It is very hard to justify cheating on any ground. However recognising reasons why people do it could at least help understand them. aka yorubademon

We all must have heard one or two people dismissing cheating with a wave of the hand, saying stuff like ‘cheating is a normal thing’ or ‘all men/women cheat.’
Such statements are based on the regularity with which they have encountered, experienced and heard of cases of infidelity.
No matter how rampant cheating and unfaithfulness has become, though, it remains totally wrong.
Even if it seems to be a behavioural pattern that has seeped deep into the [im]moral fabric of the society, it is still supposed to be spat upon.
Yeah. Cheating is actually that bad.

A lot of bad words could be used in describing people that cheat and no matter how nasty or extreme your choice of derogatory word is, you are free to pop them as far as I am concerened.

However, let’s for one second cut them some slack in a bid to understand why they do it.

Why do people cheat? Does it appeal to them to just intentionally mess up the emotions and lives of others, or do some uncontrollable factors play a part too?

Below are few reasons which generally influence people to cheat.

1.Commitment issues
Some people just never seem to get the concept of exclusiveness of relationships.

Curiosity
For the wild at heart, there’s always a willingness to explore and see what else they might be missing by being stuck to just one partner.\

Need for attention
Sometimes, people are moved into infidelity by a lack of attention on their partner’s part.

Disappointment
The expectation in their mind before entering the relationship was not met, leading to a search for that thing at some other location.

Sexual dissatisfaction
In this context, we are talking about situations where a healthy appetite for sex is not ever satisfied.

This is one of the biggest reasons why people shirk their duty to be faithful and go after other people.

Sex addiction
Cheating for some people is as a result of their limitless desire for sexual activity and gratification which, most times, their partners can’t keep up with.

Revenge
Some other persons cheat in a bid to get back at their disloyal, unfaithful partners.

In an instance such as this, the line between what is right and what is not becomes blurred.

However, two wrongs don’t ever make a right and cheating remains cheating no matter how ‘valid’ or ‘justifiable’ your reason is.

Apart from the above reasons listed, people also cheat because there is a lack of appreciation, lack of intimacy, and insecurity.

In conclusion, the reasons listed, as already pointed out, are not to justify the act of cheating itself, but to help partners realise what the reason behind cheating is.

This, we hope, will assist you take a closer look at your relationship, and look for ways to ensure that you or your partner never fall into these things that might tempt you to cheat and ruin the beautiful relationship you’ve got going.

hehehe

OBTSubtle:
I cheat only because it's fun.. That's it..

its wrong

Staying faithful is hard, but then... My man owe me that.

Laveda:
Staying faithful is hard, but then... My man owe me that.

hello ray of sunshine

I don't think I have any reason to cheat in a relationship

YorubaDemon:

hello ray of sunshine

Hey..

OBTSubtle:
I cheat only because it's fun.. That's it..

We know.

This unstable op, tomorrow when one of his girlfriends cheat on him he will create another thread asking guys to cheat freely, today is a different story.

Thank God for your life.

herbie27:
This unstable op, tomorrow when one of his girlfriends cheat on him he will create another thread asking guys to cheat freely, today is a different story.

Thank God for your life.

if i insult your wor wor face na you go say i wicked, i have only 1 one just ONE gf

judeefcc:
if i insult your wor wor face na you go say i wicked, i have only 1 one just ONE gf

Keep kwayet!.
What do you know about being wicked?.
You have multiple partners.

herbie27:
Keep kwayet!.
What do you know about being wicked?.
You have multiple partners.

your last warning and fire go set

Berlynn shouldn't you derail his thread too?.

judeefcc:
your last warning and fire go set

Bring it on boy!.
yimu!.

herbie27:
Berlynn shouldn't you derail his thread too?.

your asslickers won't see what you are doing now ooo, you serial cheater from aloobright to bush to maxi to lessboo adeola15 i dey shame for you

Berlynn:



i am not as stupid as he is

lime b*obs you just insulted me make we no start today, cause na you go regret am

Berlynn:



i am not as stupid as he is

He needs a payback even though we all know he can be stup!d.

judeefcc:
your asslickers won't see what you are doing now ooo, you serial cheater from aloobright to bush to maxi to lessboo adeola15 i dey shame for you

Interesting!.

I love that.

herbie27:
Interesting!.

I love that.

return to ur mestrual thread

judeefcc:
return to ur mestrual thread

Is that all the shots you've got?.

senibo1:
I don't think I have any reason to cheat in a relationship

Good boy.

every girl cheats even though they have someone they love its d fact...

herbie27:
Good boy.

I'm always the good guy, hope you aware?

George22016:
every girl cheats even though they have someone they love its d fact...

what is cheating to you? the definition of cheating to you

senibo1:


I'm always the good guy, hope you aware?

People portray personalities they like online, so i can't really tell.

herbie27:
People portray personalities they like online, so i can't really tell.

looooooooolz

well you aint far from the truth, I'm just been honest to you..... I'm not a good guy but cheating is not my thing, I'd rather quite than cheat

herbie27:
We know.

and I think it's wonderful that you're up to date on my affairs..

OBTSubtle:
and I think it's wonderful that you're up to date on my affairs..

senibo1:
looooooooolz

well you aint far from the truth, I'm just been honest to you..... I'm not a good guy but cheating is not my thing, I'd rather quite than cheat

Good boy!.