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Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Mekyno(m): 6:25am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ujoan:this is not u, unless u hv bn practicing dis and want clear ur conscience wit it. Ur facts are nt aligned at all. It dwarf's d respect i hv for u and ur moniker. 1 Like |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by prospect8007: 6:29am On Jan 08, 2016 |
well, you have been cheated but you are lucky enough to have gotten yourself out of the trap. Anyway, i will advice to divorce her, simple! |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by rabbuy(m): 6:29am On Jan 08, 2016 |
marbee:Aunty is it until she has a son for the ex nd claims he is his son... People sha See one thing about exes is that I there will be residual emotions ... Even if the woman had nothing in mind what about the POLITICIAN... Not just an ordinary man let's not act like we re kids... And for those saying the man had to investigate before she goes smh for you.. Where is the place of trust then... She is not a baby but a mother.. She is accountable for her actions.. Then also pointed out that before then his wife had being acting suspiciously so what more should we say... Uncle let her in but you know once bitten twice shy.. So from now na surveillance oh like people said FBI mode.. Request that she should delete the guy and others from all social media platforms and from her life.. |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Excelento(m): 6:32am On Jan 08, 2016 |
My advice for you is this an adage says '' An idle hands is the Devil workshop''. Sir, 1. disengage her from her Ex- boyfriend. 2. Warn her strictly, also tell her to tell her Ex never to call her line. 3. Disengage her from sitting at home doing nothing by setting up a business for her. 4. Then do pay her unexpected visit at her office. 5. Anytime she wants to receive call and walking out of your vicinity, tell her to stay and receive her call in your presence. God help you. |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by eightsin(m): 6:36am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Op, there is no evidence of cheating here. She might be sorry that she didn't tell you who she is working for. So it's left to you to investigate. The caller might be someone she has a misunderstanding with. I would not advise u to break a marriage of 15years. 2 Likes |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by udemzyudex(m): 6:38am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ujoan: U just jump into conclusion haba.... Like you know it all or are you talking from experience? |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by udemzyudex(m): 6:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
marbee: Did you read the part where he said she later confirmed it? |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by kingdaxn: 6:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
goldiam:hope you won't leave me also... |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Nobody: 6:44am On Jan 08, 2016 |
natasha: 4 Likes |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by franco3075q(m): 6:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
4give her n ask her 2 come back immediatly, and ensure u watch her closely |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by ICEFLAME419ja(m): 6:48am On Jan 08, 2016 |
goldiam: Me I must marry took,no story go change ma mind |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by onunwa21(m): 6:54am On Jan 08, 2016 |
In Economics is called Opportunity cost 1 Like |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Jollymich(m): 7:01am On Jan 08, 2016 |
You be confirm nwafor she should laghachite azu now now |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Eleganza33(f): 7:07am On Jan 08, 2016 |
OGGS2000:pls 4giv her,evn if 4 ur kids sake, 15yrz is nt 15days am surprise she did dis to sum1 who alwaz want ha happy, an idle mind they said is d devil workshop, let her cum nd explain her action. Dnt 4get she av to go 4 a test |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Nweike1: 7:09am On Jan 08, 2016 |
OGGS2000:Very correct, my brother |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by gabbytabby: 7:10am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ujoan: mba mba no married woman should remain in close regular contact with an ex who has known your kitty and same for men. Except them dey find Devil trouble. OP forgive your wife and let her be engaged doing meaningful thing. An idle hand they say is the devils workshop especially as the children are in boarding. 1 Like |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Charis15(f): 7:11am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Op. From someone from a broken home. Forgive your wife, let her come back since she is sorry and then you should have a long talk with her. Communication is the key to every relationship. Believe it or not something made her do it either there is something you stop doing or you started acting strange in your relationship. Always spice up your relationship. And your wife was going to the east to take a job and you never carecared to know her monthly pay |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by agabaI23(m): 7:13am On Jan 08, 2016 |
