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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by emperormossad(m): 9:38am On Jan 01, 2017
bennyrazz:
Jesus Christ of Nazareth
The king of the Jews. grin grin grin
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by tartarus(m): 9:39am On Jan 01, 2017
As usual nairaland boys will still find a way to blame a female and justify the males actions. Most Nigerian male youths were not brought up well, at all! Parents need to train up their male kids in the same way they train female kids. We just have ego inflated males walking about with the notion that a female must do everything to please them and not provoke them. sad

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by jaszplus12(m): 9:40am On Jan 01, 2017
There are many parts to stories like this and mostly I blame the women who love to easily get fooled by men. Even during courtship most ladies know full well how things will turn out yet they plunge in hoping to change the man only to realize there's problem then they throw the blame at the world! The social media isn't the avenue to advertising or seeking solutions to this...just dig deep and find answers by yourself!!!
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 9:40am On Jan 01, 2017
buchilino:
NOT DEFENDING D ACT BUT AM ALMOST SURE DAT D WOMAN STARTED IT. AM GETTING SICK N TRIED OF WOMEN PLAYING D VICTIMS ON D INTERNET. IF U FEEL ON UNSAFE IN UR MARRIAGE, SIMPLE QUIT D UNION, N MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE. MANY WOMEN WILL DELIBERATELY PROVOKE DER HUSBANDS, N WEN D MAN REACTS, DEY WILL START CLAIMING HUSBAND BRUTALITY. I FEEL SORRY D LADY, BUT B4 ANYONE START CONDEMNING D MAN LETS HEAR HIS OWN SIDE OF D STORY.
uncle ur already defending no matter what a man has no right to hit a woman that's why he is suppose to be a man. If his fellow man provoke will the coward be able to react

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by ebby9z(m): 9:42am On Jan 01, 2017
That animal must be tried and jailed. He doesn't deserve to be roaming the civil streets of Lagos. However, there are two things of which I'm certain: the guy is obviously rich. 2. He must have exhibited such pattern if behaviour before they got married but since he's rich enough to show off to friends, she didn't probably think much of it. Ladies, marriage is not only about money...but then what's my own?
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by bellville: 9:43am On Jan 01, 2017
She will return to that man's house. Igbos don't divorce. The man will be required to bring his relatives and some items to appease the wife's family. Lobatan. And the beating continues.
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 9:43am On Jan 01, 2017
goingape:
troublesome women always deserve a beating!


the fault is from her!
don't worry all the women close to u that r troublesome will receive same as uv quoted. A coward will alwaz be a coward.so if ur sister or daughter come back home like this u will tell her because she is troublesome she deserves the beating smh

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by blackb2(m): 9:43am On Jan 01, 2017
Nutase:
Men and insecurities. ............





I comment my reserve lipsrsealed

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 9:46am On Jan 01, 2017
Billyonaire:


If my sister bleeps her husband's sales boy and her brother-in-law, she deserve worst than this. Dont be emotional. If the wounds were that severe, then there would have been no make-up before taking pictures. If you want to report a case of domestic abuse and battery to the justice system, we wanna see the real wounds on pictures and not facially decorated 'wounds'.

I empathize with her, but we need to hear the 'truth', before we judge. The husband may have suffered more wounds than this woman, and clearly it might not be physical wounds. Some men work all their lives just to have a decent living with a woman they so much will love with all their heart. But end up marrying narcissistic women, who frustrate the living out of them having lost every form of happiness. No man will beat a woman he loved and married and have kids with this way, WITHOUT a GOOD reason. I am not saying there is any reason to beat a woman, but I am saying, anger is tough to manage when you meet your wife and houseboy on bed. Men no just mad like that naw. Let's hear the true story from both sides before we judge.
Amen may worse come to ur sister or daughter if she commits immorality and u send her back for more bunch of hypocrites

