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Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:21am On Mar 28, 2016 |
I have been with this guy for close to 7yrs in a long distance relationship and he respects my wish of no se..x before marriage but he wants romance.But I am frigid & tongue tied when I see him. He's been patient all along but he snapped today.I feel the chemistry between us when he's not around but whenever i see him i feel too shy to make a move & when he makes the move, i usually hold back from responding. I don't want to lose him. How do i make the move that will interest him & make him know i'm serious but naive? I want mature comments please. Haters & immature minds should please take their comments elsewhere. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by PiccoloBrunelli(m): 9:24am On Mar 28, 2016 |
Sister Aishat.... i'll be blunt. You don't want sex before marriage but you want romance? Enlighten this honorable audience exactly what you mean. Wait did you say 7 years? And not even a kiss? Sister Aishat. You've starved my guy for 7 yrs. You've not made a move in 7 years so I don't see you implementing any move I tell you now. So just allow your guy do his thing. You will respond involuntarily. Amd don't deceive thyself...it'll most likely culminate in sex. "I like garri but I don't like swallowing it" said no one ever. In summary....if your stand on sex before marriage is still the same...then you should keep it at just kissing. Or watch urself get bleeped mercilessly by a starved stallion. 7 yrs Aunty...7 yrs. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by halfricanadian(f): 9:25am On Mar 28, 2016 |
Just be ya self b ya self!!!!!!! |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by glimpse33(m): 9:27am On Mar 28, 2016 |
Open Your Legs Sis Or.. You Will Loose Him!!! |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by falconey(m): 9:29am On Mar 28, 2016 |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:30am On Mar 28, 2016 |
He wants romane like kissing, hugging and I think touching. NB: I'm not the one that wants it, he is and I don't mind. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 28, 2016 |
glimpse33:. Read thoroughly, he doesn't mind me not opening my legs. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by cruzita(f): 9:33am On Mar 28, 2016 |
well im not a relationship expert so all I can say is *be careful don't be pressured into doing what u don't want to do * |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 28, 2016 |
PiccoloBrunelli:. Lol. Thanks, that's why I'm holding back. What if I'm the one that lose control cos i don't think guys' control is that strong |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 28, 2016 |
cruzita:Thanks dear |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by delishpot: 9:38am On Mar 28, 2016 |
No sex should include no kissing and smooching that will lead to sex. But why date a man for 7years? How old are you? Abeg quit dating until you meet someone mature enough and ready for marriage. Haba 7years and still counting. Some women strong sha. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:39am On Mar 28, 2016 |
halfricanadian:Thanks |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by PiccoloBrunelli(m): 9:41am On Mar 28, 2016 |
aishatopeyemi: In the end it comes down to two things: 1. His satisfaction 2. Your purity Which is more important to you? 1 Like |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 28, 2016 |
I want mature comments please. Hater & immature minds should please take their comments elsewhere.Nawa o. Wch mature comment u dey find again. Maturity dey ya post so?. U no fit make move, he decides to make move, wetin u need again than to allow him start d move and finish it Infact u don't need to do anything special, just allow him to do. That's all. If he kiss u, smile. If he off ur button, smile. If he press ya breaasts, smile. If he off ur blouse, followed by ur skirt, followed by ur pant, just dey smile. If he remove him penis and chuk it inside ur hole, smile. If he release finish, smile. Simple. All u need do is smile..dats d approval he needs. U no need to say anything. Just dey smile. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 28, 2016 |
delishpot:. Lol. We started dating when i was eighteen. He's ready for marriage but my parents are the ones not ready to give me away. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:44am On Mar 28, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:. Thanks for the radically explicit bluntness |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 28, 2016 |
PiccoloBrunelli:Both but my purity ranks highest always |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:46am On Mar 28, 2016 |
aishatopeyemi:Hehehe. U're wellingcome |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by PiccoloBrunelli(m): 9:53am On Mar 28, 2016 |
aishatopeyemi: Then tell Uncle Ayo that you can't go down that lane with him. It's that trick we use on chicks. "I promise...no sex. Just allow me touch you." And by the time we're thru they'll be begging us to off their panties. And we'll do with maximum pleasure. By the time you know it...you're already a statistic...from Virgin Atlantic to Sosoliso Airlines. Even if it's just kiss, make im use dey hold body. I probably don't deserve an answer but...when are you guys marrying? |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 28, 2016 |
PiccoloBrunelli:. Smile, don't know but as soon as my parents say yes. |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by PiccoloBrunelli(m): 10:06am On Mar 28, 2016 |
aishatopeyemi: Well hurry. Even the best of guys can't say yes. And I think you're a very respectful person Aishat. Some of our comments have been raw and kinda insulting but you didn't blow your cool. #respect 1 Like |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 10:10am On Mar 28, 2016 |
PiccoloBrunelli:Thank you |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by delishpot: 11:12am On Mar 28, 2016 |
aishatopeyemi: Oh, ok. Then keep telling him No. Do not make it be like you are shy or holding back. Say No and make it firm. But I hope you won't disappoint him on the wedding night o. If he is God fearing like you, he will hold on till you are both ready because even he as a man is supposed to keep his body chaste too. This problem you face is because religion these days does not teach men that they have a role to play in chastity too. They make it look like it's the woman's duty to keep a man clean and Holly. If you do it now, he will turn around d to blame you for falling so easily. Remind him that heavenly race is for men and women to run. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by zanebaddo(m): 12:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Feelings!! Feelings!! ! Sucks!! |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
delishpot:Thanks i really appreciate it. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me To Save My Relatioship Please by Nobody: 4:11pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
zanebaddo:I don't understand your comment |
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