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Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 12:47pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
It is very hard to justify cheating on any ground. However recognising reasons why people do it could at least help understand them. aka yorubademon We all must have heard one or two people dismissing cheating with a wave of the hand, saying stuff like ‘cheating is a normal thing’ or ‘all men/women cheat.’ Such statements are based on the regularity with which they have encountered, experienced and heard of cases of infidelity. No matter how rampant cheating and unfaithfulness has become, though, it remains totally wrong. Even if it seems to be a behavioural pattern that has seeped deep into the [im]moral fabric of the society, it is still supposed to be spat upon. Yeah. Cheating is actually that bad. A lot of bad words could be used in describing people that cheat and no matter how nasty or extreme your choice of derogatory word is, you are free to pop them as far as I am concerened. However, let’s for one second cut them some slack in a bid to understand why they do it. Why do people cheat? Does it appeal to them to just intentionally mess up the emotions and lives of others, or do some uncontrollable factors play a part too? 1.Commitment issues Some people just never seem to get the concept of exclusiveness of relationships. Curiosity For the wild at heart, there’s always a willingness to explore and see what else they might be missing by being stuck to just one partner.\ Need for attention Sometimes, people are moved into infidelity by a lack of attention on their partner’s part. Disappointment The expectation in their mind before entering the relationship was not met, leading to a search for that thing at some other location. Sexual dissatisfaction In this context, we are talking about situations where a healthy appetite for sex is not ever satisfied. This is one of the biggest reasons why people shirk their duty to be faithful and go after other people. Sex addiction Cheating for some people is as a result of their limitless desire for sexual activity and gratification which, most times, their partners can’t keep up with. Revenge Some other persons cheat in a bid to get back at their disloyal, unfaithful partners. In an instance such as this, the line between what is right and what is not becomes blurred. However, two wrongs don’t ever make a right and cheating remains cheating no matter how ‘valid’ or ‘justifiable’ your reason is. Apart from the above reasons listed, people also cheat because there is a lack of appreciation, lack of intimacy, and insecurity. In conclusion, the reasons listed, as already pointed out, are not to justify the act of cheating itself, but to help partners realise what the reason behind cheating is. This, we hope, will assist you take a closer look at your relationship, and look for ways to ensure that you or your partner never fall into these things that might tempt you to cheat and ruin the beautiful relationship you’ve got going. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 12:51pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
I cheat only because it's fun.. That's it.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by YorubaDemon(m): 12:52pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
hehehe |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
OBTSubtle:its wrong |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Laveda(f): 12:55pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Staying faithful is hard, but then... My man owe me that. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 12:55pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:Thats your opinion.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by YorubaDemon(m): 12:56pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Laveda:hello ray of sunshine |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by senibo1: 1:04pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
I don't think I have any reason to cheat in a relationship |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Laveda(f): 1:05pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
YorubaDemon:Hey.. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:09pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
OBTSubtle:We know. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:15pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
This unstable op, tomorrow when one of his girlfriends cheat on him he will create another thread asking guys to cheat freely, today is a different story. Thank God for your life. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:if i insult your wor wor face na you go say i wicked, i have only 1 one just ONE gf |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:Keep kwayet!. What do you know about being wicked?. You have multiple partners. 1 Like |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:your last warning and fire go set |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Berlynn shouldn't you derail his thread too?. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:Bring it on boy!. yimu!. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:24pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:your asslickers won't see what you are doing now ooo, you serial cheater from aloobright to bush to maxi to lessboo adeola15 i dey shame for you |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Berlynn:lime b*obs you just insulted me make we no start today, cause na you go regret am |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Berlynn: He needs a payback even though we all know he can be stup!d. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:Interesting!. I love that. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:return to ur mestrual thread |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:Is that all the shots you've got?. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
senibo1:Good boy. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by George22016(m): 1:43pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
every girl cheats even though they have someone they love its d fact... |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by senibo1: 1:48pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27: I'm always the good guy, hope you aware? |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by senibo1: 1:49pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
George22016:what is cheating to you? the definition of cheating to you |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
senibo1:People portray personalities they like online, so i can't really tell. |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by senibo1: 2:36pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:looooooooolz well you aint far from the truth, I'm just been honest to you..... I'm not a good guy but cheating is not my thing, I'd rather quite than cheat |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
herbie27:and I think it's wonderful that you're up to date on my affairs.. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 2:49pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
OBTSubtle: |
Re: Unfaithfulness Recognising Reasons Behind Cheating ***Its Wrong To Cheat****** by Nobody: 2:50pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
senibo1:Good boy!. |
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