Aderola15:

I see you having fun with efcc

That de.mented thing, was just showing him how it feels to derail other's thread.
You needed to see what he did to berlynn's thread.

herbie27:
That de.mented thing, was just showing him how it feels to derail other's thread.
You needed to see what he did to berlynn's thread.

Loooool. Werey is doing that boy ah swear

Aderola15:

Loooool. Werey is doing that boy ah swear

Serious werey.

herbie27:
Serious werey.

Loooooooool. I have plenri gist for you ooooo twinnie

Aderola15:

Loooooooool. I have plenri gist for you ooooo twinnie

Go on, i'm all ears.

herbie27:
Go on, i'm all ears.

Ahnahn, you want efcc to hear nii I'll give you a call tomorrow. lemme return my cousin's phone before he starts his wahala. Goodnight and switdrimz. Don't wet your bed ooooooohhh

Aderola15:

Ahnahn, you want efcc to hear nii I'll give you a call tomorrow. lemme return my cousin's phone before he starts his wahala. Goodnight and switdrimz. Don't wet your bed ooooooohhh

Funny you.
Same here, return his phone before he sparks like one electric wire.

herbie27:
That demented thing, was just showing him how it feels to derail other's thread.
You needed to see what he did to berlynn's thread.

myddd44

herbie27:
Funny you.
Same here, return his phone before he sparks like one electric wire.

Kikikikikiki....... Oya bye-bye and watch my Baeby for me ooooo. Don't let Trappy and Berlyn snatch him before I come back biko .

judeefcc:
myddd44

Coward oshi

judeefcc:
It is very hard to justify cheating on any ground. However recognising reasons why people do it could at least help understand them. aka yorubademon

We all must have heard one or two people dismissing cheating with a wave of the hand, saying stuff like ‘cheating is a normal thing’ or ‘all men/women cheat.’
Such statements are based on the regularity with which they have encountered, experienced and heard of cases of infidelity.
No matter how rampant cheating and unfaithfulness has become, though, it remains totally wrong.
Even if it seems to be a behavioural pattern that has seeped deep into the [im]moral fabric of the society, it is still supposed to be spat upon.
Yeah. Cheating is actually that bad.

A lot of bad words could be used in describing people that cheat and no matter how nasty or extreme your choice of derogatory word is, you are free to pop them as far as I am concerened.

However, let’s for one second cut them some slack in a bid to understand why they do it.


1.Commitment issues
Some people just never seem to get the concept of exclusiveness of relationships.

Curiosity
For the wild at heart, there’s always a willingness to explore and see what else they might be missing by being stuck to just one partner.\

Need for attention
Sometimes, people are moved into infidelity by a lack of attention on their partner’s part.

Disappointment
The expectation in their mind before entering the relationship was not met, leading to a search for that thing at some other location.

Sexual dissatisfaction
In this context, we are talking about situations where a healthy appetite for sex is not ever satisfied.

This is one of the biggest reasons why people shirk their duty to be faithful and go after other people.

Sex addiction
Cheating for some people is as a result of their limitless desire for sexual activity and gratification which, most times, their partners can’t keep up with.

Revenge
Some other persons cheat in a bid to get back at their disloyal, unfaithful partners.

In an instance such as this, the line between what is right and what is not becomes blurred.

However, two wrongs don’t ever make a right and cheating remains cheating no matter how ‘valid’ or ‘justifiable’ your reason is.

Apart from the above reasons listed, people also cheat because there is a lack of appreciation, lack of intimacy, and insecurity.

In conclusion, the reasons listed, as already pointed out, are not to justify the act of cheating itself, but to help partners realise what the reason behind cheating is.

This, we hope, will assist you take a closer look at your relationship, and look for ways to ensure that you or your partner never fall into these things that might tempt you to cheat and ruin the beautiful relationship you’ve got going.

As long as you ain't married, cheating is not bad!