@Fruitfulvine.....lol...I knew what will come next cos of that song...God has indeed put a new song on your lips....May you carry to term dear...congrats

fruitfulvine360:
Beautiful nd fruitful mamas, Ekaaro o., its confirmed I AM VERY PREGNANT!. Ds God is tooooooo faithful, despite my unfaithfulness. He has shown me mercy. Pls rejoice wt me.
#Weareallstormingdpreggythreaddsyear#
#ouryrofunlimtedbfps)

Dancing shakitibobo on your behalf. Wonderful news this morning. Congratulations dear. May God keep you, your Los (twins) your dh and your families in Jesus name. Amen.

fruitfulvine360:
Beautiful nd fruitful mamas, Ekaaro o., its confirmed I AM VERY PREGNANT!. Ds God is tooooooo faithful, despite my unfaithfulness. He has shown me mercy. Pls rejoice wt me.
#Weareallstormingdpreggythreaddsyear#
#ouryrofunlimtedbfps)

. mummy oyoyooooooooooo.. the same be reach to other mamas here Ameeeeeeeeen.. make I dey prepare for rice and chicken

Congrats @fruitfulvine360, may God strengthens you to carry to term and deliver safely.

fruitfulvine360:
Beautiful nd fruitful mamas, Ekaaro o., its confirmed I AM VERY PREGNANT!. Ds God is tooooooo faithful, despite my unfaithfulness. He has shown me mercy. Pls rejoice wt me.
#Weareallstormingdpreggythreaddsyear#
#ouryrofunlimtedbfps)

A very big congrats to you. Our God is good all the time. I pray for a healthy and happy pregnancy for you and a bouncing healthy baby. Na so we all go port to Preggy thread this year in Jesus name, Amen.

Were you tackling any ttc challenge before your bfp? If yes pls state the challenge and what you did differently in your bfp cycle. Thanks and Take care of you and yours.

fruitfulwoman:
@oluwadamelola, i be no wan talk for dis your matter because the last time wey i talk for dis kain matter, d fruitful mama later confess why her dh dey para. But my heart went out to you. But i still have to ask, why is your husband paraing? Why is he threatening to dissolve the marriage at just 12 months? Are you God or are you not telling us something that he knows? Nobody is a saint. Did you write your own vows and throw out the part of for better, for worse, in sickness and in health? What are your health challenges? Na arrangee marriage? You didn't exchange love words? The love has turned sour after six months? Don't mind me o. Something make me vex dis morning and as i come see your post on your dh, i come dey para d more. But lemme change tactics instead of doing more harm than good.


That said, prayer is the key. The heart of kings are in God's hands. When you pray, place dh and your in-laws hearts in God hands. Keep anxiety at bay. It will worsen your situation. Go buy ear piece abeg to take listen to gospel music. When dh is on his warpath, just go to your room, plug it to your phone and listen to uplifting songs. It is well with you, dear.

Sebi na me love dey shack tell am say i don abort before. now i dnt blame people that go to the grave with their past. dis is d same man that was running upandan cos he dey fear to marry, now we marry finish na pikin noise he dey use block my ears. shey if he never marry, he go dey look for pikin? i searched my heart, to know if i would make life miserable for him if he were to b d one with issues, but i just couldn't bring myself to torment him. maybe thats why it's getting to me.
my sis had an accident last year and i already told him that once she is discharged, she will come to our house for a while might not even be up to a month. then last night, he asked me if my mum would be coming and i told him that i dnt knw. now let me quote him" did you say that you want to get pregnant? i can see that you are pregnant. let me tell you, if by may you are not pregnant, i will dissolve the marriage" abeg shey na my mama no allow me get belle ni? but cos i dey fast, i no want make devil use him to block my blessing, i just waka commot. na me dey beg am to torchlight me o and he go dey tell me say he no wan waste him sperm. kai i don suffer.stuffs i cnt share with people, d thing just dey hurt me. my only sin b say i tell am before we marry say i don commot belle o.

iomoge2:
My doctor placed me on clomid.
Next appointment another 6weeks
Asked me to track.
And do sugar test
Pcos, weight n sugar are all linked according to him.

