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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by nawa4naija(m): 5:49pm On Dec 07, 2016
wait oh,,,u mean u don reach the junction and u still dey confused? my broda!! dont be confused,,,,if the east where she is serving is on ur right,,,,,den take ur left and run,,,,or even run backwards so u dont run towards d afonja territory cos it wont be safe too


LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by 4lorunsho(m): 5:53pm On Dec 07, 2016
God will help you in this #grace
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Mamush001(f): 5:53pm On Dec 07, 2016
now i see why most nigerians feel that marriage is a great feat to be achieved- a do or die affair... like" u are married and have achieved all your dreams for life so the lashing wont get to u right"? berra wake up

chocodaviva:


God bless u real good for ur comment
I passionately hate phone stalker
if u call me pass 3missed calls OGA I won't even pick again or call back cos it annoys me more Dan anything in dis world......
btw am Married so keep ur lashing far from me

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 07, 2016
Boy, live with it for all women lies

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Bullet1234(m): 5:57pm On Dec 07, 2016
Oh boy why you self go ring her 40times abi you want run her battery down ni? Even if you ring 5 million times girl wey no want answer no go answer. Twice done do or at most three times.
OK now back to your question. You sey she dey bless you with lies? Baptise her with lies too. Bring ur ears I want whisper something to you.... my brother abeg find your black goat now before night come.

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Exponental(m): 5:57pm On Dec 07, 2016
LilChamp:

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.
If you marry her, don't complain about this hobby of hers...... Is her name Charity? Don't come back with thread like "my wife is cheating on me". You're warned!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by intrepid: 6:00pm On Dec 07, 2016
TO BE BLUNT

That girl will NOT change.I didt say NEVER,

But i dont think shes worth your time to wait any longer depending on what you want.

The heartbreak and anxiety that comes from having a lying spouse is just too much.

If you cant trust her,please theres no need.You will regret it. Bro.theres still time to walk away.

It will hurt you deeply and you may start fantasizing about her changing for the better,but truth is it may not happen now,and may not happen while with you.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by viktor01(m): 6:00pm On Dec 07, 2016
vickykeyz:
lol guys should love wit dia head not heart

God bless you
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by viktor01(m): 6:01pm On Dec 07, 2016
Singing.....Deuces......I thought it's true love but you know women lie... grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by don89(m): 6:07pm On Dec 07, 2016
RUN RUN I SAY RUN RUN OOO,MINE STARTED LIKE THIS OO, I ALMOST LOST MY LIFE ,RUN OOOO .
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by SycophanticGoat: 6:13pm On Dec 07, 2016
I hate it when people know the answer to their problems and what to do in order to get themselves out of their predicaments but will still come online to ask silly questions.. undecided undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Armstrong34(m): 6:19pm On Dec 07, 2016
Na ur type of guys dey make ladies head swell, cum dey form.... Mr man get busy and she wuld beg for ur time.... How can u gv a girl 40 miss calls..... Infact if I say u a ********* to humanity and divinity......... Dem go run BAN me cos e no dey hard lala n friends plc
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Victory1989(m): 6:22pm On Dec 07, 2016
My brother...believe me she is better as a gurl friend and not a wife...except you are willing to spend the rest of your life trying to Pls,understand,tolorate and leave your life for her..she will neva change even in marriage..except you are willing to love her for whom she is...My brother think very well before you make your decision
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Adabar: 6:34pm On Dec 07, 2016
Pls go ahead with her until you discover that you v been nurturing children you
didn't give birth to.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by PatrickAnyanwu(m): 6:45pm On Dec 07, 2016
my friend, I know u r nursing the idea of marrying this girl in future. Are you sure she will change? I also hope you guys r practising safe sex? I will advise you to tell her that if u findout she's lying to you again, u will call it quit. Her attitude will tell you if she's really serious with u or u are another Ubi Franklin part 2. Don't love with ur eyes closed.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by sweetilicious(f): 6:50pm On Dec 07, 2016
I hate this. People will love their partner with their whole heart but they will keep getting disappointment. Love is not fair sometimes not until you meet someone that wants you wholeheartedly just like you want the other person. Not someone that has double mind or thinks you are less than they deserve. When you meet that person,life will be meaningful
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Revolva(m): 6:51pm On Dec 07, 2016
cool cool girls r bastards n liars ...almost all of them its like a habit n culture foir dem

