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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by yinkson(m): 2:03pm On Jun 28, 2016
Dezolo:
Translation: My daughter aint cheap..
And the parent are either broke or poor undecided
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by ejembi28(m): 2:04pm On Jun 28, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
Not that much. It's only 2 pages .
people like u will remain single for life
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jun 28, 2016
Fourwinds:
na so una dey grow grey hair for head and yansh simply because u don't want to appear cheap for marriage
lipsrsealed
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by oodua1stson: 2:05pm On Jun 28, 2016
Dezolo:
Translation: My daughter aint cheap..
translation:, she will grow grey hair in your house
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by NovusHomo(m): 2:07pm On Jun 28, 2016
Guyman02:
When you are poor and mingle with poor friends the list becomes long and expensive, but if you are well placed and mingle with guys like E-Money, Olamide, Banky-W, Mikel Obi, Don Jazzy etc all they do is divide the items among themselves and tell you not to bother and even add more to it.

But OWU na bastard and thats why you fled because of ordinary list of items which can be negotiated with in-laws as it is not cast in stone.

This general list is produced by the community leaders expecting that their daughters will come home with prominent would-be son-in-laws like Adenuga, Otedola or Atiku children but for your type, go there confidently with an elder from your family and negotiate, thats how its done.

They are just thieves willing to negotiate the value of their daughter like she was a slave. And why the community? Shey the guy wan marry all the girls in the village ni? They are just exploiting barawos.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Dezolo(f): 2:09pm On Jun 28, 2016
oodua1stson:
translation:, she will grow grey hair in your house
okay. I've heard you sir.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by VISTIN(m): 2:12pm On Jun 28, 2016
JAZES:


Really? Did u see the part where the father in law dowry is 400k and the mother in law dowry is 200k?..... cheesy cheesy cheesy

That's if he'll marry both the mother and father as well.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Dezolo(f): 2:12pm On Jun 28, 2016
yinkson:

And the parent are either broke or poor undecided
how do you know? Are you related to them?
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by oodua1stson: 2:13pm On Jun 28, 2016
Guyman02:
When you are poor and mingle with poor friends the list becomes long and expensive, but if you are well placed and mingle with guys like E-Money, Olamide, Banky-W, Mikel Obi, Don Jazzy etc all they do is divide the items among themselves and tell you not to bother and even add more to it.

But OWU na bastard and thats why you fled because of ordinary list of items which can be negotiated with in-laws as it is not cast in stone.

This general list is produced by the community leaders expecting that their daughters will come home with prominent would-be son-in-laws like Adenuga, Otedola or Atiku children but for your type, go there confidently with an elder from your family and negotiate, thats how its done.
the type of people you listed up there are not even up to 1% of the whole Nigeria and you expect a reasonable person to demand such ?

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by oodua1stson: 2:15pm On Jun 28, 2016
dammytosh:



PUNCH of plantain

PUNCH of Banana

PUNCH of .... grin grin grin

Na to bring my friend Anthony Joshua. Dem go fear PUNCH.

You better say that you need more time without timeline.
bloody illiterates. No wonder they want to reap where they did not sow
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by bamirotola: 2:16pm On Jun 28, 2016
Dezolo:
Godforbid that happens.

Amen..So get your priorities right and stop using ur daugters for business... Igbo kwenu!
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Dezolo(f): 2:17pm On Jun 28, 2016
bamirotola:


Amen..So get your priorities right and stop using ur daugters for business... Igbo kwenu!
tayinkiyu saaah.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by ejembi28(m): 2:17pm On Jun 28, 2016
Edubrazilnwa:
ovoko! this list no be here oooo,na shaa dia daughter dem dey do no be the man.

End time list!
lol
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by kemelyt: 2:19pm On Jun 28, 2016
OK na one punch of plantain & banana and not bunch?? Isorite!!
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by sbabimbola(f): 2:19pm On Jun 28, 2016
delishpot:
That list is just official, you could probably discuss your pocket with the inlaws. Many would remove and reduce the cost. Even oyinbo weddings don't come cheap. They usualy save for years towards it.

you call that official?

They won't let go until you drop all on the deal day?