@iomoge, except you don't read my post....Yes pcos is linked with sugar and even diabetes or family history..Clomid does not help rather it will worsen your situation..... herbs eg vitex is what works....stay on a good dose of it.....use soy isoflavone in place of Clomid and soon all will be well....but I can assure you that after your first and second dose of Clomid your doctor might want you to try a 3rd cycle and increase your dosage as well and before you know what is happening your ovaries might not respond to stimulation and your endometrial linning might become very thin which might even hinder implantation and it takes a pretty long time to recover from Clomid's side effect

mumihaja:


@iomoge, except you don't read my post....Yes pcos is linked with sugar and even diabetes or family.....Clomid does not help rather it will worsen your situation..... herbs eg vitex is what works....stay on a good dose of it.....use soy isoflavone in place of Clomid and soon all will be well....but I can assure you that after your first and second dose your doctor might want you to try a 3rd cycle and increase your dosage as well and before you know what is happening your ovaries might not respond to stimulation and your endometrial linning might become very thin which might even hinder implantation and it tales a pret long time to recover from Clomid's side effect

Mumihaja is right. i was placed on clomid for 5 cycles and it did mess up my endometrial lining. the last clomid dose i used, i went for a pelvic scan on cycle day 12 and the endometrium was thin measuring 5mm. implantation needs about 7mm to 8mm to occur. this TTC waka sef don tire me.
some issues go just get name and surname( hormonal Imbalance) some get initials( PCOS)

I read o.
I tried clomid once and hated myself
I was asking him for alternative
He said letrozole
But after I must have done 6 clomid cycles but he believes I will be preg b4 then
I know I can't bring myself to do clomid

I am still on d dose of vitex and metformin
Running on T mill and watching my diet then no more dinner.
Dunno where to get iso flavonoids as d pharmacies look at me like am speaking Spanish
Biko who has a pix, maybe I can show them
They keep giving me multi vitamins that has b flavonoids or so

After my days here, I shouldn't be caught with clomid Na. It even gave me cyst o.... Hian.

@ Oluwadamelola , don't regret telling him about your past. What if he later found out after the marriage, e go wan use that one talk say you deceived him or something like that. Am sure you've asked God for forgiveness, he's a merciful God. There are ladies who have done multiple abortions as single ladies and when they get married, they go on ahead to have children as much as they desire. if he's not comfortable with having your sister and mum in your house at the same time maybe because he'll feel crowded, discuss calmly with him and find out his reasons. And if its not absolutely necessary for your Mum to also come along then let only your sister come and you take care of her as she recuperates. It might just be that he feels he might feel crowded with you, your sister and your Mum on one side gossiping and gisting while he has no one. I hope I made sense with what am trying to describe. Something like having him, your father in law and your brother in law in the house. You know most times, the three might just sit in the living room and a gist that you'll have no contribution to my come up and you might feel left alone as you sit and look like Mumu or may be forced to just go to the room to lie down. Something like that. Don't let all of this bug you, babies don't need a stressed mind and body. You'll get a speedy bpf. Just go for your tests and be sure that all your reproductive organs are ok and if any issues (I pray not), you quickly tackle it. There's nothing too big for God.

@oluwadamelola, oh, my. My heart just broke for you. I don't even know what to say anymore. Your dh needs a psychologist o. Not an insult. Someone for him to talk too. I guess he's hurt too. But saying wasting sperm? Omg!

See, wisdom is profitable to direct. Please recall back the lovey-dovey days. What are the things you do that made him go gaga in the past? Start doing them again. Plan this coming valentine as if your marriage depends on it. Remind him with stuff why you got married in the first place. When you finally get him on that spot, talk to him, as in bare your mind to him. Whatever you do, please don't hate him. That hate might stop you conceiving. Keep on showing him love no matter what he says to you. No matter how painful, be the best wife on earth to him. Love will bring your miracle. Its difficult, i know but try your best. Your dh will eat his words in future. Above all, wrap all these with prayers. Wake up every night to pray. Devil is out for marriages o. To stop Godly seeds from manifesting, the generation to usher in the coming of Christ.

It is well with you, dear. You're in my prayers.

