EgunMogaji:


It's a business relationship with an Oga at the top, always.

A business relationship usually involves a clientele, customers, suppliers etc etc etc
And to co-exist in the business entity successfully, cordially relationship is paramount!!!!
If a business relationship is not cordial, the end is nigh!!!!
My Oga at the top, I hope with this clarification(s), I have convinced you and not confused you that companionship not dictatorship is paramount for a marriage - business - relationship to thrive!!!!

ngmgeek:


Who started the insult? A weed smoker and drug addict like you opposing me. Stay off drugs and then begin to make sense. I am married and you are not, so don't comment on marital issues until you have the experience. Don't run your mouth next time and don't tell anyone to shut up next time because it shows that you were not well raised.

Hahahaha if only shut up works you up then....

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

then cheat her too, don't you have money, because if you have money u will not have the time to use your wife phone, and more over keep yourself busy, get money, flex, stay out still night and had some fun to yourself she will not cheat on you again.

OkoAnike:


Cheating in marriage might not necessarily mean sleeping around, what ever you can not do in the presence of your hubby and you are doing it in his absence is Cheating. I.e hugging some one you can not hug in his presence, chatting dirty wit a old friend although have nothing to do together again, u know as little as u may see these it's an act of Cheating.
Any thing u can not do in his presence because you know it's going to hurt him is Cheating.

Av seen it for me o cant handle marriage abeg no wonder from childhood av been preaching surrogacy i cant handle d pressure
its nt my thing
Good luck to op nd his wife

ngmgeek:


Who started the insult? A weed smoker and drug addict like you opposing me. Stay off drugs and then begin to make sense. I am married and you are not, so don't comment on marital issues until you have the experience. Don't run your mouth next time and don't tell anyone to shut up next time because it shows that you were not well raised.

Hahahaha if only shut up works you up then....if i throw the tantrums n insults you threw on me to you then you did go off the tail.

henryhemon:


Hahahaha if only shut up works you up then....

That's all you can type now, right? What happened to that your initial arrogance and manner less shut up joor? It's not too late to try jamb again. No need wasting your parents resources on drugs and weed ok.

KingTom:
fuel? I buy o my brother I buy

Hahahahahaha! Na to dey gauge the thing oh! Guard am pass your gf, else, hawks fit swoop in and move the thing..

All what I can say is that, you need to move close to God so that untimely death will not be your portion because any wife that cheats on her husband is either she dies or the husband. So move closer to God, He knows how to protect you

Ask for wisdom from God too, you need wisdom here too

God will see you through

TheTransformer:
if her phone is NOT passworded, just wake up at 3 a.m qnd check her phone.

must it be 3am? Lol

Guy just pretend as if you are careless,give are sometime to explore herself and setup @ the middle of the night,you will definetely know the truth.

HiliaryAutos:


Mallam

kai, mai broda, walahi I will pound your wife she go think say na suya suya ya ya...

henryhemon:


Hahahaha if only shut up works you up then....if i throw the tantrums n insults you threw on me to you then you did go off the tail.

Others are getting ready to go to work and you are there smoking and drinking away your life. Just say that you need a job loser.

Runx:
What exactly do you want? Live a life of cat & mouse for the rest of your life? If children are not involved, Bro takes a walk and save everyone the trouble, we are in an age were a good wife is hard to find.

very true bro.. No good wife again na to manage.

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CONCERN


ME...................Moving on to the next topic

[quote author=victorD3 post=44448393]


I used this method on my ex I was in a relationship with for 8 yrs. Wonderful trick !

I never knew she was an unrepentant lesbian and a hardcore cheat till then [/quote

You dated a lady for 8 years and you still expect her to remain faithful to you. Both of you got served. I guess..

halfricanadian:


For evry childish behaviour every one as there is always an appointed time to stop

Do u kno ow God wrote her destiny?

Wat if she is d type dat needs to learn from experiences?

Everyone never study deir life pattern

Smh let her b u not God are u?

