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Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:14am On Jul 24, 2016
I love her so much and I care about her.
I told her how I feel then she said nothing...
Took her in a date and express my feelings better...
Took her on a date and showed her I really want her to be mine...
She said "I need time to think about this"
She diverted her heed towards me and put in a stealthy mode....

We changed from Most preferred to Most ignored

What do you think I should do? Ignore or ascertain what the issue might be?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 24, 2016
Well has the thought occurred that maybe she's not that into you ?

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Kakamorufu(m): 10:16am On Jul 24, 2016
continue keeping tabs on her. dont give up

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by vizkiz: 10:19am On Jul 24, 2016
Bro I think your cede over her at this Junction is at terminus.

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Tenkobos(m): 10:23am On Jul 24, 2016
You really have time to waste
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Kolade354(m): 10:27am On Jul 24, 2016
Maybe she is waiting for you to take chrge.
I mean start acting like her boyfriend.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:27am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:
Well has the thought occurred that maybe she's not that into you ?

Yes it is pretty much conspicuous but I have an intent to unveil the reason behind that reaction
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:29am On Jul 24, 2016
Kakamorufu:
continue keeping tabs on her. dont give up

Continue keeping tabs even when she is being oblivious about the connection we had?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Bluezy13(m): 10:29am On Jul 24, 2016
Hmmm...












And then
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:30am On Jul 24, 2016
Tenkobos:
You really have time to waste

Bruv do you think spending time to convince her is extravagant?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:33am On Jul 24, 2016
Kolade354:
Maybe she is waiting for you to take chrge.
I mean start acting like her boyfriend.

How do I take charge when she is dispatched?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:34am On Jul 24, 2016
vizkiz:
Bro I think your cede over her at this Junction is at terminus.


Do you believe in consistency even when you get ignored by a lady you are attracted to?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Yes it is pretty much conspicuous but I have an intent to unveil the reason behind that reaction

To be honest don't worry too much about it, why ? If she's interested she will respond if not I'd say just focus on bigger things mehn. All the best

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:35am On Jul 24, 2016
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...



And then

I don't understand this
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Kolade354(m): 10:35am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


How do I take charge when she is dispatched?
I don't get you.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:36am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:


To be honest don't worry too much about it, why ? If she's interested she will respond if not I'd say just focus on bigger things mehn. All the best

It takes time for emotions to fade off

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 24, 2016
I don't jump through hoops for women, if a woman really likes you, trust me you will know, I don't do all these passing a test, am not a kid anymore so that's why I said ignore the Babe, we got bigger issues like the dollar and sh.it
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:37am On Jul 24, 2016
Kolade354:
I don't get you.

She is at stealth mode from what we were. The Connection has probably faded
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


It takes time for emotions to fade off

Nope it doesn't I will tell you why, when you face alot of dissapointments like me, you won't easily be moved by emotions and all, its why older people process emotions easily because they've already been there and see it all. Am guessing this is your first dissapointment.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:39am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:
I don't jump through hoops for women, if a woman really likes you, trust me you will know, I don't do all these passing a test, am not a kid anymore so that's why I said ignore the Babe, we got bigger issues like the dollar and sh.it

Hahaha. Yes there are better things to feast our minds on but love is really a strong feeling with clouds your thoughts the most. Bruv have you been there in the past?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:41am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:


Nope it doesn't I will tell you why, when you face alot of dissapointments like me, you won't easily be moved by emotions and all, its why older people process emotions easily because they've already been there and see it all. Am guessing this is your first dissapointment.

Yes, this is my first time being vacated by someone I admire.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:43am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Hahaha. Yes there are better things to feast our minds on but love is really a strong feeling with clouds your thoughts the most. Bruv have you been there in the past?

Dude I've been there , where the babes you like , like someone else and that someone else is usually an ass.hole from predegree till univeristy till working life, but now sad part is that I don't even feel that love emotion anymore for ladies, I can just like a Babe but nothing beyond that, I guess you can say having spent alot of time to myself , I've been used to not depending on anyone emotionally, so these days am more like a robot I just go to work and come home do work and sleep nothing special.

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by vizkiz: 10:46am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Do you believe in consistency even when you get ignored by a lady you are attracted to?

Yes I believe in consistency but when I become irrelevant to that person I just try to wave off whatever I had towards her
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:47am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Yes, this is my first time being vacated by someone I admire.
Though I remember when I was young I used to be nice romantic and always caring for ladies, and always checking up on them, but these days nahhhh. Besides nothing prepares a man for the real world than disappointments

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Kakamorufu(m): 10:48am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Continue keeping tabs even when she is being oblivious about the connection we had?
it happens, shes thinking about it ni naw
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:48am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:


Dude I've been there , where the babes you like , like someone else and that someone else is usually an ass.hole from predegree till univeristy till working life, but now sad part is that I don't even feel that love emotion anymore for ladies, I can just like a Babe but nothing beyond that, I guess you can say having spent alot of time to myself , I've been used to not depending on anyone emotionally, so these days am more like a robot I just go to work and come home do work and sleep nothing special.

How then are you going to get a lady to rock your world with when you block all ways to let them in?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:49am On Jul 24, 2016
I think I should start my own Men's round table club like Fight Club, also Gflat don't take advice from women about relationships learnt the hard way. Turns out women too are clueless of what they want.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:49am On Jul 24, 2016
vizkiz:


Yes I believe in consistency but when I become irrelevant to that person I just try to wave off whatever I had towards her


Wave off? You made it look like it was not much of a big deal from the start.
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:50am On Jul 24, 2016
Kakamorufu:
it happens, shes thinking about it ni naw

Thinking about it and building a fence at the same time?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Gflat: 10:51am On Jul 24, 2016
pcguru1:
I think I should start my own Men's round table club like Fight Club, also Gflat don't take advice from women about relationships learnt the hard way. Turns out women too are clueless of what they want.

Yes I get the drift. They most times down understand what they want but I think we need to show them by being an alpha male to them. Do you suggest that?
Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


How then are you going to get a lady to rock your world with when you block all ways to let them in?

Don't worry about that, you see when you are in your 30s, dating becomes alot more focused than 20s, because a young girl in her 20s or early still has options and time compared to 30s, besides I'm not emotionally dependent on females to rock my world.

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Re: Guys What Do You Suggest? by vizkiz: 10:55am On Jul 24, 2016
Gflat:


Wave off? You made it look like it was not much of a big deal from the start.

To someone like me who gets attracted to people I admire easily I think that should be the way out.

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