Johnnwokolo:
My friend you dont have money, or good job or good car and a powerful and rich parents. If you do, every one wants to get intimate and marry you by next morning. Every time you greet a girl, next time you call, she gives the phone to her mum and tell them your famous surname.

GO GET MONEY JOOO

@John ur very uneconomical with truth,if u keep been this blunt u go push people into robbery o..
swesu...!

MrDojo:
Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on NL has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( WTF ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay..

the problem you have is dat you do the #asking out thing#,....it totally wrong from my point of view
Do not ask them out, rather get very intimate with dem and things would naturally fall into place..

Oliviaarims:


Surgeon, precisely.

My infilling of the Holyspirit still dey intact be that.couldn;t help but picked that savor,the smooth blend of serious,adventureous,and tacky in the write up..ho r u surgey... ! but tone it down... u sound serious o.. u sound serious.. u could be fun..u could be fun deep within.but we only knw who we really are to ourselves it's wat we reflect ppl think we are..u sound it..

lordcornel:
It has happened to you like upto 5times and in those timez u v asked otherz out(I assume 5),making it ten plus miscellaneous(whc is alwayz bigger dan the main thing), we r looking at 30chickz in 6yrz(5 per year)... I go like b like you oo when I grow up..lol

haba bros... am still a learner ooo

sukkot:
they think you are a piece of shytttt however when they see other ladies interested in you then it hits them that maybe there is something about you that they missed and they get jealous. basically the appeal you have is when you are in a relationship. when you are single you are not too appealing. hope that makes sense

like some men are appealing if they are single. but that excludes you. i suspect you are goofy and laugh a lot and not too manly

LOL @ the last statment......

MrDojo:
Na wa Ooo una don see me finish.....

Trust me bro.....I'm not a "wussy"... Man self they get bad market once in while na.... or your the babes wey u don toast gree for you...?!



#fact "women love what other women want"

Lol. Most girls I talk with do respond positively due to my sense of humor and English. Now my friends have nicknamed me "the professor".

Women also like guys who speak good English.

I'm off now. I need to watch some football. Catch u later!!

schumastic:


is that what you think, ok just one ?. have you had sex with any of the said ladies honestly? if yes you have not been friend zoned and if you my bro you have been friend zoned

I don't think he understands what being friend zoned by the opposite sex means. Because all he has explained so far point to the fact that he's a very good friend to them ladiesb

If you're romantically interested in a lady, make it known from the very beginning.

level10:



the problem you have is dat you do the #asking out thing#,....it totally wrong from my point of view
Do not ask them out, rather get very intimate with dem and things would naturally fall into place..

i dnt do the formal asking out thing....but i like to define the relationship... ( are we friends, dating, banging mates etc )... when the relationship is defined..its save both parties stress.....

that's another cheap instrument to win a lady before u approach her be within that vicinity and break very intelligent arguements with good english..if u add it to some packaging..they'll be lyk who's this guy..they psychilogically open up even before u have done the approach that's it...win their minds before u approach them..be impressive

I feel like giving a best friend advise, To be candid in the whole world just one lady has been prepared for you, and these are what you can do to find her instead of all the disappointment you are encountering here and there.
1. Find Jesus first and let Jesus find you: means give your life to Jesus. and accept him as your personal saviour and Lord.
2.Confess your sins and weakness to Him.,
3. Join a bible believing church, and do not forsake the gathering of the saint.
4. Tell Jesus that your desire His child as your wife and that you want the godly and blessed children plus all the good things of life He promise you.
5 Also begin to preach to others the good news of Jesus .
6. He will begin to talk to you through His word, revelation, still small voice and even through men of God.
7. He shall then arise on your behalf and perfect all that concerns you.
But then do not forget to testify for all he will do for you.

frugal:

I don't think he understands what being friend zoned by the opposite sex means. Because all he has explained so far point to the fact that he's a very good friend to them ladiesb

If you're romantically interested in a lady, make it known from the very beginning.

Fact i concur.it's old school to start as friends so u dnt get friend zoned.
If you're romantically interested in a lady, make it known from the very beginning...let me her so before ur heart gets attached u can disconnect from d feelings if she disagrees earlier into the game

Dont mind those ladies are kind of pretender they don't want to promise, In case they another magga... A Lady did it to me when I was searching she end up marrying one amugbo in the street.

LOL @OP this you're friendzone bad pass Jorah and Khaleesi for Game of Thrones

Puresolutions:


My infilling of the Holyspirit still dey intact be that.couldn;t help but picked that savor,the smooth blend of serious,adventureous,and tacky in the write up..ho r u surgey... ! but tone it down... u sound serious o.. u sound serious.. u could be fun..u could be fun deep within.but we only knw who we really are to ourselves it's wat we reflect ppl think we are..u sound it..

. Piece of advice? Alright, thanks.

foody:
I feel like giving a best friend advise, To be candid in the whole world just one lady has been prepared for you, and these are what you can do to find her instead of all the disappointment you are encountering here and there.
1. Find Jesus first and let Jesus find you: means give your life to Jesus. and accept him as your personal saviour and Lord.
2.Confess your sins and weakness to Him.,
3. Join a bible believing church, and do not forsake the gathering of the saint.
4. Tell Jesus that your desire His child as your wife and that you want the godly and blessed children plus all the good things of life He promise you.
5 Also begin to preach to others the good news of Jesus .
6. He will begin to talk to you through His word, revelation, still small voice and even through men of God.
7. He shall then arise on your behalf and perfect all that concerns you.
But then do not forget to testify for all he will do for you.

This is the only comment that make sense after all, it is only God that can give you a girl that you will love will all your heart and she will also love you equally. When your handsomeness, richness, fame goes away, does she stick to you?No, she wont, cos that was what attracted her to you in the first place.

