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Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by dre11(m): 6:14pm On Mar 04, 2016
18-yr-old student runs away from home in Enugu; found pregnant for Lagos boyfriend

A teenage girl who ran away from home in Enugu has been arrested in Lagos after she became pregnant fro her boyfriend

An 18-year-old secondary school student who ran away from her parents home in Enugu State four months ago, has been found pregnant for her boyfriend in Lagos State, New Telegraph reports.

The girl identified as Chidinma , was declared wanted by her parents and after a frantic search for her that spanned 16 weeks, the Festac Town Police arrested her at the Diamond Bank branch at Amuwo-Odofin , where she had gone to cash some money, on February 12, 2016.
It was discovered she was living with her 21-year-old lover, Idris Umar , an aspiring musician and an hair stylist.

As the police prepare to take Umar to court on charges of abduction and rape, the girl has come out to say he did not abduct her nor did he rape her, declaring that she loves him and actually ran away from home to be with him after she had offended her father and was running away from him to avoid punishment.

Chidinma, who showed no remorse in running away from home or being pregnant, told the police that Umar did not know her real age as she told him she was 21.
“Idris did not abduct me and did not rape me either. I love him. He asked me my age. I didn’t want to tell him my real age because if I did, he would see me as a little girl. I told him I was 21.

I ran away from home out of frustration. I ran away from home last year. I was 17. I was in Senior Secondary Class (SS2). I don’t know why the police arrested Idris. He hadn’t done anything wrong.

He didn’t rape me. I gave myself to him. I knew what I was doing. He didn’t force or took advantage of me. In fact, he assisted me.”
On his part, Umar who appeared unperturbed by whatever the police have in store for him, saying he loves the girl and is ready to marry her:

“I love Chidinma and I don’t want to look elsewhere. She’s my first love and lover. I love her. Yes, I’m ready for marriage. I’m soon going into the music industry; I don’t want women to start chasing and disturbing me after I have made it in music.

That’s why I want to marry early. If I get into music now, everyone will love me. I wouldn’t know which one has genuine love for me. So, I need to marry now. And Chidinma is my first love. I can’t deny her. I’ll marry her.”

The girl then recalled the circumstances that led to her running away from home:
“I’m the second among five kids. We were on the dining table when my younger sister said I should get up that she wanted to sit where I was sitting, I didn’t answer her. She went to sit in another seat. She started insulting me.

I had water in my mouth; I spat the water on her. She took hot tea and poured it in my ear. I became angry. I took hot water from the flask and poured her. My father came out. He didn’t ask what happened.

He ordered me to kneel down. I tried to explain, but he refused to listen. He went into the room, came out with a mop and used the stick part to start hitting me. I told them that I would leave the house.

He said I should go, after all there was nothing they were doing with me. That wasn’t the first time I had threatened to leave the house. Whenever I threatened them, they would ask me to go.

They would say I’m not useful to them. That night, I packed my bag and left the house. I took bus and went to Lagos, from Enugu.
We landed in Lagos around 10pm. The bus stopped us at Mazamaza, which was the last bus stop. I had N50,000 with me. I did concert for a company and they paid me. I lodged in a hotel.

The next day, I started looking for clues, to know if I could locate where my aunt stays. I stayed in that hotel for a week and two days. It was within that one week that I met Umar. I met him in the saloon where I used to go to fix my nails. We started chatting and became friends and soon fell in love. A few days after, I moved into Umar’s apartment."

Umar said he didn’t think of asking Chidinma the whereabouts of her parents or whom she was living with because anytime he brought up the matter, she would shut him up.

"She didn’t want to talk about herself or family. I allowed her to be because I didn’t want to hurt her. I asked her where she lives, she said around Festac. I thought she was staying with her uncle. Whenever I pressed her, she would tell me to leave the matter alone. She told me she was 21.

We started living together in November. In December, I saw a message in her email; I realized she was having issues with her mom. She now told me everything. I was the one that told her to start picking her mom’s call.

I got to know she was pregnant. I said I would take her to her parents and introduce myself. We agreed to raise money, so that we could go to her parents. I could have called her mom, but I didn’t want to hurt her. She wouldn’t like it if I called her mum.”

Chidinma continued:
“I didn’t tell Idris the story of how I ran away from home. I didn’t want him to know. I lied to him that I didn’t have anywhere to stay. He said I could stay with him. One day, he read my email messages. He saw messages from my mom.

When he saw the messages, he started asking questions. By then, my mom had already started calling, begging me to return home. I could have gone back home, but my dad, who hit me with the mop stick, didn’t even call.

That was why I refused to go back home. He didn’t even call to ask how I was. He didn’t care. I stiffened my heart. I refused to go home. I started planning to get a job in Lagos.

Yes, I used to sleep with Idris, but not always. When I discovered I was pregnant, I told Idris. He said I shouldn’t worry, that he wasn’t going to deny the pregnancy
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We began planning our marriage in earnest. Idris said he needed to save some money, in order to follow me to see her parents for proper introductions and preparation for the marriage rites. He even took her to Kogi State, to meet his family.

He wanted to speak with my mum, but I refused him. I told him that I would handle that aspect. Moreover, my mum has High Blood Pressure (BP). I didn’t want her to worry.”

Chidinma’s mom had been calling always to check on her daughter. She also sends money. On February 11, 2016, the woman sent N10, 000, to Chidinma and it was the money she went to withdraw at the bank when she was arrested.

“The police took me to Festac Police Station. They gave me a phone to call my mom. My mom didn’t send any money. She tricked me. She wanted me to go to the bank, so that police would arrest me. They asked me who I was staying me; in order not to create more trouble for myself, I mentioned Idris. I’m in love with Idris. Love is a strong feeling that binds people together.

