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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by lepasharon(f): 10:23am On May 09, 2016
Edybleketara:
I think is very fair and appopriate. Its very easy for a woman to sleep around with men if she desires, so dat makes her a prostitute. But its difficult 4 a man to sleep with different women, so if he eventually does so, he deserves an award.

If men could easily get sex like women do, you men would have no inhibition in who you choose to sleep with. Unlike women, we select our mates.

Women need a reason to have sex, you men just need a place.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 2undeee(m): 10:24am On May 09, 2016
Well 2 me oh and my opinion oh, men are polygamous in making and it been so since Creation of Adam even the grate solomon had more Dan hundreds of wives, but any lady dat has allow more Dan 2 to 3 guys sleep with her because of this generation of ours she is a F**kin prostitute

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 10:27am On May 09, 2016
Edybleketara:
I think is very fair and appopriate. Its very easy for a woman to sleep around with men if she desires, so dat makes her a prostitute. But its difficult 4 a man to sleep with different women, so if he eventually does so, he deserves an award.

@Bolded... A man can sleep with as many women as he deems fit to.. Depends on whether yu have time for that.. All he needs to do is sweet-talk his way into her undies and/or flash a lil bit of cash...


However, I consider ''Bi**t**ch'' to be a proper representation of a gurl that sleeps with a lotta dudes..

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by macaranta(m): 10:28am On May 09, 2016
lepasharon:


How's it fair

Because they're are different attributes,girls sleep around in exchange of material or financial gains(actively or passively) while most guys (except manwhores) will use wit and charisma to sleep with different girls hence the well deserved player title.

It is senseless,because deep down both female and male we should know when we are prostituting as there is a definition for prostitution.(and not cover it up with what society thinks )

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 10:29am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?

Fornication is sin whether by man or women.

The modern world will paint these sins with fine names.

Do and get married. This is the only solution offered by the bible against sexual sins..

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by BlissP(m): 10:29am On May 09, 2016
No, I rather prefer u call them Destitutes and Boys-Ballers cool
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 10:30am On May 09, 2016
halfricanadian:
My question what is the need to sleep around?

It beats my imagination too..

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by byvan03: 10:37am On May 09, 2016
I call them male prostitutes, forget what others call them and pick your own befitting name. Male prostitutes existed from the time of the bible, nothing new.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 10:38am On May 09, 2016
Any lady that sleeps around for money is a prostitute, guys can be prostitutes also when they indulge in sex for monetary rewards...

But in this case, any guy that bleeps around, paying various girls to share a bed with them is simply a player.
Well, women should be accorded some respect, never in my life will i pay a lady for sex. That's stupidity and no value for money spent.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by chigoizie7(m): 10:38am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?




Lolz


Well, in my own understanding.

The reason girls are referred to as prostitutes is because of the exchange of sex for any material gains (prostitution), and then guys are refered to as players because, they do the spending( more like a gamble) u stake ur money to gain d punny.


I might be wrong afterall.

Until girls start giving men money for sex, i guess, we maintain the statusquo .

Infact, once a girl pays for having sex with a guy, she becomes d player snd d dude in question becomes the prostitute.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Karlwayne(m): 10:38am On May 09, 2016
Lemme briefly tell you why it's fair.
To be a ladies man, you have to be cute, full of charisma, rich perhaps, know how to lay your cards, etc

But to be a female version of the above, you only have to be alive.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by litetias(m): 10:41am On May 09, 2016
Agreed, promiscuous males and females should both be called prostitutes.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by doskie(m): 10:41am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?
checked your pic. Trust me that killer asss you have there can change a pope to prostitute as you call it.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Coldfeets: 10:44am On May 09, 2016
Na you get your mouth so you are free to call anybody anything you want abi no be so?

Or do you want us to sign that into law too?
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by ajufinz(m): 10:46am On May 09, 2016
ButteredBiscuit:
°•What you mean......we playas!! grin

°•Women are labeled harshly
because to a certain extent it's a man's world
....An his world is sexist.

°I wouldn't label ether sex 'promiscious' but sexually liberal the former sounds a bit judgmental


Choice of words...
Being Liberal makes both the male and female the same then...

End result... baby mamas, baby papas, half brothers & sisters, single parenting, child headed houses etc.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by litetias(m): 10:46am On May 09, 2016
2undeee:
Well 2 me oh and my opinion oh, men are polygamous in making and it been so since Creation of Adam even the grate solomon had more Dan hundreds of wives, but any lady dat has allow more Dan 2 to 3 guys sleep with her because of this generation of ours she is a F**kin prostitute

Then 99.9 percent of all women are pros

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Emmahunk(m): 10:47am On May 09, 2016
My dear, logically one would tend to agree with you but our society and culture does not and will not agree with you.
Remember, our culture allows a man to be married to as many women as he wants at the same time. On the other hand, a woman cannot marry two husbands at the same time in our Society.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by iPopAlomo(m): 10:49am On May 09, 2016
Oahray:
You are just being gender-insecure jare. Why pretend people don't use "runs-girl" for females? It's everybit as euphemistic as player (playboy, cassanova). Not everyone sleeping around is a prostitute.

