yomi007k:




Ur only thinking ds way because u think ur young n u hv not met a guy u really like.

annayawchee:
Yes you can love again but for now stay away from relationships divert your energy and time on something meaningful.

desquad:
you can ask me again ,,, come lemme finish your heart completely


TEAM FŪCK BOYS!!!

Broadsway:
I don't think so, cos I really do want a beautiful relationship...
Most times I fantasize about it...
I really do need help cos I don't think I want to go through a hrt break again, I'm really scared.
I didn't want to bring this here but I had to, even as I type I'm in tears wondering y my relationship life is upside down and if I wud ever have a lovely relationship

yomi007k:


Well sorry abt dt.


U dont need to pressure ursef into it.



Although d world is full of good n bad ppl, if u dont meet a good person jus try n be one.

Cholls:
my sister why do you worry so much?!......dont you know there is time for everything.

Broadsway:
please help me out. Cos I diverted it to my education, friends and leadership roles but even so I still come back to this same spot

soberdrunk:
My dear you are suffering from what i call "IPSDS"--- Ideal Partner Standard Defieciency Syndrome, you have subconsciously created a standard for the type of partner you want in your mind, using your "first love" as yardstick, in other words you will continue moving from one partner to the other because you have not 'completely' healed from the first heartbreak and you are looking for a guy who is like a doppleganger of your first guy in looks and behaviour. The ways to overcome IPSDS are--------

1) You find a way and get back with the first love.

2)You see a shrink that will help in the "total" recovery process.

3)You get lucky, meet a very amazing guy that has big cassava and knows how to use it.(by the time he gives you overdose of cassava you will receive your healing)

4) Alcohol therapy(my favorite )

5) Shiloh, Mfm or Synagogue

firstking01:
I hardly make comments on a thread i didn't read but from my perception and observation it seems to me like you are still very young and perhaps naive in this thing called relationship...my candid advice, wait till you are of age with a mature mind.

iykekelvins:
Don't beat yourself up dear.

When you find a mature guy that loves you, and wants to go into a relationship with you. You'd know..

annayawchee:
well U have to sit down and think about what you really want in a relationship and secondly use your brain more than you heart....

Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx

Broadsway:
tnx so much, wud do dah

Broadsway:
tnx so much, wud do dah

Broadsway:
tnx so much, I appreciate

Broadsway:
really?? When will my time come?
Why is it late?? I'm confused

Broadsway:
mmmmm tnx, if u know how I feel ryt now, u wudnt say such I tell u

Cholls:
my sister you dont need to be confused......when your time comes you will surely win........meanwhile, Best to accept your issues and work them out improve yourself, in the mean time don't hide them and be real

Draei:

How long have you known these
4 guys you mentioned. ..

Broadsway:
one for two years, the one that cheated for five years and the remaining two less than six months respectively

Draei:

i ain't gonn tell you which to go for buh
give it more time to know more about each
of 'em then follow your instinct/heart.