Fruitfulvine360. Happy bumping o
Please book space for us for pregnancy tread o
But e bi like say one mama don collect October class captain for your hand o

Fvine, amen o
Seeing d days, weeks and months go by hurts.
God dey

iomoge2:
I read o.
I tried clomid once and hated myself
I was asking him for alternative
He said letrozole
But after I must have done 6 clomid cycles but he believes I will be preg b4 then
I know I can't bring myself to do clomid

I am still on d dose of vitex and metformin
Running on T mill and watching my diet then no more dinner.
Dunno where to get iso flavonoids as d pharmacies look at me like am speaking Spanish
Biko who has a pix, maybe I can show them
They keep giving me multi vitamins that has b flavonoids or so

After my days here, I shouldn't be caught with clomid Na. It even gave me cyst o.... Hian.

I also had the same issue with pharmacies when I wanted to try Soy Iso. I was finally able to get from Green World. Look for a big green world distributor shop and ask them. Green World has their own brand of Soy Isoflavones. Maybe talk to your Dr about clomid thining out your lining and see if there's a solution to that. I know clomid has been able to help some pcos women conceive. By the way keep up with your healthy eating and work outs, that's very good and helps.

The Green World Soy ISO brand is called Soy Power Capsules. You can even try Google to see the Pic. White bottle with Red abi na Pink markings. If you have no Green World near you, maybe try online like Kaymu, Jumia, Konga and the rest.

Jummiantwins , FATMe and ayashow.
Where are you 2
Please show face.
We need one another on dis journey

Fvine:
@ Oluwadamelola , don't regret telling him about your past. What if he later found out after the marriage, e go wan use that one talk say you deceived him or something like that. Am sure you've asked God for forgiveness, he's a merciful God. There are ladies who have done multiple abortions as single ladies and when they get married, they go on ahead to have children as much as they desire. if he's not comfortable with having your sister and mum in your house at the same time maybe because he'll feel crowded, discuss calmly with him and find out his reasons. And if its not absolutely necessary for your Mum to also come along then let only your sister come and you take care of her as she recuperates. It might just be that he feels he might feel crowded with you, your sister and your Mum on one side gossiping and gisting while he has no one. I hope I made sense with what am trying to describe. Something like having him, your father in law and your brother in law in the house. You know most times, the three might just sit in the living room and a gist that you'll have no contribution to my come up and you might feel left alone as you sit and look like Mumu or may be forced to just go to the room to lie down. Something like that. Don't let all of this bug you, babies don't need a stressed mind and body. You'll get a speedy bpf. Just go for your tests and be sure that all your reproductive organs are ok and if any issues (I pray not), you quickly tackle it. There's nothing too big for God.

Thanks so much. fortunately for me, i woke up with joy in my heart. i don book space for HSG tomorrow afternoon and i begged dem to give me a pain relief before d procedure. i don also book space for church this evening for my ash wednesday. if i have my way sef, i go use the ash cook and baff. hubby wey i dey beg make we go church together wey dey make yanga, don ask me to come pick am from work make we go church together. i no wan judge but i knw say na him way of saying sorry b dat he go still do anoda thing. i don tell am say na lace dem use press him mouth for small. he no dey filter him words. na my cross b dat.

@fruitfulvine360 congratulations,wish you stressfree 9months and may you carry to term.

fruitfulwoman:
@oluwadamelola, oh, my. My heart just broke for you. I don't even know what to say anymore. Your dh needs a psychologist o. Not an insult. Someone for him to talk too. I guess he's hurt too. But saying wasting sperm? Omg!

See, wisdom is profitable to direct. Please recall back the lovey-dovey days. What are the things you do that made him go gaga in the past? Start doing them again. Plan this coming valentine as if your marriage depends on it. Remind him with stuff why you got married in the first place. When you finally get him on that spot, talk to him, as in bare your mind to him. Whatever you do, please don't hate him. That hate might stop you conceiving. Keep on showing him love no matter what he says to you. No matter how painful, be the best wife on earth to him. Love will bring your miracle. Its difficult, i know but try your best. Your dh will eat his words in future. Above all, wrap all these with prayers. Wake up every night to pray. Devil is out for marriages o. To stop Godly seeds from manifesting, the generation to usher in the coming of Christ.

