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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by cupidhero(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2016
Which one be beautiful dwarf? lol.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by tomdon(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2016
deeplow:
well, mine was kinda awkward. Fine girl, fine pictures... we exchanged contacts. Started talking and getting close. i never really asked for us to meet,she initiated it after a while. So, we decided to meet.

Never knew the girl was as young as she turned out to be, she never knew i was as old as i turned out to be. When we met, she was too uncomfortable to speak, hardly could look me in the eyes. i was too ashamed to start conversations too, didnt even know what to start asking her. The age difference from my guess was like 10.

The torture was that, i had ordered food before she arrived(she came a bit late and i was hungry), the food was delicious, i couldn't just leave it to waste. We sat quietly through my meal, got up as i finished, led her straight to my car and i drove her back to school. we talked for only 2 minutes out of the 20 minutes it took to get to her school.

As soon as she alighted, i deleted her number... i am sure she deleted mine right at the restaurant. There hasn't been any form of communication since.

your action is commendable but nothing can stop the determination of a treasure seeker. the deed will certainly be done, maybe be a boy 10 years younger than you, don't even be surprised if it's done by someone twice her age

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jan 11, 2016
Well, I've met not a few folks on social media, from very nice and appreciative personalities to downright repulsive. However as is typical of me, i don't discriminate peeps, and I believe everyone has something to offer, so I look out for that uniqueness in the person.
No matter how southward the encounter may have gone, I don't usually talk about it, as a mark of respect to the person. However I would be more than glad to. sing about the wonderful peeps I've met online, especially NL. when that thread is created.
Generally i keep my friends ( I believe friends are like diamonds, they glow forever) except ofcus he/she wants to do me the courtesy of taking a walk, at which point I introduce him /her to my door.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Swissheart(f): 12:45pm On Jan 11, 2016
Was a regular chatter in a 2go room back then in 2012,there was this girl.... Always forming like say na she big pass. A mutual friend discussed her with me that she stays in my area.... I was eager to meet her but she was just so cold about us meeting. I just kept my cool. I wasn't feeling cool one day...... Didn't know she was a nurse, our mutual friend told her.... And she called to visit me...... Tah, when she got to my place.... She looked older and bleached, very black knees and knuckles .... with acne all over her face. She wasn't looking good at all.... When I met her at the junction...... She kept on staring at me. She wasn't looking half good as she appeared on phone. After that visit .... She wanted us to be intimate friends .... Like visit,go out together nd all that but nah. I didn't like what I saw.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 11, 2016
luvguy:
mrs lecturer...i too knw

Well, sue me for knowing.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jan 11, 2016
Swissheart:
Was a regular chatter in a 2go room back then in 2012,there was this girl.... Always forming like say na she big pass. A mutual friend discussed her with me that she stays in my area.... I was eager to meet her but she was just so cold about us meeting. I just kept my cool. I wasn't feeling cool one day...... Didn't know she was a nurse, our mutual friend told her.... And she called to visit me...... Tah, when she got to my place.... She looked older and bleached, very black knees and knuckles .... with acne all over her face. She wasn't looking good at all.... When I met her at the junction...... She kept on staring at me. She wasn't looking half good as she appeared on phone. After that visit .... She wanted us to be intimate friends .... Like visit,go out together nd all that but nah. I didn't like what I saw.


Oh! You're a lesbian.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by kirchofff(m): 12:55pm On Jan 11, 2016
noblegrex:
so many peeps has a story to tell. There are some unbelievable stories that are actually true life strory.mine is even simple. But I tell you.this world is big and you're not the only one living in it. So,simply because something similar or terrible does not happen around you does not neceesarily made it a fake story. All we pray for is God protect us from seeing or experiencing such or worst. O boy things are happening oo.
hmmm
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by NarnieSnyper(m): 12:57pm On Jan 11, 2016
Hahahaha! Mehn, see unfortunate folks sha.
Met mine through a chat room on 2go back in 2011. She wasnt bad looking but my annoyance was that she used the pix of her pretty friend to deceive me.
We dated for about 3mnths b4 i called it quits because i knew i was fooling myself. No regrets though because my brother always taunted me about being a virgin and she gladly 'helped' me out. She's my first.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jan 11, 2016
Oktoberfest:
she travelled frm smewer in imo state to visit me back in those days in uniben n behold she was very f.ugly pretty,like she always did in her dp,twas late in d evening n she came frm afar else i would av abandoned her...shame catch me reach my hostel bt twas late so nt much folks saw us...n finally she said "no 53x" n im like thank God u read me...nxt morg first bus n shes back home,no further comm...d oda bad1,after months of chatting we finally decided to meet n whn we did she was...a briefcase...i just waka past her pretending to make fone call like where are u nao?im in ekosodin gate i cant see u here...stroll enter anoda place bt later changed mind and went to meet her in nightclass n d rest....

