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Re: The Society And The Male Child by Fkforyou(m): 9:52am On May 22, 2016
Whatever....!!!!
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Nobody: 9:53am On May 22, 2016
ZuzuMan:
Wetin dem wan talk now ? angry
I no understand oo..see as I dey look

Re: The Society And The Male Child by generalstone(m): 9:54am On May 22, 2016
nice one OP
Re: The Society And The Male Child by ifenes(m): 9:55am On May 22, 2016
The society only allows men, boys, gods and no girls, women, goddess. Simply a male dominated society. Ancient books like the bible, Quran among other barbaric books are male dominated, shows they were written by men. I don't see a normal woman agreeing with the bible. According to these books, women are unclean... What a shame.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by khalhokage(m): 9:56am On May 22, 2016
DICKtator:
Still the boy/child matter

Even James Brown sang about this.

It would always be a man's world!!!

It is presumed that a boy should be tough in order to be a man(remember the Spartan trainings? And even the Roman ones?)

Because we are seen as an epitome of strength, honour and valour!!!
It is just how the world is wired!!
That is why I always find it funny when some girls be forming feminists trying to degrade menfolk in order to "glorify "their status.

Singing Beyonce's " who run the world" not even knowing that that song was written by men and given to the puppet to sing!!!!




grin grin grin grin

Who the fvck is James Brown and why does anything he has to say about anything matter to anyone?

Spartans are dead and so are the Romans.

Don't be a fôol man, grow up.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by nbright: 9:56am On May 22, 2016
angry angry angry cool
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Nobody: 9:57am On May 22, 2016
suzan404:
I no understand oo..see as I dey look
........You dey look TOO SEROUS no be small grin grin grin

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by blackpanda: 9:59am On May 22, 2016
Very insightful write up

Its unfortunate, but often times gentlemen are taken for granted. Ladies complain that their man is a philanderer, he doesnt care etc. But these are the kind of men that get the girls. If u are nice and sweet as a guy, chances are that she will only see u as a "friend". The typical girl imagines her man to be rough and almost rudely tough. But she also wants him to be nice and sweet only to her. Unfortunately u cant have both.

Women are very difficult to understand. But the fact is as u make ur bed so shall u lie. If u choose a tough guy, then dont complain when his toughness and ruggedness translates to eating several cookies at the same time. And if u marry the sweet and emotional guy, then dont be expecting him to suddenly be tough. We must begin to deconstruct these unfounded generalisations

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by blackpanda: 10:00am On May 22, 2016
khalhokage:


Who the fvck is James Brown and why does anything he has to say about anything matter to anyone?

Spartans are dead and so are the Romans.

Don't be a fôol man, grow up.

So much anger on a sunday?? Cool down for Jesus pls
Re: The Society And The Male Child by khalhokage(m): 10:03am On May 22, 2016
This rings true, but who's willing to listen? the men who have the privilege of being born into unwarranted power and authority over women or the women who have conditioned, brainwashed and indoctrinated into thinking that they're somehow of lesser importance to the world?

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by khalhokage(m): 10:04am On May 22, 2016
blackpanda:


So much anger on a sunday?? Cool down for Jesus pls

Let Jesus cool down for himself and the Sunday is just one more day of the week.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by linearity: 10:05am On May 22, 2016
Not to rain on your parade, it is true that; it is the male child that carries the family name to the next generation in most Africa cultures.

The lady gets married and start bearing the husband's name and the kids will follow shortly. Yes, she will remember her origin and bring the kids for visitation from time to time, but the father's or family's name and culture, traditions, etc of the father begins an untimely death from there. The male not only preservers the family culture, tradition and name, but he grows it by brings others e.g. his wife and children into it.

Yes, the above is the norm and there are some exceptions e.g. in some Ibo community, if a girl gives birth before the man pays dowries, the child bears the lady's maiden name and there are a few ladies who still retain and pass on their maiden names to their kids especially unmarried ladies, but these are the exceptions to the rule; the male child still dominates this rule book.
Re: The Society And The Male Child by EazyMoh(m): 10:07am On May 22, 2016
EVILFOREST:
OK
Finally, I have read through completely.
Let me ask the OP....
Questions are as follows... :

1) IF AFRICA adores POLYGAMY, how do we differentiate it from INFIDELITY... ?

2) IF all "MEN are cheats" Who cheated with them.. ...?
Because the LADY Who attests to it, must be a prostitute. ..

3) For every man willing to CHEAT today there is always a LADY ready for such... . Pls. Explain.. .?

4) Most LADIES now prefer Married men to singles because married ones can't disappoint them again... Explain....?
Guy no disgrace yourself here o! Am not even sure you read the intro.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by iPopAlomo(m): 10:07am On May 22, 2016
Stopped reading when I got to this point...

He is the victim of a system that deceived him; that it is a sign of weakness for a man to cry.
He is the victim of a system that gave him a false sense of dominance over his female counterpart.