Prostitute is technically gender neutral term although it is mostly applied to women. The reason has nothing to do with gender bias. However you should realize that receiving PAYMENT (mostly monetary) for sexual favours is what characterizes a prostitute.

Men are mostly the ones actively chasing, spending in the process, and women are more likely to get paid for favours. There are exceptions though... That's why terms like 'gigolo' exist.

When you go all defensive about almost everything gender, it's probably cos you feel bad about being female/male. Keep your chin up.


Cc: farano

if I pay a girl to have sex with her... she's a prostitute/LovePeddler/olosho... if I'm paid to have sex with a female... most likely older than me... I'm a gigolo/toyboy/fuckboy...

Hope this answers your question...

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 10:50am On May 09, 2016
LordIsaac:
...because a key that opens all locks is a master key; a lock dat all keys open is useless! Think about it! "Lock and Key hypothesis!''

Better talk

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by TheSpellChecker: 10:52am On May 09, 2016
HornyTiwa:


You were saying something cool until the bolded.
this just expanciates the hypocrisy of "some men"
you accuse women of feminism meanwhile its this same you men who insult the intelligence of women because you believe they are beneath you.
we could have gone with your logic but then,some men has made it a point of duty to rubbish the female gender and you expect them to suck it in and take the sh!t?

this kind of question will not stop been asked as long as "some men" will not stop seeing women as lesser beings and worst sex objects.

For crying out loud, please the word is EXPATIATE.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by smite(m): 10:54am On May 09, 2016
halfricanadian:
My question what is the need to sleep around?

Good question! I too would love to know
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by saintdennis(m): 10:58am On May 09, 2016
murphyibiam15:

U ARE JUST AN INSECURE LADY....U CAN STILL ASK GOD TO MAKE U A MAN IN YOUR NEXT LIFE.....THE GUY U QUOTED IS NOT OBLIGED TO WRITE THINGS U WILL ENJOY....HAVE U HEARD ABOUT PARABLES?
YES EVEN JESUS USED THEM IN THE BIBLE AND LIKENED HUMANS AS 'SHEEP OF HIS FLOCK' LET ALONE OF LIKENING A WOMAN AS A CHILD..

GO TREAT MALARIA JOR

Guy u go sabi use words beat woman o. Lols.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by SkinnyDude(m): 11:06am On May 09, 2016
prostitutes fvck for money, while players fvck for the pleasure and fun...
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:11am On May 09, 2016
as there are female prostitutes there are also male prostitutes....only that the guys don't hang around in junctions and hotels....i guess that's just the disparity, hence the word 'PROSTITUTES' is more attributed to females.
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:11am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?

Any body that sells his or her body for sex is a prostitute whether male or female. The term player for men make it seem right for men to LovePeddler themselves round and see nothing wrong in it, and that is why most men are irresponsible, cheats and lack the decency to discipline themselves. Men do not know that they have to be more responsible to control their family by living based on example , however they feel that their existence lies in their pen.ises.
This issue of calling male prostitutes players are the reason why irresponsible boys like wiz kid, Jim ike and their headmaster Tu face, can go around having bastard children with multiple women and shamelessly calling themselves baby papas. This is the role model boys of nowadays see and that is why there are no eligible husband material for a decent girl in Nigeria cos their men all lack morals.

Men have disgraced the society so much that they are loosing the plot, however women are becoming stronger, more educated are less dependent on the hopeless men that fill Nigeria. That is why Tiwa was able to kick that good for nothing tee bills out of her life and move on real quick , no crying and waiting for a riff raff.

So the point is, whether men are called players or not, the fact is any man that goes around sleeping with a woman in an ash.awo . Period.

Human body whether male or female is Gods temple and should be preserved, but if men think that it's only a woman's body that is a sanctuary for God then they are devils, which they are already.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by unapapadeycraze: 11:13am On May 09, 2016
nkemdi89:

Let me murder that song in yoruba, mo le la aya kpupo ko si oun ti o buru, mo le la aya meji ki si oun ti o buru, bi obinrin baa lo oko meji o di asawo, bi obinrin ba lo oko meji illegal ni o.


This got me gigglingcheesy. You murdered it nor be small.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by khalhokage(m): 11:15am On May 09, 2016
It's the eat your cake and have it syndrome, hypocrisy.
On one hand we have men saying girls of these days are too promiscuous that they should preserve their virginity till marriage and on the other hand we have lecturers pressuring female students into sex or they graduate, we have bosses threatening their female employees with job termination if they don't give in to their sexual advances, and we have boys raping women because because they rebuffed their advances.

Men should choose one and stick with it, if what you want is to marry a virgin then stay a virgin yourself.

Nigerian men should stop being hypocrites.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by snthesis(m): 11:18am On May 09, 2016
lobatan cool

Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 11:19am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?

i'm scared of the fact that you are so in love with yourself now there is no space for me again angry
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Debbywills(f): 11:22am On May 09, 2016
If You Have Two Or More Boyfriends And You Sleep With All Of Them, Girl You're A Prostitute angry

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:25am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?

So whatchu gonna call tyem?
Hos? grin grin angry
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 9jatatafo(m): 11:25am On May 09, 2016
See question! The man is a universal key that opens all doors and the woman is one door to be opened only by one key!

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