I believe she is not the one for you.that special person will come looking for you only open your heart to love again because I know is not easy dear..i have experience that too in a more painful way.mmine was I caught them fuccking themselves in bad.is all good.

no woman no cry, no woman is worth dying for, no woman is worth waiting for, dn't marry out of pity if its not, worth it its not sacrificing.

Babzilla:
This when you get on badoo
hook up with the baddest bìtch with a huge ass
channel all your rage into yer dick
and fùck the living shìt out of her

You mean me

BUHARIISCURSED:
women are ungrateful things..... and that was how one thing was dating me and one other guy together..... FEAR WOMEN AFTER BUHARI(RECESSION)

see ur life u are referring a human being as a thing,God have mercy on u.

This is very sad bro, just move on. I never trust women that is why I can't just love no matter how I try, they are made to grease the body & soul.

Stay strong bro

Lol.mtcheew she did nothing to you bruh. How will you want me to explain the one that happen to my pal nkor, my pal fought her admission, was arrested in de process of sneaking in the answers for the girl during de exams. As if that was not enough he paid 100k to secure admission for her. But the ungrateful bitch dumped my pals ass during her level 3 while my pal deferred his admission because he used his school fees to pay hers with the hope of getting the money to replace it but that didn't happen, he had to drop for 1 year. She broke up wid my pal using this words ""levels don change"

shit happens....

Beadex1:
Lol.mtcheew she did nothing to you bruh. How will you want me to explain the one that happen to my pal nkor, my pal fought her admission, was arrested in de process of sneaking in the answers for the girl during de exams. As if that was not enough he paid 100k to secure admission for her. But the ungrateful bitch dumped my pals ass during her level 3 while my pal deferred his admission because he used his school fees to pay hers with the hope of getting the money to replace it but that didn't happen, he had to drop for 1 year. She broke up wid my pal using this words ""levels don change"

chai, na wa sha

It's not your fault bro,it can happen to anybody but never allow her know that it hurts u. Keep a straight face and live your life like ur a king.

I seem to like that part when they say "IF "



It reveals the true nature of the person, one word -- SELFISH

bolethings:
I really appreciate all your comments guys. Actually I've always heard there's a thin line between hate and love and to describe how much I detest her right now would be unbelievable. It was crazy when she said "I'm sorry if I hurt you" , I was like if you hurt me? Sounding like it was relative. Of course she hurts me. I'm done with her and I've had to delete everything about her. Live goes on throughly.

The only painful part was not having as many side chicks as I could, imagine when I thought I'm done teasing or flirting with other women, now I have to really start looking...lol...

Candy86:
I am an african american female I am a degree holder no kids I feel your pain I was hoping to get married to this nigerian I was dating almost two uears he kept promising me he would marry me he lied to me. I still wants to visit nigeria I suppose to came last february 2016 I went to get on plane did not have my visa. I did not know but I have one now. If any man or lady could by me a ticket to lagos nigeria.

pls wat is she saying

Girls are truly Wonderful creatures from God...

Start losing body counts ooo, bro

It's good to be commited o but sometimes it could be very risky to put one's eggs in a basket..

Stupedinluv:
well thunder struck you first

Stupedinluv:
well thunder struck you first

bolethings:

Bro are u rich ? When I say "rich" am talking at least couple of million cash balance ? If not double up if you wanting classy n sexy ladies.

I use to wonder why I had to lose my cherished relationship until I find out ladies will drool at the sight of fake bank alerts. I know your girl is classy n sweet though you gave little fact on that. Pls be smart learn to dictate the pace of your relationship. Any lady with a mind of her own will not make an ideal wife. I would advice against wooing a lady that does not have a mind of her own but the best test of any ladies loyalty whenever there's conflict of interest is her willingness to concede for yours to prevail.

The same girl dating a Dangote will freely accept the superiority of his decision no matter how foolish. I once had an ex who believes distance in relationship is ideal to breaking up a relationship bcoz she intend having her masters abroad. She's presently serving in Abuja and I live in Lagos but guess what I did I told her I was going on vacation abroad for the New Year n broke of the relationship and suddenly she started lamenting she knew I was always going to break her heart.

She'd rather I wait she finish serving, piling senseless bills on me only to travel abroad for her masters n tell me she can't continue. I guess her claim will be legitimate in such situations. A girl that does not believe in the superiority of your decision for both of you is a no no for me. There's no middle ground, am sorry.

The issue for me wasn't her finding another man because I would never marry out of pity or agree to anyone who does.

My disappointment is the fact that even up until last week, she was telling me to get an apartment with just 2 rooms so that we wouldn't be having too many guests as I tend to keep people around me and as new couples, it won't he wise living the same life of a single man so she kicked against getting a 3 or 4 bedroom which was my preference, but rather we should do a 2 bedroom for now.

So there was no way I could have seen it coming and for her to just blank out in 24 hours makes everything funny to me. I'm surely over her right now and I just believe a long relationship isn't smart thing for those looking to get married.