All this fucking feminist... if you don't want to live in a male dominated world... do what the Amazonian female warriors did... isolate yourself... but spreading this bull crap... this shite... to buttress shite talk about make child is not acceptable...

All this feminist have these things in common... bitterness and loneliness... and the need to drag other women down that hole... just cos they can't find a partner they turn to feminism...

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by czarr(m): 10:08am On May 22, 2016
Good story!
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Nobody: 10:08am On May 22, 2016
Zehner:
Very interesting read.
Thanks & how was your 9t?
Re: The Society And The Male Child by haryomikun(m): 10:08am On May 22, 2016
lovingT:


Exactly what the post is saying. Why not our new fathers?? Or better yet our new parents? Why our new mothers Or don't the father's have a role in raising our children
The bond between mother and son ma is always the strongest.... Most guys including myself have better relationships with their mums and somewhat broken relationships with their dads

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by haryomikun(m): 10:11am On May 22, 2016
iPopAlomo:
Stopped reading when I got to this point...



All this fucking feminist... if you don't want to live in a male dominated world... do what the Amazonian female warriors did... isolate yourself... but spreading this bull crap... this shite... to buttress shite talk about make child is not acceptable...

All this feminist have these things in common... bitterness and loneliness... and the need to drag other women down that hole... just cos they can't find a partner they turn to feminism...

Why are you scared of feminists... I am a guy and I fear none of them.... Even for their equality beliefs

You're either a pvssy or not a man then. Your wife go suffer sha grin

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by iPopAlomo(m): 10:11am On May 22, 2016
khalhokage:


Who the fvck is James Brown and why does anything he has to say about anything matter to anyone?

Spartans are dead and so are the Romans.

Don't be a fôol man, grow up.


this is a typical example of a woman wrapper... see as he carry woman matter for head...

Guy... are you gay...?! why are you so bitter...?!

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by brightleave(m): 10:12am On May 22, 2016
I beg how can I post a topic or report on nairaland?
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Nobody: 10:13am On May 22, 2016
Association of nairaland MEN BOYS will not like this thread

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by meeky007(m): 10:13am On May 22, 2016
veekid:
too long o jare, I ll read later
ILLITRATE
Re: The Society And The Male Child by kayalla(f): 10:15am On May 22, 2016
dumpointer:
Person fit get head ache before him read finish. Long post are discouraging to read

no need to read the long post, just read the topic skip to comments and u will understand the story. grin
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Pyno30: 10:15am On May 22, 2016
Well' it's a Copied post. I like being Original. Thank you.
Re: The Society And The Male Child by khalhokage(m): 10:15am On May 22, 2016
iPopAlomo:



this is a typical example of a woman wrapper... see as he carry woman matter for head...

Guy... are you gay...?! why are you so bitter...?!

I no carry woman matter head reach you, i dey very sure of that one.

Since caring about treating women right na woman wrapper trait then make I be woman wrapper.

At least I no be hypocrite.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by Trendin(m): 10:15am On May 22, 2016
Who male child epp? undecided

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by goingape: 10:15am On May 22, 2016
this nonsense posts is to make the female LOOK more important to the society!
@op! I guess you must have given your manhood to the devil.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by iPopAlomo(m): 10:15am On May 22, 2016
haryomikun:


Why are you scared of feminists... I am a guy and I fear none of them.... Even for their equality beliefs

You're either a pvssy or not a man then. Your wife go suffer sha grin


Your type of guys get things twisted... how does that post indicates or translated to me being scared of feminist...?

I've always considered feminist lazy... and hiding behind an ideology if things don't go their way...

let me ask you this simple question... As a man... does it mean everything naturally goes your way...? if by any chance your answer is "NO..."

Then what are feminist fighting for...? equal rights...?!

Think about it deeply... Have a lovely day sir...

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by kayalla(f): 10:16am On May 22, 2016
[quote author=Samuelnwite2 post=45855794][/quote]

instead of u to summarize u still dey post the whole long story.
Re: The Society And The Male Child by Nobody: 10:16am On May 22, 2016
ZuzuMan:
........You dey look TOO SEROUS no be small grin grin grin
I'm even tired...I no fit read am...u fit summarize am for me?

Re: The Society And The Male Child by khalhokage(m): 10:17am On May 22, 2016
iPopAlomo:
Stopped reading when I got to this point...



All this fucking feminist... if you don't want to live in a male dominated world... do what the Amazonian female warriors did... isolate yourself... but spreading this bull crap... this shite... to buttress shite talk about make child is not acceptable...

All this feminist have these things in common... bitterness and loneliness... and the need to drag other women down that hole... just cos they can't find a partner they turn to feminism...

Look at someone that was just asking me why I was being bitter? full blown hypocrite.

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Re: The Society And The Male Child by iPopAlomo(m): 10:17am On May 22, 2016
goingape:
this nonsense posts is to make the female LOOK more important to the society!

@op! I guess you must have given your manhood to the devil.


I thank Jah... no be only me see am... God bless you brah...

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