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 01, 2017
Just single slapped across your cheek turn to this! Pele
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 9:47am On Jan 01, 2017
Stegomiah:
Obviously, the signs were there before marriage
But she still went ahead and married him

Ladies if your man did hit you in the past, no matter how much he pleads, no matter the gifts he buys to make it up to you..... He's an abuser, such men can kill you, they won't stop
You should walk away and run from such for your own good
Only cowards will raise up their hands to beat their wives
You wanna be mike tyson, go fight with your mates and do the country and your self a favor
She is not your punching bag
but it is okay to hit/abuse men with your mouth/hands abi?
hmmm
make una always remember say these men na human being like una.

they are not iron or firewood neither are they superman,
esp now that the world is pursuing and advocating for gender equality>>> hope you know because of this some women are now bread winners.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2017
Well God in heaven knows that the day my younger sister's husband will lay hands on her n am aware, na the day him go start to loose his fingers one by one ...except she code am well well...can u imagine nonsense,even if u catch am dey cheat sef, u go kill am

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Neddstark: 9:49am On Jan 01, 2017
Reporting him on social media doesn't solve shït. Leave his house or fight back.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by goingape: 9:50am On Jan 01, 2017
MarieSucre:


The man is the one spoiling his own career. How many time the devil tempt Jesus before he rebuked him. Abeg jor, spare me that bullshit. And he continues beating her each time she tempts him. At what point does he send her away? After he has beaten her to death se?
this woman again!

have you heard the man side of the story?

why won't she leave the man if this story is true!

spear me your bullshit and just dont jump to conclusion

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by queenblossom(f): 9:53am On Jan 01, 2017
I hope u will forgive him again for d sake of ur children. Next time he will beat u to death and that children u are staying blc of them will be gone and u won't be able to take care of them again. I pray u are wiser now.

I still wonder how a woman will be in a marriage and be enduring such a thing. All in the name that I staying blc of d kids. If d man send u to an early grave how will u stay with d kids in d grave. Thank God u survived this
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by goingape: 9:53am On Jan 01, 2017
betatalk:
don't worry all the women close to u that r troublesome will receive same as uv quoted. A coward will alwaz be a coward.so if ur sister or daughter come back home like this u will tell her because she is troublesome she deserves the beating smh
piece of shiit

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Nkemtreasure: 9:54am On Jan 01, 2017
This story doesn't just add up. He beat you on 25th, he was charged to court probably on 28th and was granted bail that same day..... Even when our courts are on break Nmmmmmbbbaaa...... Talk another story..... Watin you happen?

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by bakynes(m): 9:55am On Jan 01, 2017
See guys we need to look at this issue from both angles. See its not easy for a man to find his wife cheating after spending money on her for years, after all the sacrifices you have made for her. We all have varying ways of controlling anger.

That is why it's better women bring their fair share of contribution and responsibility into marriage so that when things like these happens we can blame the man.

But when a man is the one doing all or most of the things in the house, working his ass out to take care of his family,taking care of the woman she now goes outside to sleep with another man it's very annoying because she just took the man for a fool meaning all the bride price, wedding spendings, all the money he has been spending on her over the years has gone to a waste not every man will be able to control his anger.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 9:56am On Jan 01, 2017
goingape:
piece of shiit
because I made it personal Na peace of shit that lady is someone's sister daughter too so put ursef in her shoes before talking

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by KINGS100(m): 9:56am On Jan 01, 2017
What madness do prompt a homo sapient to commit such a barbaric act. He deserve to be punish.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by cococandy(f): 9:58am On Jan 01, 2017
Starting the new year with foolish sexist posts are we?
lastpage:


The matter has been reported to POLICE man times
The matter is currently in COURT and he is on bail, right?

Why bring the matter to Nairaland again, or what are we supposed to do, that the Police and the Court cannot do?


Obviously, it does not take much thinking to know that this woman is up to something she is not disclosing!

How come your husband keep accusing you of being a HARLOT, on many occasions, with different people?
Is it that he is mad or what?