Briefcase? But why?? Why!! grin cry
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by keni: 1:01pm On Jan 11, 2016
evegran:

Oh! You're a lesbian.

She probably didnt know eagle eyes are reading grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by FleetRider(m): 1:03pm On Jan 11, 2016
Keep the stories rolling ...am enjoying it grin
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 11, 2016
keni:


She probably didnt know eagle eyes are reading grin grin grin grin grin

Probably!
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by frakdon(m): 1:03pm On Jan 11, 2016
No, no regret , in fact It was a great experience, but I had to let her go...
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jan 11, 2016
Ginaz:
I did once and I won't do it again, that dude was so dirty and unkept that I almost turn red with embarrassment. Gosh, please dont remind me again abeg, I'm already having an hangover just thinking about that unfortunate day. I deleted his contact and everything from ma phone after he left, what the fuvk? He is related to Osama

Lol
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by FleetRider(m): 1:09pm On Jan 11, 2016
Afritop:
Actually i met this girl (about 2 years younger than me), she was not that good looking, in terms of beauty by she is petite and has that sexy body a man will crave for. But sincerely she was all over me on whatsapp, would be the first to greet me as early as 6am in the morning and if i reply any of her chats, she wont release me, its like she is enjoying having her time with me. As i tried to lose her, she will try to draw me to herself. When i try to meet her in person and her family, cos she is too persistent, i found out that though she is not that good looking as i said, she has a petite hot body, hot legs but small boobs undecided . I did not want to take the relationship to the next level because she is not from my tribe cos parents might not acknowledge her. But she wants to not only take it to the next level but drag it along as well. i dont regret meeting her cos she is a church kind of girl, in fact a choir member from those aggressive pray and fast and daily vigil church. The most painful thing is she confessed that she liked me and wants me to pray about it. I have put myself into soup because I initially started the conversation with her thinking I will get what I want from a girl but what is putting me off from her is her tribe. The only regrettable thing is that I know it will break her heart if I deliberately put her off


Eyaah...that's sad
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Saintzykie: 1:09pm On Jan 11, 2016
evegran:

Well, sue me for knowing.
#epic

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by MrBLING(m): 1:19pm On Jan 11, 2016
Swissheart:
Was a regular chatter in a 2go room back then in 2012,there was this girl.... Always forming like say na she big pass. A mutual friend discussed her with me that she stays in my area.... I was eager to meet her but she was just so cold about us meeting. I just kept my cool. I wasn't feeling cool one day...... Didn't know she was a nurse, our mutual friend told her.... And she called to visit me...... Tah, when she got to my place.... She looked older and bleached, very black knees and knuckles .... with acne all over her face. She wasn't looking good at all.... When I met her at the junction...... She kept on staring at me. She wasn't looking half good as she appeared on phone. After that visit .... She wanted us to be intimate friends .... Like visit,go out together nd all that but nah. I didn't like what I saw.

Obviously you are a man pretending to be female on nairaland

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 11, 2016
Tobium1:
Ok,i sha met dis gurl through a bbm group we had wen still in nysc camp, so we exchanged bbm pin, chatted for sometime and I invited her to come over to my place where I was serving, lo and behold I saw dis gurl, she was very fat. I culd not stand de shame, so I kept her indoors for 3days, my friends and neighbors never got to see her till she left. After den I deleted her from all my social network
grin grin grin
U suppose carry her go gym na. U no br good friend oo. Hehehehehe

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 11, 2016
My Online Relationships are strictly Business related.
Met and worked with a lot of people via Facebook, YouTube and IG for many years now. We chat and talk like family. Don't know what they look like in real life lol.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by kristen12(f): 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2016
Met one last year, he sent a DM and I replied. We got talking from there and exchanged pins.