It is well with you, dear. You're in my prayers.

no mind my hubby jare, i don talk say i no go gree make devil use him for me. my own be say, i no go gree till my prayers are answered. funny enough, if i tender my heart desires to God, no matter how many they are, i dey receive miracles concerning them na only this pikin thing dey pending. it is well sha

oluwadamelola:


Thanks so much. fortunately for me, i woke up with joy in my heart. i don book space for HSG tomorrow afternoon and i begged dem to give me a pain relief before d procedure. i don also book space for church this evening for my ash wednesday. if i have my way sef, i go use the ash cook and baff. hubby wey i dey beg make we go church together wey dey make yanga, don ask me to come pick am from work make we go church together. i no wan judge but i knw say na him way of saying sorry b dat he go still do anoda thing. i don tell am say na lace dem use press him mouth for small. he no dey filter him words. na my cross b dat.

Thank God he's apologetic already. Abeg pick am up from work, endeavour to be early there and dont keep him waiting make e no be like say you sef wan do small shakara or retaliate, and also show him love. Since you already know that your DH is the type without mouth filter (no offense meant pls), just ignore whatever he says and know say na him way be dat, you can always find a good time to let him know that you didn't like what he said and it caused you pain. Pray to God for wisdom and patience. it's well dear.

Iomoge2, my soy power capsule. One tab contains 25mg of soy isoflavone

Congrats fruitfulvine360 u will carry to term oooooooo

@ Mumygrace, I love your suggestion.
Mama Iomoge2 suggested the same thing not long ago too & to set the ball rolling, she has began implementation.
Very nice thing to do!
Wish everyone can join.

beegurl:
Iomoge2, my soy power capsule. One tab contains 25mg of soy isoflavone

Thanks for posting. @ iomoge2 , that's the Green Worlds Soy Power Capsules I told you about. Since according to Beegurl it contains 25mg, you'll just take multiple Capsules to equal the dosage you want. Research it. I think 100mg of Soy ISO equals 50mg of Clomid.

Meanwhile, we should try & be sure we don't have an issue like low progesterone before using Soy Iso to avoid causing more harm.
Vitex is a miracle. Combining with m2tone, does wonders over a few cycles. The good thing I guess is people with PCOS can also add metformin or myo inositol as desired. But you just have to be patient with these for a few cycles for them to start working.

@fruitfulwoman, great is the faithfulness of God in our lives, wish you a h&h nine months I speedily tap into it

Has anyone here tried tamoxifen before?
Tamoxifen: An alternative to clomiphene in women with polycystic ovary ...
www​.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/.../PMC3205537/?

I also used tamoxifen (with one day monitoring) the month I got my bfp. I dunno if it helped or its was my time.

Congratz fruitfulvine360. Wishing u a healthy and happy pregnancy ride.

MummyElena:
Meanwhile, we should try & be sure we don't have an issue like low progesterone before using Soy Iso to avoid causing more harm.
Vitex is a miracle. Combining with m2tone, does wonders over a few cycles. The good thing I guess is people with PCOS can also add metformin or myo inositol as desired.

@MummyElena, when taking Soy for ovulation you take it for just 5 days and 150-200mg is okay....thesame way you dont take clomid all through your cycle you cant take soy all through your cycle

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Thanks mummyelena, to the Glory of God, we are fine . You all are next in Jesus name.

Congratulations fruitfulvine360. Healthy and happy 9months ahead.

Iomoge2 dont even bother wasting your time on clomid. Your doc wants to try it for 6 whole cycles? Wowza!.

You are either use letrozole or tamoxifen OR
Inositol, vit b6 and metformin (this worked for me) OR
Fertilaid and metformin(dint work for me tho.)

Ouwadamelola, if your dh is a also catholic and attended marriage class then he should have been told that marriage is first for companionship and procreation is a blessing. Just try and ignore what he said to you and you have to forgive him. If you keep what he said in your heart just so you can hurt him back, God might not answer your prayers. Dont worry,when he starts going out at midnight to look for suya for you or drive around the neighborhood looking for party jollof rice because you are craving it, you would not remember how his words hurt you.