and women were so Hot that they slept with someone they should never have slept with, we've also seen cases were a guy visits a who.re house just so he can cure his urges. That's not all, we've seen pedophiles and adultery gone up because of strong uncontrollable urges by some individuals! The solution to some of these urges has always been masturbation for many, it provides immediate relief without the risk of STDs or unwanted consequences, it is a promoter of faithfulness and a saver of money, why would anyone be against such a natural thing? I believe where most people are confused is when it becomes excessive or when we have guilty conscience from doing it and to those people I say, life is all about self control! Most of you feel guilty for masturbating but feel no guilt for smashing a girl you just met or sleeping with a guy you are not married to, we've become such an hypocritical society that we are willing to fight something which has little to no medical consequences and yet keep shut about the more dangerous acts many of us practice secretly, SHAME!
guy thumb up to you.......i don't really know wats wrong with these hypocrites, so many issues are lingering in the society and they here preaching about masturbation this and that as if its worst than killing someone or fornication
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by hmuhammad(m): 4:27pm On Jan 05, 2016
chichi234:
I masturbate everyday
you can't be serious undecided
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by 3kay945(m): 4:29pm On Jan 05, 2016
And you think they will hear..
Keep trying.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by joseph1832(m): 4:30pm On Jan 05, 2016
kachnov:

OK Boss,knock yourself out.
Meaning?
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 4:31pm On Jan 05, 2016
SerialGist:


This is where i have to come in and disagree with you. Do you literally mean every sperm inside a man was meant to be used in forming another being? Imagine how ur reasoning goes. Like how many kids a man would have produced if all his sperms were to be put into human formation? I am sure you attended biology classes.
if all sperms wont form a being, why d need for family planning among married couples. If there nothing medically wrong with a man all his sperm definetly shud form a human.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nickymezor(f): 4:37pm On Jan 05, 2016
Well said OP, truetalk. I hope ppl who indulge in such acts wld quit... It aint cool @ all
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 4:37pm On Jan 05, 2016
ezzyfx:
This is so encouraging and strong advice that can move a victim to change his/her bad habits.
Thanks bro.
I guess you are JW.
Thanks Bro. Yes I am.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 4:38pm On Jan 05, 2016
ableguy:

Owoduni Lagos, nice meeting you.
Same here Bro. smiley
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by mentorandfriend(m): 4:38pm On Jan 05, 2016
digitalis:

Please shed more light on the r/ship between pornography, masturbation and memory
Attention Deficit Disorder, quite different from HyperKinetic Attention Deficit Disorder found in hyperactive little children is what happens to porn addicts.

The process of storing long term information in the brain is called consolidation, which occurs after acquisition. Acquisition can occur in the spinal cord and this is called short term memory. However, long term memory is a job for the brain cortex itself, so in consolidation, the brain commits information acquired into long term memory.

So short term memory information is easily produced when needed coz it is usually at the spinal level, that is why if a person is a fast thinker, we say that he keeps his information at spinal level.

How does pornography rubbish memory?

Information, stored as groups of neurons all over the cerebral cortex follow a particular logarithmic curve in the process of Recalling. They are traced in the same pattern they are stored eg from visual cortex (if from sight) to the amygdala. Forgetting, a normal form of amnesia can be dangerous if complicated by things that acts on the brain's reward system, such as drugs (amphetamines and the likes), consistent and tireless orgasm and subsequent squirting /ejaculation all alter the brains logarithmic curve in Recalling. By nature, creation takes the easier pathway in times of conflict of interest, thus it won't be a surprise to see the brain surrendering it's engrams (bundles of stored information in the cortex) to pleasure. This displaces your information and makes you look stupid in interviews and examinations.

Have you wondered why a good student in secondary school starts dropping in academic expectations once she gets a boyfriend who spoils her with goodies and sex?

Pleasure is a NO for memory. Focus is the key of all geniuses and inventors.

I might do a very extensive thread on this if I have time.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 05, 2016
THERE IS A WAY THAT SEEMETH RIGHT TO A MAN BUT THE END THEREOF IS DESTRUCTION

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ableguy(m): 4:40pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Same here Bro. smiley
What's app 07019233550
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 05, 2016
Nubian113:


Naa waa walaasha lol I don't know how to jog your memory. My old moniker was dimples192 and chiam55.

You change it up a lot. I never know, lol.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by mizhefeh(f): 5:05pm On Jan 05, 2016
kirchofff:
tell me dat u've never masturbated b4 in ur life.........#moment of truth
I don't masturbate,I cucumbate tongue
On a mre serious note why would i even tink abt masturbating undecided

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