ehix89:
, is that how you roll?, the ladies will love you absolutely

Jay542:

A man shouldn't care really how much his woman earns. He is meant to still give her allowance even if she earns 500k and he earns 200k. A womans' money is for herself while the guys' earnings is for the family.

Benita27:
I don't disagree with you.

Women and men are not equals, God created the woman as a man's help mate. So frm the scripture the man was already made a boss. It went ahead to say that women should be submissive. And after Adam and Eve's blunder both were cursed, the man was made to toil b4 he eats, while the woman was made to undergo labour pains.

Most of these guys saying it shld be mutual, are the once that will still say men are above women, why so?, when a woman is the one taking care of ur needs.

Benita27:
I have a family friend that works in shell, though! He's married, the wife works with the state government.

You won't believe that that man pays the wife monthly salary, ouside what she earns, and he still takes care of the home running.

That's who a man is.

Benita27:
I don't disagree with you.

Women and men are not equals, God created the woman as a man's help mate. So frm the scripture the man was already made a boss. It went ahead to say that women should be submissive. And after Adam and Eve's blunder both were cursed, the man was made to toil b4 he eats, while the woman was made to undergo labour pains.

Most of these guys saying it shld be mutual, are the once that will still say men are above women, why so?, when a woman is the one taking care of ur needs.

Benita27:
Why should a lady be spoiling you with spending. When you're not her husband.

Benita27:
I have a family friend that works in shell, though! He's married, the wife works with the state government.

You won't believe that that man pays the wife monthly salary, ouside what she earns, and he still takes care of the home running.

That's who a man is.

sapiosexual1:

Yet you think ur guy should spend on you when ur not his wife? Benita clap for yourself.

ehix89:
Even the common submissiveness is difficult for you girls, why are you people so complicated in your dealings, one moment you want gender equality, the other moment you wanna leech on a man you are equal to

sapiosexual1:

Yet you think ur guy should spend on you when ur not his wife? Benita clap for yourself.

Benita27:
My brother!, women are submissive by nature, some factors make them not to in relationships.

I am, but you guys are natural cheats.

Benita27:
That's how is meant to be.

Benita27:
My brother!, women are submissive by nature, some factors make them not to in relationships.

I am, but you guys are natural cheats.

sapiosexual1:

SMH Benita. Wey my boxers, I need to run far from you, as in very far.

Xiadnat:
You can as a woman "support" your guy financially etc. But at your own risk. Same with men who financially support women. No guarantees she will stay after you done sent finish.

Go DUTCH ideally.

Both party should contribute equall and bring something to the table. That way, if you dont end up together long term, none the looser.

Instead find love! If you are lucky to find love and support, only a fool will bypass it.


People are evil and will deceive you and lead you on until they use you up then flee at will.

numericalguy:


Here lies your problem.. Just because you suffered in the hands of a guy does not give you the right to condemn every other guy in the world.

naijaboiy:

"SUPPORT"

Exactly what I was trying to explain to the op on some other thread.

Benita27:
I am nt condemning every guy...is just a manly thing to cheat.

shotin:
Typical mentality of a nigeria lady.... Smh....

Benita27:
As you dey run, another one dey come.

How about that.

sapiosexual1:

Wetin concern me, them must to come na, my name is not "another one", I sha don hold trouser run comot.
We all have our preferences and specs.
One man's mead is another's poison, as my Scandinavian friends would say

Benita27:
Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.

To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.

Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.

We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.

He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.

Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.

Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.

We're not in India where women marry men.

Benita27:
When he dumps you, you can go extra miles to harm him, because of all you gave.

halfricanadian:
Yup if she loves him

Nothing bad

halfricanadian:


Na i av helped guys in d past

Givin out my money for investment to get him fone nd wears nd i never harmed him cos of d fact i spent

Wen i do anytin i put God into it cos he sees even in d hidden nd pays every man according to his or her deeds