Later, I got to know he was in the same school I was. He told me his department and somethings I needed to know. He sent a lot of pictures (he looked cute in the pictures tho).
My problem with him was that he lies a lot and he can boast for Africa. He was older than me with 7 or 8 years.

Later, we got to meet. He came to my hostel after his class. What I saw ehn, was different from what he was always sending to me. He was physically challenged (I had no problem with that). He wasn't comfortable with his self, he had low self-esteem, he couldn't even look at me in the eye.
I tried my best to make him feel comfortable. I played with him, I even suggested taking him to my room so my friends would play with him but it didn't work.
I just had to discharge him.




I'm not just cool with online friendship or dating, I think it's a waste of time. Except it's strictly business.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Swissheart(f): 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2016
MrBLING:


Obviously you are a man pretending to be female on nairaland
.... A hahaha hahaha..... You won't do badly as a comedian though

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by KanoAbiaBabe(f): 1:35pm On Jan 11, 2016
I ve met lovely friends and most of them we are still friends till date,even attended the wedding of one of them.
I remember one of my facebook friend who visited me during my days in Ibadan,the guy was ok sha but his dressing killed everything about him. He wore white plain trouser with yellow shirt(oversize) and a pair of brown shoe. Thanks to God my room mates were not around,they for laugh me tire.

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Oyetboy(m): 1:38pm On Jan 11, 2016
bobolizim:
Umm,my own story...there was this girl I met on Facebook around middle of last year,I checked her pictures she was not bad from there I collected her number and we started chatting on whatsapp.

Coincidentally, she schools at my twin sister's school so we decided to meet...when we met,I wanted to ask her...sorry,who are you? but I chill.... I was like what is this? she was a total dwarf....that day I didn't show it for my face when she told she was the one i was waiting for,after that day I stopped calling or chatting with her....that's my story.....oya romancelanders keep the stories in...



all the way from AHS Ifo.... i sight you ...
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Swissheart(f): 1:38pm On Jan 11, 2016
evegran:



Oh! You're a lesbian.
...... Friendship is a choice. That I didn't like what I saw makes me a lesbian right? So must every online friendship be btwn opposite sexes? Don't you meet some ladies and you truly like their personality? And some, you just don't like them. Let's always wear a thinking cap before making assertions.





Meanwhile, is that a way of asking if we are into the same thing? I just checked your profile and obviously you are following more females than guys here!..... I am forced to ask.... Are you a lesbian?

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by tomdon(m): 1:46pm On Jan 11, 2016
deeplow:
well, mine was kinda awkward. Fine girl, fine pictures... we exchanged contacts. Started talking and getting close. i never really asked for us to meet,she initiated it after a while. So, we decided to meet.

Never knew the girl was as young as she turned out to be, she never knew i was as old as i turned out to be. When we met, she was too uncomfortable to speak, hardly could look me in the eyes. i was too ashamed to start conversations too, didnt even know what to start asking her. The age difference from my guess was like 10.

The torture was that, i had ordered food before she arrived(she came a bit late and i was hungry), the food was delicious, i couldn't just leave it to waste. We sat quietly through my meal, got up as i finished, led her straight to my car and i drove her back to school. we talked for only 2 minutes out of the 20 minutes it took to get to her school.

As soon as she alighted, i deleted her number... i am sure she deleted mine right at the restaurant. There hasn't been any form of communication since.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2016
All the female friends and male friends I have met through social media were a hit back to back. I am still close friends with all. The 1st was Ella through 2go in the year 2009, she fell for me because I wasn't so eager to even meet her in person,when I finally met her,i came to see for myself that she's very jovial and homily, the type of friend anyone would love to have. We weren't dating but she was so fond of me,that she can spend the night in my place instead of her boyfriend's place. She once begged me to kiss her outside her hostel,you know all these cold night in the school,that feels like the breeze is romancing you. We are still friends till now,even last year when I was in Lagos camp for my NYSC she paid in #7000 into my account when I told her that hunger is killing me here. I was very surprised and in my mind I wish to surprise her someday in a way of appreciation because she's worth every time I spent with her even If we are not intimate.


