foolinlove:


The word is misandrist.

And I'm not one.

Why do my comments "illuminate" my misandry?

Vizkizzy:


Yeah, misand-whatever you got my point.

You are actually becoming one with these comments they kindda reflect your experiences in reality. I guess

truthsayer007:


Yea very true, But its very bad when you see a man helping you extra ordinarily and you never bothered to ask why. And he his even married for that matter.

If he was single, that is another story entirely.

Am sure she knew his intentions from onset, don't start what you can't finish.

1. He promotes you (Which means you don't deserve it)
2. I get whatever that is due to me (you can't even prove that it is due to you)
3. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave (meanwhile, am sure he declined leave for every other person in such a situation)

One month paid leave or Un-paid leave (Abeg lets be realistic here).

4. He helped to buy a land, invest my savings. (I'm sure he probably helped add extra money so you purchase the land and finish paying)

What pisses me off is Women start collecting all this things they know he his married, probably with Wife and Kids.

Stop collecting gifts or extra help from married men, so you will have a less dramatic life.

If he was single, its different..You can now make a choice of whether you like to go ahead in a Relationship or Backoff, But now you can't even make any choice. because you knew what was happening from On Set.

Lets not deceive ourselves here.

foolinlove:


Because I made a joke? Get over yourself.

Made a joke? About? I guess I need to boost my sense of humor cuz I didn't see no jokes

Vizkizzy:


Made a joke? About? I guess I need to boost my sense of humor cuz I didn't see no jokes

foolinlove:


Ok so we are back to this.

Let's assume the only reason men do anything is to get sex. That they're not capable of thinking about anything else.

So every time I see a man talk to a child, I'll just assume he's a pedophile.

Smh.

Vavana:





Yes ooooo.

truthsayer007:


Notice the word i used extra ordinarily, and Not Talking.

foolinlove:


The bit about lying to him that she's pregnant etc.

Vavana:



Dear am really disappointed in your comment n some others.

Pls note i joined the firm b4 him n i was even promoted along with others by our ex boss.

Am not a social type. i mind my biz. he started correcting me duing our dept quartely meeting that i should change my altitude as a control person. Am very strick on any regulatory violation n some hod's reported me to him.

He said am doing well but i should improve my communication skill.

Where have i gone wrong. Am hard working. i have never collected i penny from him.

Vizkizzy:


No i wasn't referring to that. I was talking about your previous comments too.

It take 10 comments for you to get to know who a person is. #psychology

foolinlove:


Well excuse me DOCTOR FREUD.

Defending women is not the same as hating men.

I actually think men are capable of being better than anyone (including men) gives credit for. Maybe you should read all my comments before jumping to conclusions.

Ok professor defender of the Galaxy.

My eyes are still on you.

Feranchek:



Do you have a boyfriend? And does he know that? If you don't have one or you have buh he doesn't know, YOU'RE SAFE. Buh if you have and he knows that, then there are 2 things involved.

Answer this one first, then we can kontinu

foolinlove:


How can we determine it is extra ordinary? She says she keeps ro herself - she doesn't know if he's helping others in the same way or not.

What's she supposed to do: ask? That would offend his pride if he's a genuinely nice and caring man and present herself as olosho.

Besides, lots of people are kvery generous.

What about the thread recently about a guy who paid a girl tuition fee and didn't have sex with her even though she asked. Everyone called the girl olosho.

I really don't understand this method of thinking. Apparently women are supposed to read minds.

Vizkizzy:


Ok professor defender of the Galaxy.

My eyes are still on you.

truthsayer007:


Yea very true, But its very bad when you see a man helping you extra ordinarily and you never bothered to ask why. And he his even married for that matter.

If he was single, that is another story entirely.

Am sure she knew his intentions from onset, don't start what you can't finish.

1. He promotes you (Which means you don't deserve it)
2. I get whatever that is due to me (you can't even prove that it is due to you)
3. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave (meanwhile, am sure he declined leave for every other person in such a situation)

One month paid leave or Un-paid leave (Abeg lets be realistic here).

4. He helped to buy a land, invest my savings. (I'm sure he probably helped add extra money so you purchase the land and finish paying)

What pisses me off is Women start collecting all this things they know he his married, probably with Wife and Kids.

Stop collecting gifts or extra help from married men, so you will have a less dramatic life.

If he was single, its different..You can now make a choice of whether you like to go ahead in a Relationship or Backoff, But now you can't even make any choice. because you knew what was happening from On Set.

Lets not deceive ourselves here.

truthsayer007:


Well, if you say you have never collected any penny from him. Thats is good.

But the way you made the story sound, like he has been Financing you and Pushing your career all the way long.

You have to be explicit, so people don't get you wrong with the way you write !

If all he did was to give you career and savings advise. Then no problem.

You can move on without any doubt or guilt that you have done anything wrong.

Cutezt:
O.P Follow Your Heart, But Just Know That Once You Give In, It Will Become A Daily Routine.

Modified

O.P, From Your Previous Thread, I Can See That You Are Already Pondering On Being A Second Wife, Do Whatever Pleases You, But I Want To Beg You, Pls Dont Break Someones Home.

foolinlove:


All eyez on me... just like Tupac.

Blackfire:


tupac nwa nna!
*remember early 90s my guy was shot*.

@foolinlove happy new month

do still want the PM?

Vavana:
Dear house i need matured advise.

My boss has been so wonderful to me. I mean his God's sent. from the day i was employed till today he has helped me so much. i can't quantify his kindness. if am to list it is unending.
He helped me to grow career wise.
He promotes me, i get whatever that is due yo me. he sometimes fight for me.

When mgt said our dept must ICAN/ACCA only. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave, now am in final level.
He recently gave my cousin job.

He helped to buy a land, invest my savings etc, what he helped me to achieve is uncountable my people.

I took him as my MENTOR but now he wants me, though i noticed the signs last year. I told me NO he said why do i hate him.

Am very close to his family. Am just confused.
How do i aviod him without hurting him.

Please matured comments.
One Love

foolinlove:

Happy new month to you
PM of course.

Blackfire:



since u ve numerous PM, are u sure u will recognised mine??

Vavana:


Am a yound lady that made mistake in her early 20's. No pity pls. i made a wrong chioce n paid for it.

Am a divorcee n he got to know about it in 2013. since then i just wana be. All the men so far want sex in the relationship but i say NO. So i don't have bf. He even gave me counseling that all men are not same that i should engage in relationship.

But last year became close which i didn't emtertain.

Have i answered ur question?.
Thanks

foolinlove:

I'm sure I will. I can read.

Blackfire:



but u understand what i was talking about?

Don't want to be anybody's rebound.

foolinlove:


Nor do I. And I doubt you will be. I don't live in Africa so it's pretty much impossible to be a rebound...?

Blackfire:



but u live in planet earth? Or u live in andromedea?.

Location ain't a problem.

Like they say once there is a will , there will always be a way.