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Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 06, 2016
Please no insults. Just read and pass if your intention is to throw insults around. Now read:

I find myself in a situation where I have 3 main girlfriends. I have been able to manage my affairs with all 3 without getting caught and I know their parents and family members. Their family members also know me and have accepted me. I have tested all 3 and I believe they truly love me.

I am in my early 30s and I plan settling down this year. The 3 gals all know i am settling down this year. All 3 believe I will be marrying them this year.

I have made up my mind on the one I want to marry but my dilemma is this: How do I break up with the other 2 without hurting them so much? I do not want fight, hatred and bitterness from any of them or their family members.

Genuine advice needed. No insults please.
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by CaroLyner(f): 4:25pm On Feb 06, 2016
you want to shatter two hearts at once.
you cant escape the hatred.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Vaabra01(f): 4:26pm On Feb 06, 2016
ahhhh eleyi gidi gan ooo..d guyz should say somtin
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Medunah: 4:27pm On Feb 06, 2016
Marry all three of them, problem solved. undecided

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by shegxi(m): 4:31pm On Feb 06, 2016
Lol......u are wicked bro, 3 for dat matter and u also met deir families. well, i dnt knw how u will do it dat they wnt hate u o.......

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Michellla(f): 4:31pm On Feb 06, 2016
Get Ready For A Whole Lottttta BackLash.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Olasco93: 4:33pm On Feb 06, 2016
This is a dicey situation. Though you got it all wrong from the begining. These are innocent hearts you are toying with. Am sure you know the consequences of what you've done and what you're about to do.
I pray the other two forgive you.
Remember that Karma is real and there is never a BETTER way to do WRONG.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by donholy28(m): 4:36pm On Feb 06, 2016
brother u re one wicked morafucker.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by olac21(m): 4:40pm On Feb 06, 2016
Medunah:
Marry all three of them, problem solved. undecided

Be reasonable for once!this shouldn't be a joke to you!
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Spicylate(f): 4:45pm On Feb 06, 2016
E wu ewu!

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by StPete: 4:46pm On Feb 06, 2016
Going ahead to meet with the three families was a bit too careless on ur part. Kindly excuse yourself by possibly settling them financially. My two cents

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Feb 06, 2016
grin
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Feb 06, 2016
ask them how many men they have slept with in there past. they will flare up that is it.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by mtcheeew: 4:50pm On Feb 06, 2016
olowoba:
Please no insults. Just read and pass if your intention is to throw insults around. Now read:

I find myself in a situation where I have 3 main girlfriends. I have been able to manage my affairs with all 3 without getting caught and I know their parents and family members. Their family members also know me and have accepted me. I have tested all 3 and I believe they truly love me.

I am in my early 30s and I plan settling down this year. The 3 gals all know i am settling down this year. All 3 believe I will be marrying them this year.

I have made up my mind on the one I want to marry but my dilemma is this: How do I break up with the other 2 without hurting them so much? I do not want fight, hatred and bitterness from any of them or their family members.

Genuine advice needed. No insults please.
my Yoruba brother how far(kilowa)?
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Daniel2289(m): 4:51pm On Feb 06, 2016
You b GUY MAN NA.... Why are u running. Finish what u started. Marry the 3 of them.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by gamaliel121(m): 4:52pm On Feb 06, 2016
Wicked motherfucccker...
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 06, 2016
The truth should do. You can't marry her you've met someone you don't want to waste her time.
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Mixty: 4:54pm On Feb 06, 2016
WinningSun:
ask them how many men they have slept with in there past. they will flare up that is it.
grin grin grin
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Michellla(f): 5:00pm On Feb 06, 2016
Estharfabian:
grin
expecting a bomb comeback from you grin

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Medunah: 5:06pm On Feb 06, 2016
olac21:


Be reasonable for once!this shouldn't be a joke to you!
Who are u? OP's Spokesman? Was he reasonable to have 3 fiances at a time? U now expect me to be reasonable? Op himself is a joke, he gave all 3 of dem hopes of marrying them, he his now asking how to leave 2 nd marry 1 without fight, hatred or bitterness, so when he went to meet d family of all three, he didn't know he was gonna marry only one then, yeah? Seriously, where is that done??

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Meeloreh(f): 5:07pm On Feb 06, 2016
Hmmn, you can't escape hatred and curses sef. After they left other guys, u met their parent, do u even know aw much day dreaming they must av had with their mothers? The plans of the aso ebi and choosing of bridal train. Hmmn, my guy I have 2 prayers for you: may the lady u end up marrying be the right one and may the marriage last in Jesus' name.