The second girl was Jane around 2010 in the same 2go as well,luck had it she was in the same school as mine (UNN). We kept charting and she kept forming as girls always do,telling me she doesn't meet strangers that she is a dwarf, ugly etc,i was like even if you are walking with your head I still wanna meet you in person. I finally met her and wow it was the bomb, every evening I come to her hostel we hang around,she too had her boyfriend but I wasn't bothered .Everything I had with her was a hit back to back, until November 2013 when an incident happened in which she accused me of trying to rape her. That's started the end of our friendship,she walked out on me and told me she doesn't wanna have anything to do with me as long as she lived. I called later to explain things to her but she wouldn't pick my calls and when she did she told me Dozie stay the he'll away from me. I had to move on,though she still called from time to time with a hidden number and will say just wanna check up on you,myself will pretend like I didn't know it was her. There was a day she called me in 2014, if I can come to her room let's talk things over,i replied her,your message is still in my phone is better you respect yourself and keep to that message. Then in May 2014, she called me while I was reading my note and preparing for a carry over test. She said she was in a fix and needed my help,that I should borrow her like #25000, because she spoilt her colleague's laptop and she is asking her to pay for it. She also said I know we haven't been the best of friends lately, if you refuse to help me I would understand. I borrowed her the money and since then we have been five and six,though I asked her why did you come back to the person you said wanted to rape you,she kept quiet and after some silence she said I don't even know.


There are other ones but let me stop here for now

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Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2016
kristen12:
Met one last year, he sent a DM and I replied. We got talking from there and exchanged pins.

Later, I got to know he was in the same school I was. He told me his department and somethings I needed to know. He sent a lot of pictures (he looked cute in the pictures tho).
My problem with him was that he lies a lot and he can boast for Africa. He was older than me with 7 or 8 years.

Later, we got to meet. He came to my hostel after his class. What I saw ehn, was different from what he was always sending to me. He was physically challenged (I had no problem with that). He wasn't comfortable with his self, he had low self-esteem, he couldn't even look at me in the eye.
I tried my best to make him feel comfortable. I played with him, I even suggested taking him to my room so my friends would play with him but it didn't work.
I just had to discharge him.




I'm not just cool with online friendship or dating, I think it's a waste of time. Except it's strictly business.

Sup b, that ur pic background is indicating u need rich boy? Mmmmm
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2016
Swissheart:
...... Friendship is a choice. That I didn't like what I saw makes me a lesbian right? So must every online friendship be btwn opposite sexes? Don't you meet some ladies and you truly like their personality? And some, you just don't like them. Let's always wear a thinking cap before making assertions.





Meanwhile, is that a way of asking if we are into the same thing? I just checked your profile and obviously you are following more females than guys here!..... I am forced to ask.... Are you a lesbian?


Don't be silly, it was a question. You coulda simply said no, instead of defending yourself like we're in court.


And FYI, I LOVE dick. All lesbian approaches fails.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by kristen12(f): 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2016
oboman:


Sup b, that ur pic background is indicating u need rich boy? Mmmmm

LMAO...... I'm comfortable already.
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by Churchillsaug(m): 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2016
bobolizim:
Umm,my own story...there was this girl I met on Facebook around middle of last year,I checked her pictures she was not bad from there I collected her number and we started chatting on whatsapp.

Coincidentally, she schools at my twin sister's school so we decided to meet...when we met,I wanted to ask her...sorry,who are you? but I chill.... I was like what is this? she was a total dwarf....that day I didn't show it for my face when she told she was the one i was waiting for,after that day I stopped calling or chatting with her....that's my story.....oya romancelanders keep the stories in...
that was'nt fair
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by arnold123: 2:06pm On Jan 11, 2016
prettyjo:
mine was back then during the times of 2go.met this handsome dude(my love for handsome dudes though grin)
we decided to meet,i was angry at what i saw.he was very short embarassed.
just managed to stay some minutes with him and dat was the end of it and since then i don't do visits again.
short people have big dickz though kmt!, and if you're tall your cuuunnnnt will be stretchy and rickety
Re: Ever Regretted Meeting Someone From Social Network? Tell Your Story by saasala(m): 2:07pm On Jan 11, 2016
prettyjo:
eiyaaaaaa
but its actually not my fault cry

Still mind meeting some other online guy?

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