I have strong feelings for Idris. He didn’t treat me bad. He took me to his house, fed and bought clothes for me. I don’t see my sleeping with him as paying him. I’m ready to marry him. I don’t think my parents will say no to our marriage.

To me, Idris didn’t do anything wrong. If he was using me, he wouldn’t have taken me to his family. He’s not my first lover. I knew what I was doing when I accepted his advances.”

http://opera.pulse.ng/gist/mad-love-18-yr-old-student-runs-away-from-home-in-enugu-found-pregnant-for-lagos-boyfriend-id4763173.html

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by ElDaIllest(m): 6:17pm On Mar 04, 2016
Hmm he said he wanted to settle down with her so to stop women from chasing him when he enters the industry... Indeed sad

You don dey get baby mama before you blow abi...hmm your potency is stronger than your talent sef grin






So this is how first to comment feels like Like nothing sad,so what's all the fuss about ,mtchewww maybe when I become a billionaire I'll just relax in a cane chair in a mansion overlooking the ocean,sipping crystal and think "what's the big deal"??

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by jane0000(f): 6:18pm On Mar 04, 2016
shocked shocked

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by jane0000(f): 6:20pm On Mar 04, 2016
Seun,lalasticlala and mr mynd44 even though I no like u undecided make una dey standby o cause Tribal/religion fight go full dis thread wella. I don talk my own o.

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by goodmorning40: 6:24pm On Mar 04, 2016
and the story continues

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Nobody: 6:24pm On Mar 04, 2016
ain't seeing no belle here... abeg if anybody see am, make he call me oo..

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by slimthugchimee(m): 6:26pm On Mar 04, 2016
i know her, the girl lives in my street in enugu, her parents are our family friends


she was a stubborn girl then, this is what her bad ways has caused her

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by SweetOlive(f): 6:27pm On Mar 04, 2016
This gurl is mean. WTH! See the rough looking boy too shocked

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by donogaga(m): 6:30pm On Mar 04, 2016
Declare your jihad on thirteen enemies you cannot see - egoism, arrogance, conceit, selfishness, greed, lust, intolerance, anger, lying, cheating, gossiping and slandering. If you can master and destroy them, then you will be ready to fight the enemy you can see.

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by schumastic(m): 6:41pm On Mar 04, 2016
this girl don't look like a teenager to me but mean while some girls have mind when it comes to love especially the sex drive aspect lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by gunpoint(m): 6:44pm On Mar 04, 2016
SweetOlive:
This gurl is mean. WTH! See the rough looking boy too shocked
Is love grin

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by SweetOlive(f): 6:46pm On Mar 04, 2016
gunpoint:

Is love grin
Love? Lmao! Condition made her fall for that raz boy dear cheesy

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by gunpoint(m): 6:48pm On Mar 04, 2016
SweetOlive:
Love? Lmao! Condition made her fall for that raz boy dear cheesy
Besides, you never know.
He might be a "monster" in bed too wink

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by iambijo(m): 6:53pm On Mar 04, 2016
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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Nobody: 6:55pm On Mar 04, 2016
lol
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by sirjakez(m): 6:58pm On Mar 04, 2016
some dude funny sha... make babes no chase am wen him blow dats why him wan marry now grin

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by sirjakez(m): 6:59pm On Mar 04, 2016
SweetOlive:
This gurl is mean. WTH! See the rough looking boy too shocked
haba rough... lool
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by SweetOlive(f): 7:02pm On Mar 04, 2016
sirjakez:
haba rough... lool
lipsrsealed grin
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Smartguy001(m): 7:06pm On Mar 04, 2016
namedonfinish:
ain't seeing no belle here... abeg if anybody see am, make he call me oo..

Oya drop ur number, so I go call u. .cos I don see d belle grin

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Smartguy001(m): 7:09pm On Mar 04, 2016
dre11:


18-yr-old student runs away from home in Enugu; found pregnant for Lagos boyfriend

A teenage girl who ran away from home in Enugu has been arrested in Lagos after she became pregnant fro her boyfriend





http://opera.pulse.ng/gist/mad-love-18-yr-old-student-runs-away-from-home-in-enugu-found-pregnant-for-lagos-boyfriend-id4763173.html



Abeg say 18yrs old na teenager...see bosom n I know say d backa go bad sef...

And dey r still calling her teenage hmmmmm

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 04, 2016
BULLSHIT_ Shes old enough when I traveled almost 1,600miles down south to school I was 18. That's the legal age, her parents should throw her away since the law considers her an Adult lipsrsealed

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by ngmgeek(m): 7:26pm On Mar 04, 2016
What!
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by thecrush: 7:27pm On Mar 04, 2016
Omo Eko
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Timoleon(m): 7:27pm On Mar 04, 2016
i no really see the girl face but that girl bobby no be teenage bobby!!!

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by ladyF(f): 7:28pm On Mar 04, 2016
Could this be true love? kiss Make me sef find love wey go make me leave my house come enter road sey I dey go another state. angry

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by eleko1: 7:28pm On Mar 04, 2016
. sad. *singing Abass Obesere music* NOTHING SPOIL

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 04, 2016
loose girls everywhere down south

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by demarc001: 7:29pm On Mar 04, 2016
Na everyday event be dis na
Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by winkmart: 7:30pm On Mar 04, 2016
e sweet noni
who doesn't like deek

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 04, 2016
These Christian girls na wah o

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by CallMeNJay: 7:31pm On Mar 04, 2016
Enugu girls like to do......

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Re: Teen Runs Away From Home In Enugu; Found Pregnant For Lagos Boyfriend (pic) by Ozzaa(f): 7:32pm On Mar 04, 2016
The boy be like person when never see food feed himself talkless more of taking care of a woman and a baby.

Is love anyway grin grin grin grin grin grin

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