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‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Nobody: 9:41am On Aug 16, 2016
A 41-year-old man, James Omale, yesterday, told an Igando Customary Court, Lagos, that his wife must go to his village and swear an oath to proof her fidelity.

Omale, a self-employed, told the court while responding to a divorce suit of a two-year-old marriage filed by his wife, Yetunde, said: “My wife knows that she is guilty of adultery, that is why she is afraid to go to my village to swear. “She left her matrimonial home for a month to an unknown destination. In my tradition, when a woman leaves her matrimonial home and wants to come back, she must first go to our village to swear that no man has slept with her.

“My wife left my house without my consent and when she returned, she refused to go to my village instead, she rushed to court to ask for divorce.” He described his wife as “an ingrate,” saying “I sponsored Yetunde from her 100 level to final year. After her graduation, I lost my banking job and she told me she was not interested in the marriage again.”

Wife’s fears

The petitioner, Yetunde, 29, had filed the suit seeking for the dissolution of the marriage over alleged use of force by her husband to make her swear an oath. She told the court that her husband asked her to go to his village to make sacrifice.

According to Yetunde, “my husband tells me to travel to his village in Benue State to make sacrifice and swear to an oath to prove that no other man had slept with me. “He tells me that he always sees a man making love to me in his dream. His elder brother is an herbalist and his wife is currently mad, while his second brother’s wife has been sick for years without solution. “They cast spell on the wife of his other elder brother who is now a prostitute. I will never be a victim of their evil plan.” The mother of one added: “My husband always leaves the house without my knowledge and he will never care to call me. Because of his bad behaviour, I went to stay in my parent’s house.” The petitioner urged the court to dissolve the marriage because she was no longer in love with the husband. President of the court, Mr. Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case to September 6 for judgment.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 16, 2016
Before accepting his education funds, she didn't check the baggage or what?.

He has trained you, you now suddenly know his family history...

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Memesticmeme: 9:46am On Aug 16, 2016
Clap for your self...National Swearing Committee Chairman

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Nobody: 9:47am On Aug 16, 2016
The man is up to something.
Every sane man will be happy to divorce an adulterer.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Pierocash(m): 10:30am On Aug 16, 2016
useless and adultreous women everywhr in naija.whn they damn broke they don't complain bt d moment u bring them up they suddenly realise that ur elder brother's wife is mad,and ur brother is an herbalist.useless mofos

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by mazimee(m): 10:38am On Aug 16, 2016
“My husband always leaves
the house without my knowledge and he will never
care to call me. Because of his bad behaviour, I
went to stay in my parent’s house.” she said.

From what she said her husband is also guilty of leaving the house without mentioning his Where about to his wife. Hence, she left for her parents house. The truth is that she could have cheated while she was away from her matrimonial home but her husband could be guilty of the same crime since both leaves home without informing the other.

My question is, Why single out the wife for some archaic oath swearing when he is also could be unfaithful?

That is so unfair, both of them should do the oath swearing or he let her go in peace.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by OsusuMustFlow(f): 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2016
kpere
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by veekid(m): 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2016
Not all married men are mature

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by dunkem21(m): 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2016
Nonsense cool
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by ladyF(f): 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2016
Let him also go to her village and swear. Yeye dey smell! angry

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by lilmax(m): 12:18pm On Aug 16, 2016
there's more to this

Mr and Mrs Linus

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by SweetieConstie(f): 12:18pm On Aug 16, 2016
Hmmm... This is serious!shockedshocked





There is more to this than meets the eyes! undecided From the woman's statement, the man is also guilty of adultery! She shouldn't be the only one to swear the oath... Infact, the marriage should just be dissolved! undecided The fact that he sponsored her University education doesn't give him the permission to cheat on her by commiting adultery!! angry





Some men sef ehn!! undecided

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by habex005(m): 12:18pm On Aug 16, 2016
This one na war,
Why can't the man use other means.....Nigerians
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by LuvU2: 12:18pm On Aug 16, 2016
And one foolish african woman wld go and swear o
when there are many fishes in the river.

The average nigerian woman is spoilt wif different kinds of men she can easily choose from. Why sweat ontop one ugly man anyway grin

Are we in the 10th century? smiley

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Proffdada: 12:19pm On Aug 16, 2016
grin
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Mudash(m): 12:19pm On Aug 16, 2016
Another massacres
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by kaen1317: 12:20pm On Aug 16, 2016
Guess u must be a saint
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Starxx(f): 12:20pm On Aug 16, 2016
Abia!
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by kaen1317: 12:20pm On Aug 16, 2016
Nice one, and you must swear in her village that you haven't slept with woman. Then you 2 will get married and give birth to a prophet that will come and save the world.kudos to you.Nice one

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by kstix(m): 12:21pm On Aug 16, 2016
Can he do the same? I bet not

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Youngk(m): 12:22pm On Aug 16, 2016
biko is this story from zee world or African magic movies?

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by iamauxin(m): 12:22pm On Aug 16, 2016
Lol,

It's only a mugu that doesn't know that corruption has gone deep into the social fabrics of this country.

Even a native doctor can be sorted.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by Nobody: 12:23pm On Aug 16, 2016
The main thing about Nigerian men is that they have inferiority complex and do not have common sense.
The man is jobless and wants to use the wife for rituals.
The wife should leave the man Asap and never return.
Evil men are everywhere, most men are not qualified for marriage.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by LecciGucci: 12:24pm On Aug 16, 2016
nawao..
these our nighbours and infidelity are like bread and butter
Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by AndyMolarAllwel(m): 12:24pm On Aug 16, 2016
Is alrite

Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by ymarts: 12:24pm On Aug 16, 2016
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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by kaziblake(f): 12:26pm On Aug 16, 2016
The man is a very stupid man..Yeye man
Go and swear first,serial cheat.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by JoNach: 12:27pm On Aug 16, 2016
you suddenly know his family history when he lost his bank job and not when he was sponsoring your education?? women shaaa!! the only like to be around when its rosy

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by emilyone(f): 12:28pm On Aug 16, 2016
If they can't live together peacefully, let them go their separate ways, before we start reading of husband killing wife

Marriage is not do or die.

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Re: ‘my Wife Must Swear In My Village To Prove Her Faithfulness by soberdrunk(m): 12:29pm On Aug 16, 2016
YES!! I SUPPORT YOU OGA!!! PERSON NOR FIT USE HIN LIFE SAVINGS MARRY WOMAN FINISH, THEN ONE FOOL GO COME DEY DO BONAZA ONTOP AM! FEMINISTS CAN YALL PLS SHUT THE HELL UP UNTIL YOU START PAYING "GROOM PRICE" sad angry angry

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