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 06, 2016
Medunah:

Who are u? OP's Spokesman? Was he reasonable to have 3 fiances at a time? U now expect me to be reasonable? Op himself is a joke, he gave all 3 of dem hopes of marrying them, he his now asking how to leave 2 nd marry 1 without fight, hatred or bitterness, so when he went to meet d family of all three, he didn't know he was gonna marry only one then, yeah? Seriously, where is that done??
I didn't ask you to analyze the situation. I asked for advice. if you have none, keep shut.
thanks smiley
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 06, 2016
grinfirst off, You've innovated The word "Player" to A Whole new Different Level!grin I'm almost impressed! How did You pull it off?shockedshocked your chicanery is indeed commendable.


Tricking 3 sane girls? Forgive me, Buh I definitely think those girls are either shallow, Brain-Washed, gullible, fatuous, Or just plain Stûpid. You're not even Justin briber!undecidedAre You?sad

Anyways, It doesn't change the fact that You're an heartless, egocentric, irresponsible, inhumane, feckless excuse of a man Who doesn't give A dime whatsoever about Other people's feelings.


These are human beings for fûcks sake! Not some puppet you could just do way with anytime you're bored! dude, You need some serious prayers. and psychotherapy preferably.

Guys Like You are the main Reason Why ladies like Genevieve, Oprah, Linda ikeji are still singleundecided lipsrsealed

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by firstking01(m): 5:12pm On Feb 06, 2016
WeLL, you 've not told us anything tangibLe thing that wiLL make us advice you...aLL i 've read there is i have 3main girL friend, and their famiLy know me, bLa bLa bLa...give us the fuLL story.
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Feb 06, 2016
Michellla:
expecting a bomb comeback from you grin
I think I just did...grin


The Guy's annoying!lipsrsealed

Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Feb 06, 2016
That was harsh. You are really pained. From the way you spoken, it seems as if you have been bleeped and dumped several times. You have experienced rejection several times.
I feel sorry for you. Take heart smiley

Estharfabian:
grinfirst off, You've innovated The word "Player" to A Whole new Different Level!grin I'm almost impressed! How did You pull it off?shockedshocked your chicanery is indeed commendable.


Tricking 3 sane girls? Forgive me, Buh I definitely think those girls are either shallow, Brain-Washed, gullible, fatuous, Or just plain Stûpid. You're not even Justin briber!undecidedAre You?sad

Anyways, It doesn't change the fact that You're an heartless, egocentric, irresponsible, inhumane, feckless excuse of a man Who doesn't give A dime whatsoever about Other people's feelings.


These are human beings for fûcks sake! Not some puppet you could just do way with anytime you're bored! dude, You need some serious prayers. and psychotherapy preferably.

Guys Like You are the main Reason Why ladies like Genevieve, Oprah, Linda ikeji are still singleundecided lipsrsealed

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Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Feb 06, 2016
firstking01:
WeLL, you 've not told us anything tangibLe thing that wiLL make us advice you...aLL i 've read there is i have 3main girL friend, and their famiLy know me, bLa bLa bLa...give us the fuLL story.
I have spoken enough. You should be able to advise me with what I have said.
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Medunah: 5:16pm On Feb 06, 2016
olowoba:

I didn't ask you to analyze the situation. I asked for advice. if you have none, keep shut.
thanks smiley
After those two girls put their lives on hold for u, neglecting other guys thinking u will marry them, u now here asking for advice on how to dump them. Deceiver #longesthissever
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by firstking01(m): 5:17pm On Feb 06, 2016
WeLL, you 've not told us anything tangibLe thing that wiLL make us advice you...aLL i 've read there is i have 3main girL friend, and their famiLy know me, bLa bLa bLa...give us the fuLL story....teLL us how close you are to the 3 of them...give us a clue of their character and famuLy background
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by firstking01(m): 5:19pm On Feb 06, 2016
WeLL, you 've not told us anything tangibLe that wiLL make us advice you...aLL i 've read there is i have 3main girL friend, and their famiLy know me, bLa bLa bLa...give us the fuLL story....teLL us how close you are to the 3 of them...give us a clue of their character and famuLy background
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 06, 2016
Medunah:

After those two girls put their lives on hold for u, neglecting other guys thinking u will marry them, u now here asking for advice on how to dump them. Deceiver #longesthissever
Well.....apart from insults and hisses, do you have any advice?
If you have nothing tangible to say, I suggest you read other people's civil comments and LEARN wink
Re: Advice Needed. I Have 3 Fiancees. How Do I Break Up With 2 Of Them? by Medunah: 5:21pm On Feb 06, 2016
olowoba:

Well.....apart from insults and hisses, do you have any advice?
If you have nothing tangible to say, I suggest you read other people's civil comments and LEARN wink
K

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