truthsayer007:


Hahaha, this is why we need time travel ! So we can travel back in time and unmarry her. Lmao.

kurt09:
Restore her breast and her hole to its former state, then you can divorce her. Nonsense.

OLUWAcypris1:
Hmmmm

freecocoa:
Lol, good for you, enjoy my dear.

Really age shouldn't matter in love, love is supposed to be unconditional after all.

muller101:
Comments from nairaland ladies on this thread shows that 99.9% of ladies on this forum are highly 5tupid.

queencalipso:
The mistake is so very possible!! The wife may not be lieing. It happened to me, mine was even worst Cz the names too were miss spelled. At the point of collecting my result I noticed the mistake, I immediately notified the principal who in turn gave me a letter "TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN" I became a regular face in waec office all in a bid to rectify it but to no avail. I was told by the waec staff to get an affidavit from court to back up the letter from the school. They can't rectify it once it's printed.


But even if she truly lied, divorce is too extreme for something this small. Unless maybe you were contemplating it before d discovery. If not, I will say go and enjoy your marriage and forgive her sins.

nkechiben:


Ok o! Continue but be getting to face the law one day ok?

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

pussyscrubber:
Young man you are free to divorce her, she is a wicked woman!!!. Even when you caught her red handed, she still continued with her lies, no sign of remorse. Age plays a huge role in decision making, especially in marriage, imagine six years deduction!!! Many people are bashing you because lying has become an integral part of our culture, now, lie means nothing, but a way of survival for an average Nigerian. I can see your love and respect for her have dwindled,because you can never trust her, and you believe she maybe hiding other things from you. On your own part you were careless, you should have done proper investigation on her background before marriage. A lying mother can never raise truthful children, you can't give what you don't have.

Iykon1313:


If u r married you will know that lying is not supposed to be in marriage. Ms mature stop covering evil.

Ranchhoddas:
Not just in marriage, every aspect of life. It's a pity that the not-yet-fully-evolved beings that I happen to have the cosmic misfortune of sharing nationality/race with cannot grasp something so basic. The donkeys are going as far as blaming the man for even daring to get upset.

Amelian:




Mind your business.. Don't quote me and start talking rubbish.

When u quoted me this first time, I ignored.. That's does not mean am a weakling.. U started again by quoting nerosky or whatever he calls himself with his dead brains against me..
So I better straighten both of your brains out.. If u men can't think properly.. Smmhhh.

Forwetinnah:


If she was that old and repulsive, would he have married her? Why hasn't he been throwing up before she gave birth to 2kids? See what you're saying. Fine..she told a lie and he found out, he should move on. For him to like her enough to get married to her means she looks younger than her age..so what's the big deal? For all we know he might also be a liar but has not reported his lies for judgement and you're holding brief for him? Some of you guys are just unbelievable

NEROSKY:


See this fat fool who need cognitive therapist talking to sophisticator like me, forget say u win gold medal for Nigeria for been most "unreasonable fat fool in Nigeria" u no get sense for over looking what that lady did to that man, if my wife lie to me with even a year, i don't hit a lady but dat day i go launch beating competition with divorce..but God forbid, mumu people like u everywhere, who even give u internet? fat yellow malu!!!

xtervaganza:
you're not him. You don't know how he feels.



How dare you ask him to move on?



Some of you ladies are comedians

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

chuksbogus2001:
All those that comment didn't address the issue at hand .you guys are absolving the wife of any wrong doing making it look like the guy I not suppose to feel bad after finding out this.what is there are other things this guy is yet to find out.I expect people to first condemn the wife for lying to the husband .in fact she deceived the guy into the marriage.if the guy is aware of the age then he can make an inform decision .

Now ,op I know u are feeling bad about this but you have to put urself together.has she not been a food wife to u? remember her good attributes and forgive her. I guess she did it cos she doesn't want to loose u.

OLUWAcypris1:
Hmmmm

Ranchhoddas:
Breach of trust is not enough to contemplate divorce? Do you realise that this action will cause hin to second-guess her every action for the rest of their marriage. Who wants to be in that kind of marriage? You?

emeraldknytt:
From my point of view, I foresee no deal breaker in your stale epistle. So far her lie hasn't affected you negatively or potentially, there is no reason to quit your marriage. Truth is, if you cant handle well something as trivial as this, I wonder what you would do if she told you those kids ain't yours.... .... Be patient and tolerable




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Quoting lereinter, metallisc, danidee10, vislabraye, dapsonlou......
When I said the word "trivial", I placed it relatively to other pressing issues that ultimately lead to separation, severance of ties, divorce and its related terms. I want you to pay special cognizance to the emboldened words in the quote below...





If you read that quote comprehensively, you will know and confirm that the OP lacks ample evidence. He was easily swayed by what he saw, obviously he has had thoughts and doubts of his wife's said age. Just Waec credential isnt enough to reach conclusion, most especially when one's grand finale is Divorce!!! Haba, that is an OVERKILL. To me, age difference (most esp, unconfirmed) is a non factor to warrant such wanton penalty as DIVORCE.


Dont misconstrue tha message, amigos... Great day ahead!

kullozone:


I hope she'll restore all his sperm too...
See This one dey even add 'nonsense' untop em comment because he's angry for being lied to.
pathetic! Mtcheeew!!!

werthy:
Op, you have been enjoying a woman who is older than you for about five years and yet you arw conplaining about age wahala,


Its not even about the most important thing which is her respect for you


Bro.... you are still a boy...

Tired of seeing babies with grown fallangies inbetween their legs getting married because the feel they have aged enough

nkechiben:
This man u need to walk on ur character. Ur roaring like this in Nairaland , what happens where u dwell I wonder. Must u express urself this way?Is amadioha or what do u call ur father? Pls be conscious of what say! It is well with u though.

Richy4:
Is another girl knocking at the side door OP?

Why is this an issue to you instead of the employers..?

Do you now realize that she was older than you or what?

is she committing adultery?

is she not a good mother to your kids?

Does her n@kedness look different or aged overnight since you Now discovered the age discrepancy ?

What precisely is the problem here? This is something that could be overlooked when there is love....

People are different anyways.. but i can only have trust issue with a lady when I have an evidence that she is "running around" not something as petty as age difference.....If She like let her be 100 and claim 15 for all I care as long as she is a wonderful mother to my children and attend to my needs..

carmag:



you are biased, why don't you condemn the wife's action then proceed to calm him down. ..women ehh

if a lady should scam your brother that way I'm sure you'll be the first amongst to shame her