Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,408 members, 7,954,622 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 02:03 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates (863 Views)
10 Silly Things Men Should Stop This Year!!... / Nigerian Men Need To Understand That Some Women Have Financial Standards. / Ladies, Please Stop Doing This On Instagram (2) (3) (4)
10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by Franchise21(m): 10:25pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
As first impressions are important, so are first dates. First dates are like the covers of the books and don’t hit me with that don’t judge a book by its cover because nobody really wants to go through the entire book on the first date. And so it’s very important to know what to do and what not do especially if you seek to have a second date. We may have the answers, though! I mean, that’s why we are here. For the purpose of this article, we got speaking to a few women, those in relationships and single women alike and so here’s a few things men should avoid doing on a first date. 1. Oversharing Women feel sometimes men burden them with the labour of going through a lot in their life on first dates and it’s not supposed to be. So know it’s the first date and just talk little details about yourself. 2. Be intelligent Women generally hate it when men on dates do not know basic things, so if possible, do some digging about your date and get to know her. One of the women we spoke to, said her date didn’t know what a content writer did, and he said something else. To be on the safe side, if you don’t know it, don’t assume. 3. Don’t think it’ll end in sex Men need to understand that not all first dates end in sex and as thus, remove all the thoughts from your head. Every damn thing. It’ll make the date go fine and would lead to the probability of a second date. 4. Don’t overdrink Few of the ladies who spoke to us mentioned that men had been drunk on dates before and we really can’t understand how that works really. But if you’re the culprit, first dates are most definitely not the time to show off your drinking prowess okay? Good. 5. Avoid being the comedian A lot of men know women like funny men and as such come prepared to turn everything into laugh fest and this is totally wrong. Forget all the ideas in your head and resist the temptation to make crass and tasteless jokes, and more importantly, prevent your date from the struggle to laugh or blush at your jokes. 6. Avoid weird touches A lot of women love their space and so they hate it when men touch them discreetly on the first date. According to one of the ladies who spoke to us for the purpose of this article, she says “You don’t know me too well and that’s clearly an invasion of space”. So don’t do it. 7. Don’t stare for too long People in the past have gotten dumped at the first date because they were over staring, either at the ladies boobs or ass or even another lady. So, don’t over stare. Nothing at all 8. No phones No phones at dates, because it’s rude. What this means is forget the world, forget your twitter fam, forget to Instagram that food really. It’s the first date and it won’t kill you if you don’t post this one food okay? Very good. 9. No friends Some people still don’t understand how offensive it is to bring a friend on a date and it shouldn’t be. Men, don’t try it. Even if you meet a friend at the date, don’t invite him over. It’s wrong and won’t allow for communication between both parties, which the date is supposed to do. 10. Don’t blow up when she pays Some women are very independent and as such may want to pay the bills, or even go dutch and men need to understand that it’s a thing. Don’t cause a scene, agree on something and leave. Feel free to add yours 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by gamaliel121(m): 10:26pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
Hmmmm |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by vizkiz: 10:27pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
Normal...but it can be boring when you are put with a wild babe. |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by Franchise21(m): 10:32pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
vizkiz:Lol... Can u pls throw more emphasis on d wild babe thing? |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by Kakamorufu(m): 11:04pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
tor. I hear you oooooooo |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by mhizAnnie(f): 11:41pm On Aug 24, 2016 |
Sometimes u just have to go with the flow, judge her reactions to the environment and ha response to know ur next step |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by firstking01(m): 12:02am On Aug 25, 2016 |
Nope, i dnt entirely agree...what if you guys were getting intimate on phone already??, in this case i think sex is possible on the first date. |
Re: 10 Things Men Need To Stop Doing On First Dates by Nobody: 3:59am On Aug 25, 2016 |
D paying part is wrong though, d man pays the bill nt d lady |
(1) (Reply)
She Wants To Kill Me / See How Ladies Likes On Facebook Goes Down While Her Age Goes Up. / # I Don't Just Get It # ???
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 18 |