Like me i fear no man bt God!

Humans can only kill bt can never give eternal rest

All am saying is call a spade a spade don't try jutifying it.

Bonapart:
Like if you careless

You're in one word... Pathetic

halfricanadian:


Av seen it for me o cant handle marriage abeg no wonder from childhood av been preaching surrogacy i cant handle d pressure
its nt my thing
Good luck to op nd his wife

Sweet lady, marriage is great, fun, interesting and makes u Complete, am close to my 10th year and am telling you marriage is one of the best thing that has ever happen to in life.

Give a trial and it will surprise u.

[quote author=Onyinyechi1008 post=44449122][/quote]

True.

OkoAnike:


Sweet lady, marriage is great, fun, interesting and makes u Complete, am close to my 10th year and am telling you marriage is one of the best thing that has ever happen to in life.

Give a trial and it will surprise u.

I like this,all we hear about marriage is tales of sorrow and pain makes me develop cold feet.

Be upfront with me, have you ever cheated on her?
Will you willingly release you phone to her for scrutiny if she should ask for it now? Why is you phone locked....if it is?

henryhemon:


All am saying is call a spade a spade don't try jutifying it.

I hope u like being judged wen u make silly errors too?

Her purpose of nt allowing you touch her fon is obviously questionable. Ur journey to finding out d skeleton hidden inside d carboard shld start at mid-night. Quietly wake up @ mid-night and find out exactly wat she is hidding in d fon.

GogobiriLalas:
kai, mai broda, walahi I will pound your wife she go think say na suya suya ya ya...

Jobless man get busy now... This is morning and stop fooling yourself kai

OkoAnike:


Sweet lady, marriage is great, fun, interesting and makes u Complete, am close to my 10th year and am telling you marriage is one of the best thing that has ever happen to in life.

Give a trial and it will surprise u.

Its fun for d lucky ones

mayb later later in life will consider it

I just cant comprehend i dont want to fool myself

Congrarulations on ur 10th in marriage

U among d lucky

tanks for d encouragement bt i cant comprehend now i just cant

EgunMogaji:

I know its not funny but you find amusing probably because you think i am guilty. My wife thought like you too and raised a lot of dust for something i didnt do but looked like did, i locked my phone afterwards cause you never know what a harmless comment may mean to someone who doesnt really understand what really transpired.

Lexusgs430:


A business relationship usually involves a clientele, customers, suppliers etc etc etc
And to co-exist in the business entity successfully, cordially relationship is paramount!!!!
If a business relationship is not cordial, the end is nigh!!!!
My Oga at the top, I hope with this clarification(s), I have convinced you and not confused you that companionship not dictatorship is paramount for a marriage - business - relationship to thrive!!!!

You be you, I be me. If your system works for you please continue, mine works for me, I will continue.

Maybe OP can learn from you because my wife will never hide her phone from me.

Men, lead your house (business entrprise) or another CEO (Oga at the top) will lead it for you.

HiliaryAutos:



Jobless man get busy now... This is morning and stop fooling yourself kai

suya suya ya ya

She shouldn't give room for suspicious. You should have access to her phone any day and any time and vice visa. I am a married man.My wife has no reason whatsoever to denial access to her phone.Tell your wife she shouldn't create room for you to suspect her cheating on you by denying you access to her phone otherwise she is cheating on you.

EgunMogaji:


You be you, I be me. If your system works for you please continue, mine works for me, I will continue.

Maybe OP can learn from you because my wife will never hide her phone from me.

Men, lead your house (business entrprise) or another CEO (Oga at the top) will lead it for you.

In essence, we agree to disagree!!! No default position is KING!!!

mayweather2020:
Birds of same feather..U must be a cheat from the look of things..will report u to ur hubby..

Story story....
I'm not a cheat. I've never even though of it in 10 years.
I don't check my husbands phone to maintain peace, he also does not check mine.
We just don't suspect each other!

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

keep tabs on her.. One day she will forget herself and u'll get to see what she's up to