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by queenfav(f): 7:02pm On Dec 07, 2016
emeijeh:
But i wonder how a guy would call a gal 40 times!
You go just kill yourself with heartbreak.
Haba!
Next time call her twice and rest
lol,I cannot even call someone who promised to dash me 1 million naira 30 times.. Haba!You call person thrice,free style.. D person hold your destiny?
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by ylaa(f): 7:11pm On Dec 07, 2016
Bros shines your eyes
Or u use your tongue count your teeth.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by SexyNairalander: 7:13pm On Dec 07, 2016
bluejean:


This z uncalled for

Don't jez comment becos u feel u r meant 2 say sumthn
I meant every word dear, girls lie a lot. . .telling you from experience sweedy
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by TheRealestGuy(m): 7:19pm On Dec 07, 2016
From my experience, women are more inclined to lie more frequently than men.

I have resigned to this fact and taken it in good faith and thus I would expect my wife to lie about some things...but of course there are some lies I would never condone...

When you're more matured emotionally, you'll accept the fact that most women are natural liars and you'll just have to decide which kind of lies you wouldn't condone.

Also, lying is of two types just to be sure: lying by commission and by omission...

Women are evil alright, but we sure cannot do without them...

Finally, never give any human 100% trust cos no human is perfect and we all have our weaknesses...

Cheers and all the best...

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Dec 07, 2016
op do u need a horoscope to tell u that the babe isnt good for u?
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by dnawah(m): 7:28pm On Dec 07, 2016
LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks
bros e!run run keep on running.when u marry such girl u will die young.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by jaido09: 7:31pm On Dec 07, 2016
QueenSuccubus:
What more of advice u want?

U caught her, she admitted it.. SO WHAT NOW? cool u only have 2 options here... Whether u will slide the issue and move on with her or dump her azz somewhere and move on with ur precious time.. cool



The Last TRAPQUEEN has spoken Well said!


Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Annie939(f): 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2016
pray for her

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Dec 07, 2016
Love yourself first... then you will know your worth! may be then you will know if she deserves you or not.
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by wykcool(m): 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2016
LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks
Hope her name is not 'Wunmi'?
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by mcroeb(m): 7:55pm On Dec 07, 2016
this is the real gobe issue which needs to be addressed gobecally! my guy u need to free the lady so as to have rest/peace of mind, or else u will finally break up at eleventh hour (few days to ur wedding). as i don talk my own Godwin!
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by princeaja(m): 7:59pm On Dec 07, 2016
Bros let me tell u the truth. This is just the beginning. She will still cheat on you. The early u concentrate your mind on other things the better for you. During my nysc days I met one girl at camp she has a bf in lagos. We fell in love but was posted to different places for our PPA. she was crying that am going to leave, I assured her that I will not. After about 2 months she started acting somehow. she Never allowed me to visit her giving excuse that I will not like the environment. she did many things that I can not say here. Imagine she even ignored me on our POP. I loved her, wanted to marry her but I changed my mind. Now she has not gotten married, always calling me that she want to see me for us to talk. But I see her as someone who is not wise cos after dating all those men none of them see any good in her. I still love her but I cannot marry cos of my past experience I got from her. My brother Chanel your mind on how to make more money than thinking of her, whether she is with a guy or not cos she is definitely with a guy.

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by favexx(f): 8:08pm On Dec 07, 2016
the gal sef no lie.....abi she can't lie... some will lie sef and even in death u wont find out

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Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Vikky014(f): 8:16pm On Dec 07, 2016
LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks
lol 40 times. guy r u ok
Re: My Girlfriend Lies Alot, What Should I Do? by Chukazu: 8:18pm On Dec 07, 2016
you called a girl for "40"good times, as in you were jotting down the numbers....you no get work?.. leave that hoe!

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