Puresolutions:
that's another cheap instrument to win a lady before u approach her be within that vicinity and break very intelligent arguements with good english..if u add it to some packaging..they'll be lyk who's this guy..they psychilogically open up even before u have done the approach that's it...win their minds before u approach them..be impressive

Yea. There's this girl in my street. She's tall and elegant and looks like mummy's girl.

My friend liked her. As she was walking towards us, I told my friend she's coming and he should talk to her. So, I said, hey what's up slow down. She stopped and my friend took over. Both of them are lovers now.

t hanks for the advice

foody:
I feel like giving a best friend advise, To be candid in the whole world just one lady has been prepared for you, and these are what you can do to find her instead of all the disappointment you are encountering here and there.
1. Find Jesus first and let Jesus find you: means give your life to Jesus. and accept him as your personal saviour and Lord.
2.Confess your sins and weakness to Him.,
3. Join a bible believing church, and do not forsake the gathering of the saint.
4. Tell Jesus that your desire His child as your wife and that you want the godly and blessed children plus all the good things of life He promise you.
5 Also begin to preach to others the good news of Jesus .
6. He will begin to talk to you through His word, revelation, still small voice and even through men of God.
7. He shall then arise on your behalf and perfect all that concerns you.
But then do not forget to testify for all he will do for you.

Oliviaarims:



. Piece of advice? Alright, thanks.

Okay..

It's a public forum i shoudnlt say too much.it's not a logical thought. I felt your state of emotions as i read thru and even discovered some other feelings..nnot to worry we're here to have fun while we cover up ur identities..can we talk in priv..?

Nah bro....its not friendzone...if it were to be..I would have confessed... I don't like talking about sexual conquests, that's why some of you guys believe have been zoned....

djlaqua91:
LOL @OP this you're friendzone bad pass Jorah and Khaleesi for Game of Thrones

DeeTus:
Yea. There's this girl in my street. She's tall and elegant and looks like mummy's girl.

My friend liked her. As she was walking towards us, I told my friend she's coming and he should talk to her. So, I said, hey what's up slow down. She stopped and my friend took over. Both of them are lovers now.

Nice one @ DeeTus i'm always connecting people together this way i'v lost counts but i remain single..Lol.. ..i haven't found d lady dat would draw me into Love.. How bout u bro ?

DeeTus:
Yea. There's this girl in my street. She's tall and elegant and looks like mummy's girl.

My friend liked her. As she was walking towards us, I told my friend she's coming and he should talk to her. So, I said, hey what's up slow down. She stopped and my friend took over. Both of them are lovers now.

Nice one @ DeeTus i'm always connecting people together this way i'v lost counts but i remain single..Lol.. ..i haven't found d lady dat would draw me into Love.. How bout u bro

LOL @ amugbo

Azeeztaophic:
Dont mind those ladies are kind of pretender they don't want to promise, In case they another magga... A Lady did it to me when I was searching she end up marrying one amugbo in the street.

Bro, you've reached the depths of the friendzone that can't be detected except with the use of an electron spectroscope

Bro u need Rhema Water to wipe ur face!

DeeTus:
Yea. There's this girl in my street. She's tall and elegant and looks like mummy's girl.

My friend liked her. As she was walking towards us, I told my friend she's coming and he should talk to her. So, I said, hey what's up slow down. She stopped and my friend took over. Both of them are lovers now.

Nice one @ DeeTus i'm always connecting people together this way i'v lost counts but i remain single..Lol.. ..i haven't found d lady dat would draw me into Love.. How bout u bro

emitoz:
Bro, you've reached the depths of the friendzone that can't be detected except with the use of an electron spectroscope

Topestbilly:

"when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics"

Bros dis tin simple na...

nxt time don't move on totally since u know she's coming back.. simple!

smart comment

Puresolutions:


Nice one @ DeeTus i'm always connecting people together this way i'v lost counts but i remain single..Lol.. ..i haven't found d lady dat would draw me into Love.. How bout u bro

I am yet to come across that kind of girl who could fight for me when the whole-world is against me.

Someone who could cry for me whenever i'm in trouble. Someone who could make me go gaga while in love.

Nigerian girls are not so romantic.

What do we do?

DeeTus:
I am yet to come across that kind of girl who could fight for me when the whole-world is against me.

Someone who could cry for me whenever i'm in trouble. Someone who could make me go gaga while in love.

Nigerian girls are not so romantic.

What do we do?

well i dnt knw why we smart intelligent brilliant ones fall prey to lack of desire for women.they dnt interest me enuff to even think of dating..i feel for ur sisters i dnt believe they aren't romantic or we are over ambitious with choice.i dnt understand..God help us anyways sha

Puresolutions:


well i dnt knw why we smart intelligent brilliant ones fall prey to lack of desire for women.they dnt interest me enuff to even think of dating..i feel for ur sisters i dnt believe they aren't romantic or we are over ambitious with choice.i dnt understand..God help us anyways sha

Man, they are not romantic. No Nigerian girl has ever given me a flower.

DeeTus:
Man, they are not romantic. No Nigerian girl has ever given me a flower.

We've got to love them in the way they would understand and not get overly influenced by movie acts.As we mature bro romantic-ness and love for all it's worth is the ability to look into each other's eyes and have a deep care for one another not a million nice smooth words like in d movies..learn to love them as they are

Mprex:
mrdojo, its either you're actually too good for the ladies and you are always meeting them at the wrong time. Or maybe you make the wrong moves, or probably......

There are a thousand and one reasons for that specific behaviour so if you can be more precise in your story, we might be able to decipher where the problem lies

"or maybe u make the wrong moves" ? so u want us to study a textbook before we can get girls to likes us? Na una know sha