Qualer:



i'm quite sure you don't even know what the word trust stands for! you are just blabbing for the sake of it!!

adanny01:


I know its not funny but you find amusing probably because you think i am guilty. My wife thought like you too and raised a lot of dust for something i didnt do but looked like did, i locked my phone afterwards cause you never know what a harmless comment may mean to someone who doesnt really understand what really transpired.

nerdfrost:
Advice from nerdfrost to u.






If u are not sure,take her out,buy her what she likes,when u get home,give her a good sex then later whisper in her ear 'I know the whole truth'. If she doesn't beg u n explain, I'll chop off my stuff









Nerdfrost has spoken

UjSizzle:

Your THIRD marriage?
I'm kinda hoping you forgot to add 'year of'

djpumping:
You shouldn't have let her realized that you are suspecting her,that's the tactics I used until I caught my wife with undeniable evidences. Now she will be very careful with her chats and text messages and you may never get any reasonable evidence against her. Mind you,they can be very smart at times but God will always expose them if we keep our own part of the conjugal promise.

anitank:
SHE IS YOUR WIFE! You don't need proof or evidence before you confront her to find out why she hides her phone from you. If it was the other way, she wouldn't go easy on you.

Be a man about it!

halfricanadian:


Write a story about it
The dude cant tell us he aint seeing other women

Anoda man will love her jare

halfricanadian:
Everything is cheating

AreaFada2:


The most damaging and unfair assumption women make is that "all men cheat". It's partly at the root of women's infidelity, aside economic benefits. A kind of justification.

But a lot of men don't cheat. I admit man has the propensity naturally to do so, and throughout history. The wealthier and influential you are as a man, the easier for you to do so.

But many don't for reasons such as: self-discipline, genuine love, ambition, frugality, religious reasons etc

Some men genuinely fall in love and have no time for other girls. Yes, some might cheat 10 or 20 years down the line BUT some will still not.

Remember, it's much easier for a woman to cheat. An average to beautiful lady can expect men to approach her almost daily. She has to just say yes or no.

Whereas, a man has to actively seek a girl. Do the calling, possibly spend, endure all the hard-to-get game, etc. There are men not ready to do that over and over again. They have a purpose, ambition, and value their time and resources.

Almost every time you mention women infidelity, women quickly go back to their default setting "the man must have cheated first". Haba!

You mean the 30% of all kids that don't belong to their supposed biological dad is because men cheat? SMH.

Lexusgs430:


Contrary to your opinion about my marital status. I have been happily married for almost 17 years(+ 2 years of dating) 19 years all in!!! My wife and I both have smartphone's, both smartphones have passwords. I know her password and she knows mine. I don't go digging and neither does she.
Part of the ingredient of a successful marriage is trust. If trust is broken, the union is on a downward slope. I hope you now feel I am qualified to contribute to this thread.
Thank you.
NB: Securing one's phone with a password, is not only to deter detective partners. It also prevents unauthorised access, incase ones phone is lost or stolen.

henryhemon:


I like this,all we hear about marriage is tales of sorrow and pain makes me develop cold feet.

Churchillsaug:
the thing tire me ooh. Must he know everything the wife is doing? Does the wife knows everything he's doing? If he can sincerly admit to that, then, I dont have problem with him. But I dont think so. There should be a little level of privacy whit who so ever we are dealing with. Be it your kids, your servants, your junior, your employee and your wife as well.they deserve it, and when that person is not letting you into his or her privacy, it becomes a crime, some men will call it cheating. It's wrong

halfricanadian:


Av seen it for me o cant handle marriage abeg no wonder from childhood av been preaching surrogacy i cant handle d pressure
its nt my thing
Good luck to op nd his wife

halfricanadian:


Ok av heard u

Point noted bt in this generation
Its very very infact extremely hard to seperate good people from bad

Like me im done with dat phase of finding good people running from bad people

My relationship with humans now is strictly business u need my help i help u i nedd ur help i seek u
dat way one is free from life melo drama

i just pray people stop seeking for good people my error all my life help wen u can nd focus on ursef period!

whiteeyes:
Bros check yourself first, are you satisfying her emotionally, physically and financially? What are the things she desires which you don't do that another man will comfortably and willingly do for her? Are you proud of her? Do you showcase her like a priceless jewel that she is? If no, then you are to blame for your predicament!

EgunMogaji:


I find it amusing that any man would get into trouble in his own house due to locking his phone.

Every single device I have is locked due to the nature of my job. My wife's phone is also locked with our family code in case I need to use it in an emergency. Her phone will be in my hand before I finish asking for it.

Not to be overly critical since each household manages themselves differently.

Aviero:
Buy a decryptor diskette, and plug it into the phone memory via the USB port. You would see "decrypt mode" enable? Tap yes. Then gently insert the phone into an electric kettle and wait for it to discharge electronic currents in and out of the cyclonic membrance. After that, insert the pattern that's on your own phone, and wait for 5 minutes.

Whatever she does with her phone and whatever messages she's receiving will reflect on your own phone.

Thanks!

You're welcome.

SycophanticGoat:



Your DP na

alaskido:
My brother, if you know you do not want to get a heart attack or permanent stroke, I will advise you do not check her phone to read her messages because if actually she is cheating on you, you will be shocked at what you will find.

My advise to you; that is if you really love your wife is to put MAGUN on her. Any man wey mount go fall and crow like a cock.

halfricanadian:


Ok av heard u

Point noted bt in this generation
Its very very infact extremely hard to seperate good people from bad

Like me im done with dat phase of finding good people running from bad people

My relationship with humans now is strictly business u need my help i help u i nedd ur help i seek u
dat way one is free from life melo drama

i just pray people stop seeking for good people my error all my life help wen u can nd focus on ursef period!

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

YelloweWest:

Yet I've been happily married for over 10 years. Most of you on this forum are kids sharr so I don't mind your ignorance.

Aviero:
Buy a decryptor diskette, and plug it into the phone memory via the USB port. You would see "decrypt mode" enable? Tap yes. Then gently insert the phone into an electric kettle and wait for it to discharge electronic currents in and out of the cyclonic membrance. After that, insert the pattern that's on your own phone, and wait for 5 minutes.

Whatever she does with her phone and whatever messages she's receiving will reflect on your own phone.

Thanks!

You're welcome.