Chidonc:
Bro i dont really support mmm but instead of wastin your money marrying, invest her bride price on mmm, i swear it will be more profitable.

emeijeh:
But i wonder how a guy would call a gal 40 times!
You go just kill yourself with heartbreak.
Haba!
Next time call her twice and rest

ayokellany:
Common sense should tell any rationale human not to continue dating a liar and a cheat how you still need any form of advice on that only shows how pathetic you or your level of reasoning is.

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

ayokellany:
Common sense should tell any rationale human not to continue dating a liar and a cheat how you still need any form of advice on that only shows how pathetic you or your level of reasoning is.

LilChamp:
I really need good advice I can act on. I would really appreciate if lalasticlala mynd44 Rocktation farano can help me move this to the right place. I am at the point of making Marital decisions.

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

ganie:
Bro,I don't think u will meet any girl that will not lie to cover their ways,I walked out of a 5years relationship because of this. Its bound to happen again and again,but if u see more good things in her you can hold on.

DorisK:
Lie back dey give am. People (esp in rships) tend to stop a bad habit when u do it worse than they do after begging them to stop. Lie about everything even though u might be uncomfortable with it. Just dey lie dey go. Lie about unnecessary things. For instance, lie that u haven't eaten then leave the dishes in the sink. Lie that u don't have credit, after a while make a call in front o' her. Lie that u aren't feeling fine, when she comes just open ur teeth at her and say u don't mean it. Lie ur in Abuja when in Lagos. Lie that ur fon is not ur own. Most importantly, lie about the time whenever u have an appointment wit her. At some point, she will be the one asking u for a no-lying-relationship. I sweer, it works. Thank me later

I don't know what's wrong wit people's head. A grownup will be lying more than a child. tufia.

don89:
RUN RUN I SAY RUN RUN OOO,MINE STARTED LIKE THIS OO, I ALMOST LOST MY LIFE ,RUN OOOO .

1KINGKYLE:
Don't marry and stop all those wishful thinking that she is going to change.she is having the best of her time in the camp and you are here lamenting.Use this time you are whining to find another person you can trust.A word is enough,for the wise.if you like continue holding on,but have mercy for your heart and emotion.

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

LilChamp:


Thanks a million, we ve talked about this issue alot of times, though she keep promising not to hide things from me yet I found myself in this kind of situation.

Princedaniel:
I was in a similar relationship before.

Your so-called girlfriend is tired of the relationship but feels it will be heartless to just tell you straight up. So she lies and cheats and at the end of the day allows you to find out so you can use your hand to discharge yourself. Having in mind that if you discharged yourself instead of her doing it, great chances are there for reconciliation if she could not land a "better" man when she's finally ready for marriage.

My ex tried that trick months after I discharged myself. She was like " pls forgive me, after all, you were the one that severed the relationship". And I was like " young woman, I want to believe you are joking. But if you are not, just know you were the one that severed the relationship with your cheating and lies". And she didn't have any other thing to say.

The moment you summon courage to leave her physically and emotionally, it won't be too long before you find someone 100 times better than her. But as far as she's still in your mind, you are too toxic to attract that kind of girl you deserve.

Cheaters only cheat, but pathological liars cheat, poison , kill, betray etc.

Run!

OgbeniSamm:

bone dat gurl, bros...she doesn't deserve a faithful guy like u.