What exactly are you after?
If he beats you this much, why not just divorce him .... or even stay away from him?

Women like this wife will not desist until they ruin the life of their husband.

Just say you are provoking him so he can beat you and then get sent to jail.


Dem never deform you sef.
Winch! Oloshi!! angry angry




Lastpage!





Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by uckennety(m): 10:01am On Jan 01, 2017
Demigods666:
The husband just turn this girl to Cat woman, see her eyes, be like bat man mask grin

The husband na animal

SHE cheated on her husband wid d sales boy

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by goingape: 10:01am On Jan 01, 2017
betatalk:
because I made it personal Na peace of shit that lady is someone's sister daughter too so put ursef in her shoes before talking
you put yourself in the man shoe before talking!

is every parent daughter or sister thats so good to a point?

the ashawo outside is it not someone's daughter! undecided

spear me that bullshit crap! she did something to provoke that man on countless situation!

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by GaggleNSwallow: 10:02am On Jan 01, 2017
dominique:
Wow this is bad. Good thing she spoke out and exposed her husband as the animal that he is. Some women are still suffering in silence in the name of 'keeping their marriage'
Women always defending themselves.
"Good thing she spoke out to expose the husband," Hasty conclusion, I must say! This story is one-sided, there is more to it.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by CyberGypsy(m): 10:04am On Jan 01, 2017
wow . this bad, way too bad ..

she still look beautiful even after the mess .
safe recovery .
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 10:05am On Jan 01, 2017
goingape:
you put yourself in the man shoe before talking!

is every parent daughter or sister thats so good to a point?

the ashawo outside is it not someone's daughter! undecided

spear me that bullshit crap! she did something to provoke that man on countless situation!

I have been married for so many years my wife has provoked me too she has both male and female friends. I have not hit her for once. I show my strength as a man in other ways not a coward way

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Elmojiid(m): 10:06am On Jan 01, 2017
taaaa....flat head pple again, y always them.

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by Nnwannsukka(m): 10:07am On Jan 01, 2017
HUSBAND MAKE OVA
DAS A NICE MAKE UP FROM THE HUZZYHUZ ;DZY grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by betatalk: 10:07am On Jan 01, 2017
goingape:
you put yourself in the man shoe before talking!

is every parent daughter or sister thats so good to a point?

the ashawo outside is it not someone's daughter! undecided

spear me that bullshit crap! she did something to provoke that man on countless situation!

so to show he is man no to beat her why not send her away if he so despise her. Advice to ladies don't marry a guy with low self esteem
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by GaggleNSwallow: 10:08am On Jan 01, 2017
lastpage:


Why stay with the Beast and Monster?

he was a very sweet man before you married him, otherwise you wont.

Now, you've turned him to a Beast, so deal with it.




Lastpage!
LMAO! grin grin grin grin
No mind dem. The "beast" today is the same person she used to address as "The only sugar in my tea". Whatever happened to that sugar?
There's a sleeping beast in a every man but it takes a wicked and evil woman to wake them up!

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Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by biafranrealson: 10:08am On Jan 01, 2017
please woman, just loot at yourself critically, is there any atom of truth in what your husband is frequently accusing you of?.is your attitude, way of dressing, expression, passion ,zeal etc points to element of infidelity? do you dress to kill and get noticed? is your husband weak in bed that he may think that you can try to make up from someone else? are you working or full time housewife? .
my advice.
1 if you are not working, join your husband in his business. be his accountant, cashier anything. let him be seeing you every hour
2 dress decently and neatly and avoid competing with single ladies.
3 beg him to accompany you to market , salon and do visit friends together
4 be prayerful
5 if the beating continues , please leave him in peace.
Re: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by desmont004: 10:10am On Jan 01, 2017
I SHED TEARS FOR THIS SITUATION... NO SANE HUSBAND WILL DARE RAISE HIS HAND ON HIS WIFE... THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH MAMA

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