For me classy or sexy isn't an attraction, rather someone who can communicate and who wouldn't nag. Of course well dressed and decent.

sluvy4tune:
Bro move on speedily, and you will Thank her later for letting this happen now. I know this wont be easy.

Marriage has never been a one way decision, from your story it's more she was in pre-degree possibly in her early 20s, she has spent 5years in the university and things has changed, I applaud her courage, marriage is not a decision you take out of pity, Yes she could have agreed to marry you then, you know how we all thought we would marry our teenage love and all that bullshit? But what were you expecting from a teenager who feels as at then marriage was all about how the heart beats and how much you spend time online chatting, sister has grown and has seen the bigger picture and if you both are not compactible,then there is no magic anyone can perform. Be strong!!!!

Someone can be good to you, doesn't mean the person is good for you.

Truth right here.
Why didn't OP go and find his mate to marry?
Instead you were looking for teenagers up and down who are still figuring out life.

Leave small girls for small boys. Bleep them well yes, bless her with the life experience of being a grown man's personal fucktoy so she can feel like she has experienced life, ... but don't start overly connecting emotions to small girls. You'll lose.

I personally don't entertain any female that isn't working for serious relationships. I like to be bought things too!...Fawk.

Candy86:
I am an african american female I am a degree holder no kids I feel your pain I was hoping to get married to this nigerian I was dating almost two uears he kept promising me he would marry me he lied to me. I still wants to visit nigeria I suppose to came last february 2016 I went to get on plane did not have my visa. I did not know but I have one now. If any man or lady could by me a ticket to lagos nigeria.

Didn't really get wat u said here

rebirthforgoody:
I believe she is not the one for you.that special person will come looking for you only open your heart to love again because I know is not easy dear..i have experience that too in a more painful way.mmine was I caught them fuccking themselves in bad.is all good.

What did you now do ? How did you handle the scene ?

@op I don't believe in long courtship . Sorry and move on God has a better plans for u . 5yeasrs too much never invest your money and energy on some one who is not your wife . You can assist a lady not to the point of sponsoring her for 5 years

samtol4:
What did you now do ? How did you handle the scene ?

It wasn't easy but I can't kill myself because of that.

hmmm!Funny how good guys fall in love with bad girls.sorry bro just be strong and move on with your life,you will find another who is much more better.though its not so easy but you will look back at this day and thank God n thank me too.some girls can be so cruel.after Dem go dey say awon o Lori okunrin.the lord is your strength

newyorks:
no woman no cry,
no woman is worth dying for,
no woman is worth waiting for,
dn't marry out of pity if its not, worth it its not sacrificing.

Haba!please take it easy now.women are the same o!remember you have a mum and sisters too.just because one girl treated you bad doesn't mean all girls are the same everywhere.so please take a chill pill.

am scared.

Op sorry for happened to u but I jux want to make Something clear,its does nt jux happen to guys alone but also to the ladies too,i wasted my five solid years wif a guy too after he made me belive that nothing can seperate us,its was lyk a film trick coz he never felt a inch of wht he did.there are still goods gurls out there,its jux that sometimes we fall for the wrng pple.

Bro....I won't feel pity for you or say sorry...not because I am wicked but because I know in some years to come you'll look back and thank God she broke up with you cos you'll be with a more deserving , God-sent woman that'll just be all you need in life....just look on the brighter side bro....dwell on the lighter side and dream of the beautifil future ahead.......

Peace brother

rebirthforgoody:






It wasn't easy but I can't kill myself because of that.

Are u now taken ?

Sorry dear

Apina:
Northern gals when like fvck pass anything so, na u dey vouch for , You never see anything. I fit bet u say DAT guy don dey flog her back for the same 5 years. Money wen u don supposed take build house for ur mama na DAT babe take dey p.i.m.p her aboki up

I agreed with u..northern girls like Bleep die..my plateau ex babe dey Bleep me and other girls behind my back..she dey even mess around with married men...I broke up with her last week because she broke my heart with her lies, pretence I fact so many things she did..now I am finding it to move on because of d commitment I put in d relationship..wen a girl goes for service, there is 98% assurance that she must mess around..many of them tried to mess with me during my service year...even a girl who had just a month to her wedding was begging me to sex her and she was a corper. being too emotional makes one suffer for love and keeps one worry what your girlfriend might be doing when u r not with her...if someone can tell me how I can kill my emotion and worries, I will be appreciate...

Candy86:
I am an african american female I am a degree holder no kids I feel your pain I was hoping to get married to this nigerian I was dating almost two uears he kept promising me he would marry me he lied to me. I still wants to visit nigeria I suppose to came last february 2016 I went to get on plane did not have my visa. I did not know but I have one now. If any man or lady could by me a ticket to lagos nigeria.

the America dudes make dey dere no reach u abi..dey find who u won knak