natasha:Gainfully employed? What kind of gainful employment will invest over 200k for 40k return? |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by oforij(m): 7:14am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Chai! After 15 years, she still crave for her X's Joystick...Marriage dun finish na...OP anyother thing again..ah.ah KINI? |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Nobody: 7:15am On Jan 08, 2016 |
sorepco:How old are you? |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Zuriela: 7:15am On Jan 08, 2016 |
oloyede252: 1million likes. Nlanders can so help to add salt and pepper to ur story for u. In NL u will see, 'when ur wife cheat, forgive her. When ur husband cheat, divorce him. 1 Like |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by tonytony208(m): 7:16am On Jan 08, 2016 |
OGGS2000: I thought Igbo ladies dont cheat on their husbands or engage in extramarital affairs. I thought it is only Yorubas. So, we are same same?! |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by valencia25(m): 7:17am On Jan 08, 2016 |
PresVA:After serious yanshing from the EX abi, some people will just give advice without putting themselves in OP's shoe. OP: do you know how many rounds of sex and different styles of Sex they must have done FLESH TO FLESH! Forget about her before she kill you to finally be with her EX, let her go now when you're still breathing. May God punish any family member that will walk into my home to discuss this shit with me, I'll just ask them what if it was their Wife/Mom. |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by tuco1: 7:25am On Jan 08, 2016 |
OGGS2000: I know it's difficult for 15 years marriage to be done with but trust me she will still choose her Ex million times than you...... |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Truckpusher(m): 7:26am On Jan 08, 2016 |
oloyede252:See stoning o . |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Mekyno(m): 7:30am On Jan 08, 2016 |
InvertedHammer:read d 1st post carefully. He said she left d 200k job d place dey lived b4 relocating to lagos. And she left d job on d excuse she want d family to be together. She can to lagos, become unemployed, and started nagging. .........simply comprehension, maaaan 2 Likes |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by callmelanner(m): 7:31am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Plsss and pls endeavour to see a counselling psychologist to offer u professional guidance & counselling... People here have little or no knowledge about how marriage works. Some might be brilliant enough to offer u some intelligent and unquestionable advise but it's still advisable to seek professional help. And why will u be married for over 15yrs without having a counsellor? This is a civilised world my broda 1 Like |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by Skmoda360(m): 7:33am On Jan 08, 2016 |
thorpido:Complete your statement in english. |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by victorjoe(m): 7:37am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ujoan: Reasoning like this is what wrecks homes. What is wrong is wrong. There is no other name for it. If she had nothing to hide, she would have opened up and told him the whole story about the job. There is no smoke without fire. |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by drbre(m): 7:38am On Jan 08, 2016 |
My heart goes out to you, brother. Let us agree on the following. I assume you are a Christian and as such your marriage is a Christian marriage. If so, u will find the following useful : 1. You are married. 2. Your wife has been in contact with someone whose relationship with her predates your marriage. (They must have been seeing each other for her to have his phone number cos mobile phones was introduced around 2000 or so). That means there has been a breach of trust. 3. You have to prayerfully weigh the options. What's more important in your marriage. 4. The devil attacks marriages cos through that he can destroy families, society, nations and ultimately the world. 5. However, you have to make a decision on what's important tpo you and your family. I never supported divorce..but read Kenneth the Haggin's Marriage ,Divorce, and Remarriage for a Christian perspective on divorce. Also, STUDY 1st Cor. 7. Apt in this matter is 1st Cor 7:14. 6. Pray about it and the Lord shall grant you peace. Remember,major on the major things. Shalom 2 Likes |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by byvan03: 7:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
15 years of marriage about to end over a phone call? She lied to you, obviously hoarded some information and your solution is sending her parking than finding out what went wrong? How did you make it for 15years if you act so impulsively? Some are telling you to change the kids school but trust me, it always turns out a losing game. These kids are grown enough, way past what you can keep away from their mum. Now to the matter, you might need some time to process what happened. You have not established any infidelity yet , why throw her out already? Log off Nairaland and act like a man that has spent 15years in marriage, sit your wife down and understand what went wrong. You mustn't forgive her if she cheated ,but you have to establish that first. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: MY Wife Left Me For Her Politician Exboyfried. by drbre(m): 7:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
1st Cor 7:15 |
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