It's saddening though!
The reality turns girls to gold diggers.,... looking only for money loaded guys.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by spiralwedge(m): 2:19pm On Jun 28, 2016
This topic should have been posted in IGBO Cultural categories. You are giving some of us 'culture shock' a
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Fourwinds: 2:20pm On Jun 28, 2016
mizzbouqui:
Not that much, I was actually expecting it to be never ending.
ok.... I believe her pvssy is brand new....nonsense
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by BossDanniee(m): 2:20pm On Jun 28, 2016
Lmao..youth and grandma items are also included! Chaiii
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by yinkson(m): 2:22pm On Jun 28, 2016
Dezolo:
how do you know? Are you related to them?
Not necessary embarassed
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Samzack(m): 2:23pm On Jun 28, 2016
D parents r nt reasonable atall nd dey want equality wit men, If nah me I know marry again
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by eyeview: 2:26pm On Jun 28, 2016
Items no 34 and 36 clearly shows that its not an igbo list. Igbos don't do afang soup.
Besides,an igbo list don't have much for the father and mother. Emphasis are on other subs like umunna,the women(eg umuada) etc. But here,the girl's father and the mother are the single beneficiaries(with a little to youths).
I don't even think this is bride's people's list,I think its a machination of a hungry and greedy parents

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by francisbarrack(m): 2:31pm On Jun 28, 2016
Nazaretha:
If one can't dance, don't nod to songs.

If he was financially buoyant, he wouldn't mumble a thing.

And, hope he knows, the lady will definitely get a better person.

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Hillzy(m): 2:32pm On Jun 28, 2016
Guyman02:
When you are poor and mingle with poor friends the list becomes long and expensive, but if you are well placed and mingle with guys like E-Money, Olamide, Banky-W, Mikel Obi, Don Jazzy etc all they do is divide the items among themselves and tell you not to bother and even add more to it.

But OWU na bastard and thats why you fled because of ordinary list of items which can be negotiated with in-laws as it is not cast in stone.

This general list is produced by the community leaders expecting that their daughters will come home with prominent would-be son-in-laws like Adenuga, Otedola or Atiku children but for your type, go there confidently with an elder from your family and negotiate, thats how its done.
Pls can some explain to me wat dis one is saying? Why is dat one of their community leaders did not strive hard to be like all those names u mention?

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by akreest(m): 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2016
pumpingmachine:
buying one dozen of brazier and one dozen of pants for the mother got me laughing more than the gen for the father and bike for the mother. These people are really backward in their thinking. And to the mofos saying igbo girls are not cheap, you shld be ashamed of how your fathers are placing a named value on you. Just imagine the husband yabbing the wife later in life that he wants his one dozen of bra and pants returned.

I got married last year and my in laws refunded the dowry. Me and my wife enjoyed the money at a nice restaurant. Today I pay the school fees of her siblings, 3 in all. And I do it happily and respectfully. I wouldn't have agreed if they had given me such a ridiculous list like this. So greedy people. So greedy you want someone else to buy brazier for the wife's mother. Chaiii

Ever heard the saying " If your Father is poor, it is not your fault. However, if your Father-in-Law is poor, then it is YOUR fault'.

The onus is on you to choose WISELY!!! Love is not entirely blind.

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by bamirotola: 2:34pm On Jun 28, 2016
Dezolo:
tayinkiyu saaah.


Gud gel... comon give daddy a hug!....
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Fourwinds: 2:36pm On Jun 28, 2016
myners007:
The list is okay because a woman that is properly bred deserves more than what is contained in the list
d question is! Is d pvssy brand new? She is of good character and behaviour?
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by bizza45: 2:36pm On Jun 28, 2016
drop that kind list for me and if by God grace I pay, which I know his grace no go come for this kin of matter, your pikin don become slave
she go work die for me, I wouldn't mind marrying a second wife and making d first wife a house help to d second one


god punish d people who gave me such list

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Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by lovingD(m): 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
She would stay for long in your house before marriage......iranu abasha cool
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Dezolo(f): 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
bamirotola:


Gud gel... comon give daddy a hug!....
thank you daddy, I don't want.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by akpakoboy: 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
Not that much. It's only 2 pages .
I fear o.
Mine was 5 pages. Still paying.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
CSTR2:
The lady must be a virgin with a Phd in either engineering, investment banking or computer science for me to even contemplate such. Atleast i know i am getting something chaste with a high return of investment.
my brother I feel you our brain dey reason alike.
Re: Long Marriage List Given To A Man Who Wants To Marry(photos) by Epukaa: 2:40pm On Jun 28, 2016
JAZES:
The sender who is confused about the marriage list

Guys, is this enough reason not to marry the love of your life?
see the list below:

This was not up to what I got during my own time, but after the marriage i made sure I chase all my in-laws away from my house.

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