I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

Bless her bro

Ask me again

Hmmmmm

Some girls will continue to Fvck every Tom dick and Harry, and still call u le boo..




Be wise

I really need good advice I can act on. I would really appreciate if lalasticlala mynd44 Rocktation farano can help me move this to the right place. I am at the point of making Marital decisions.

LilChamp:
I really need good advice I can act on. I would really appreciate if lalasticlala mynd44 Rocktation farano can help me move this to the right place. I am at the point of making Marital decisions.

Guy you know how I know you really don't need advice? All you need is front page cos it's very obvious from what I just quoted above.

Laveda:
Hmmmmm

What advice would you give me as a lady. Pls be sincere

LePrezident:


Guy you know how I know you really don't need advice? All you need is front page cos it's very obvious from what I just quoted above.

I had to find a way to hide my identity so as to find help, if you check my profile u will noticed what I mean. Just need your advice. Don't expect you to know what m currently passing through. Thanks anyway

LilChamp:


What advice would you give me as a lady. Pls be sincere

Have you talked to her about it?

The lies are too much, and I don't think she's worth trusting.

I don't think you should give up yet, try to observe more and see if she changes...
If she doesn't, feel free to walk away to a more reliable person.

What more of advice u want?

U caught her, she admitted it.. SO WHAT NOW? u only have 2 options here... Whether u will slide the issue and move on with her or dump her azz somewhere and move on with ur precious time..



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Laveda:
Have you talked to her about it?

The lies are too much, and I don't think she's worth trusting.

I don't think you should give up yet, try to observe more and see if she changes...
If she doesn't, feel free to walk away to a more reliable person.

Thanks a million, we ve talked about this issue alot of times, though she keep promising not to hide things from me yet I found myself in this kind of situation.

QueenSuccubus:
What more of advice u want?

U caught her, she admitted it.. SO WHAT NOW? u only have 2 options here... Whether u will slide the issue and move on with her or dump her azz somewhere and move on with ur precious time..



The Last TRAPQUEEN has spoken

Fanx

emeijeh:
But i wonder how a guy would call a gal 40 times!
You go just kill yourself with heartbreak.
Haba!
Next time call her twice and rest

God bless u real good for ur comment
I passionately hate phone stalker
if u call me pass 3missed calls OGA I won't even pick again or call back cos it annoys me more Dan anything in dis world......
btw am Married so keep ur lashing far from me

LilChamp:


Thanks a million, we ve talked about this issue alot of times, though she keep promising not to hide things from me yet I found myself in this kind of situation.

Its all on you dear, can you tolerate all of this? And for how long?

Its better you talk to her about it and walk away if she refuses to change.

LilChamp:
I really need good advice I can act on. I would really appreciate if lalasticlala mynd44 Rocktation farano can help me move this to the right place. I am at the point of making Marital decisions.

honestly any woman dat lies jus to be wit another guy for some randy moment
is not worth putting d ring on her finger
give her a long rope to pull while u watch nd make a conclusive decision
ire ohhhh

D question is do u stil love her?if yes,i wil say u shld talk 2 her very well nd make her understand dat if she doesnt want 2 stop her bad attitude dat u will end d relationship,

chocodaviva:


God bless u real good for ur comment
I passionately hate phone stalker
if u call me pass 3missed calls OGA I won't even pick again or call back cos it annoys me more Dan anything in dis world......
btw am Married so keep ur lashing far from me

Amen

chocodaviva:


God bless u real good for ur comment
I passionately hate phone stalker
if u call me pass 3missed calls OGA I won't even pick again or call back cos it annoys me more Dan anything in dis world......
btw am Married so keep ur lashing far from me

Amen

Heaven alone knows how much I detest liars...
If I were you I wouldn't have stayed this far o...
I mean who cheats his own conscience?

LilChamp:


Thanks a million, we ve talked about this issue alot of times, though she keep promising not to hide things from me yet I found myself in this kind of situation.

So, ar u actually ready to spend ur entire life with a woman that u cannot trust? A woman that would cheat on u and would even lie to u just to be with another man? If that's the kind of life u want to give urself, go ahead and marry her, just that I somehow think u deserve far better than such life.

Common sense should tell any rationale human not to continue dating a liar and a cheat how you still need any form of advice on that only shows how pathetic you or your level of reasoning is.

Once a lier always a lier. OP, i will advice you start looking for anothet girl. You are now turning yourself to an investigator n policing her will not help.

You are a man n u determine what stays n what leave. Let her have her life n go get urs.

All liars shall perish

If you have this much doubt should you even be considering anyting marital related? It's like walking into a cave full of hungry lions and wondering why they are eating you! Why are you setting yourself up for failure? If you have doubt then this doubt will continue into your marriage and you will be posting things a year after you get married asking for advice in regards your wife who is always messing with your head. If it's not feeling right now why are you causing yourself to be in a stressful situation? Don't quote love it's about perspectives here if things feel wrong from the beginning they are not going to improve later. You need to start seeing what's been standing in front of you for the last 4 years!

Sorry.

LilChamp:


Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

Oh, they are just still in Camp? Dude the service neva even start yet and you're all paranoid already.
See, you've known this girl for 4 years, she prevaricates a lot and you know this. You need nobody telling you she's definitely going to cheat on you eventually during the course of her NYSC, it's just a matter of time. Or you feel just because you've been "totally faithful" to her, then she too would reciprocate? Please don't delude yourself.

And please, for the sake of your mental wellbeing; 2 missed calls would do, at most 3.
I advise you seek out other options close to elbow. Inveterate liars rarely ever make good wives, so the earlier you reconsider this your "she is the right girl for me" talk, the better.

uhn

Bro i dont really support mmm but instead of wastin your money marrying, invest her bride price on mmm, i swear it will be more profitable.

Don't marry and stop all those wishful thinking that she is going to change.she is having the best of her time in the camp and you are here lamenting.Use this time you are whining to find another person you can trust.A word is enough,for the wise.if you like continue holding on,but have mercy for your heart and emotion.