spiceeamiee:
I just had my first taste of pregnancy craving. After eating my yam and egg sauce, I saw my colleague eating indomie that messenger wernt to buy for her. Na so the smell of the indomie enter my nose so I told her let me take a forkful of indome. As the indomie enter my mouth, na so I start to beg her say make I buy this one from her make she send messenger go buy another one. Everybody shock because they know I dont eat other people's food. I say chai, see as I don use my hand tell these aproko people say I don get belle. They are looking at me with one kain eye now but I no send them o. I just bone.

Meanwhile, please mamas, there is an issue bugging me and I would like your opinions on it. My very good friend Tee got married on 22nd of October, 2016 while I got married on 29th of October. Granted that she is this kind of person that lets you know every little details about her life. I tell her things too but I always like to keep some of my gist to myself knowing how humans can be sometimes. I found out I was pregnant on 19th of November and I and DH decided not to tell anybody. We only told my mom and my mom told my sister. That is all. On Nov 26th, we attended a mutual friend's wedding and Tee was complaining that she had cramps and that it was her period coming. She was moody throughout at the wedding saying she expected that she would conceive immediately and I was even laughing at her say shuo, no be now now me and you marry, whats the rush for. Fast forward this Saturday, she called me screaming with happiness that she was pregnant. she had done a home pt and blood test and they were positive. I was happy for her so I told her to go and buy Pregnacare and Folic acid Since calculating from her LMP, she should be about 7weeks now. She come say how I take know say she go take those drugs, I had no choice other than to tell her I was pregnant too. Na there my friend change am for me. She asked me when I knew I was pregnant and I told her na him she begin para, that so at that wedding when she was complaining about her upcoming period, I knew I was pregnant but I could not even tell her but she go lab come back and the first person she called after her husband was me, asking me if I thought she was a witch that would eat up my baby and then she dropped the call. I tried to explain to her that I haven't even told anybody but she no wan hear. Now im trying to chatting her up on whatsapp but she is just reading the messages and not replying. I have even apologized tire, since Saturday o. I dont know what to do again. Abeg I do bad by not telling her? I agree we are close but she is not my closest friend per se. I was even saying when I will start telling my friends, I will start with two of my very close friends that have been TTC for about 3years before I tell others cos I dont want them to hear it from outsiders and now feel bad. Now that Tee knows, I dont know who she might tell, especially now that she is trying to keep malice with me. Nnem, please how do I rectfy this situation?

Sorry for the long post.

stephmiracle:
spiceeamiee, you know it's possible she takes you as her closest friend while you don't see her that way which is why the situation is like this. All the same, just continue apologizing until she agrees and since she's reading your message without replying, you can ask her not to tell anyone yet cos you've not told anyone and cos you planned telling her first . Maybe that will make her feel number 1 on your list of friends and consider forgiving you.

realtalk19:

its wise to kip tins in private btw u and ur hubby.just apologise and move on.its not compulsory u have to tell her evrytin. abeg make she pack well joor.

Coldfeet:
Khaleesi so sorry for your loss God will replenish and comfort you in many folds! Take heart sis


Spiceeamiee give your friend sometime and she will come through, text her not to be upset and that it wasn't intentional, let her know you appreciate her friendship.



Buccee your baby will be fine God got you.

Coldfeet:
Khaleesi so sorry for your loss God will replenish and comfort you in many folds! Take heart sis


Spiceeamiee give your friend sometime and she will come through, text her not to be upset and that it wasn't intentional, let her know you appreciate her friendship.



Buccee your baby will be fine God got you.

stephmiracle:
khaleesi, you will never sorrow over your little one again. God will give u double for your pains.

@buccee, Thank God for your life. No evil shall befall you IJN. Amen

spiceeamiee:
faithisallihave I understand ma. I knew I would soon tell her but I did not expect the circumstances to turn out this way. I will keep apologising though.

sugah:

Loose bowel is also a sign of labor.

firstpregnancy:
good morning mamas. long time, I hope you are all doing good.
congratulations to the new mamas, how is it going? sweet shebi (BGG)
The Peggies how are the kicks, light or striker's kick
may it end well for us

for me, its been the same big thud , I still don't know if it kicks but since two to three days now, lo's been acting gentle .....as in gentle gaan . Expressed my fears to my DH and he calms me down by asking me if I wanted her to be troublesome lol or tells me I have over eaten .
I read on the internet dat it's because baby is growing bigger and d space is getting smaller hence the little movement, but what about the kicks! ?

We get her moving with my husband's Ruqyah (prayer in Islam) most times and that gives me concern. His help around the house is great and there is no doubt I need him around.
one thing is that Hubby's work place is very far from where we 'can' call our home, he only comes home during the weekend so there is need for us to get a house.
we have been searching for a good house around lag but it's either they are too expensive or not conducive for living.

we need to get a house so I can start my antenatal ASAP too.

I want to urge my good mamas in the house to please be on the look out for a good house for us.
*not expensive
*conducive
* close or not too far from a government health center
decided to share after much deliberation
pls don't ' look and pass'

cc;
ummhalimah
imoge
realdentist
florena
blossom
and other mamas.

tiwatopebam:
Team June 2017, come out ,Ms should be coming to an end now, having been busy with some things,

Nobledeals
MumFiyin
tiwatopebam
Tikosdear
Mzleemah
Orente27
Ariegurl
Toriella
BlossomedCherry

Say present if around

TEAM JUNE 2017 FOR SUPERNATURAL DELIVERY

queensnow:
and tell am say u sef just find out for dat wedding week.. no talk say e don tey wey u know oooo

mydeporch:
Hi Mamas.
Gave birth to a bouncy baby boy yesterday afternoon thru CS. BS later on.
I just thank God it ended in praise.Stll there wt no food or water yet since ystdy. ba,

Almighty God, we thank you for today, we thank you for bringing us this far, we thank you for our family and friends, as many of us are here carrying your blessings in our wombs, may we receive your grace for a healthy uneventful pregnancy, be our strength and shield, order our steps and protect us from evil.
Please Father keep our babies healthy and strong and may no one among us cast her young before its time, may we always have cause to celebrate and be merry .
We ask that you bless everyone in the waiting room, that they have reasons to give thanks to you because your word tells us that none shall be barren.
Surely... God's goodness and mercy shall follow us, all the days of our lives, and we shall dwell in the presence of the Lord forevermore, AMEN!!!