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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by fisfat(m): 9:09am On Mar 25, 2017 |
You should never denounce your baby. Be patient. You'll find who'll love you even with your baby. Trust me |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ademoladeji(m): 9:09am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: Sorry about that but never deny your baby. A man who truly loves you will marry you with your child. The future is bright for you both |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by repogirl(f): 9:09am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Focus on yourself and your kid and all other things will follow. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by sixtus3606(m): 9:10am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:please I'd like us to have a private chat. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:11am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: Ask the person who made you to keep the pregnancy what was their plan for you. 3 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:11am On Mar 25, 2017 |
The right person would stick around and accept your child like his own. Some people don't want to be with someone who already has a child. I know I wouldn't want to be with s man who has a child. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by coolcharm(m): 9:11am On Mar 25, 2017 |
No young dude wants 'after 1' Honestly, you can try older men or single dads. They will be more understanding. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by columbus007(m): 9:11am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Bigsteveg:so? |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by noziz(m): 9:11am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22: u being fine o. oya come i go friend u like dat i no mind ur 8yrs old child |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by NgoziOkoli(f): 9:12am On Mar 25, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:so because shes an " after one" she should not feel loved? Now its clear to me something is wrong with d functioning of your brain. If you don't have something meaningful to say why not face your failed political analyst career. Shame! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Tonero231: 9:13am On Mar 25, 2017 |
The right person for you will accept you wholly |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by segzyogondus(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Your child is your flesh and blood if they won't accept your child today you still have to wait cos there is one thing for sure the right person would definitely come just stop being in a hurry of accepting every man cos the fact you have a kid is not something guys take easily also ladies don't take that easily from guys so my advice is do not reject your child cos of any man if the man would accept you then he has to accept your child if not just let go of him |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by hysteriabox(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2017 |
The right man will not run cos of this. Funny many guys with children dont see it as an issue for dem, but cant see ladues with kids as adequate partners. If you hide it, then be ready to hide for the rest of your life |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by nickxtra(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Look out for a single dad, get closer to such and some thing must lead to another. Come back and thank me later. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chloride6: 9:15am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Somebody here ready nailed this issue..... You have to widen your gauze... Divorcees, widowers the whole lot..... I'm sure you will be happy when you do |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Apina(m): 9:15am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:It's being not been. I bet u were distracted while trying to tell ur story, that's why u made that mistake. I could come here tomorrow and rub it in you face, but would that make me better than u, I don't think so. Could u actually deny it and perhaps try to cover it up, probably but that would mean you ain't proud of yourself and don't appreciate how far u have come. If you eventually refuse to accept that u made a mistake, it would simply mean that u are incorrigible. Lastly, from experience, admitting one's mistake is better than being found out. My humble opinion |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by OMOTOWO(m): 9:15am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:how old are you.. Let us hook up.. I don't mind. I am single and I believe your kid should not be a barrier. You can send me a pm |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:15am On Mar 25, 2017 |
joliefille:Those women have themselves to blame. There are way more men than women in Nigeria and any woman who hasn't gotten married in her 30s has herself to blame. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Viking007:One is already here o.. NgoziOkoli:Oga why the bitterness? 5 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Antoeni(m): 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Look for a single dad too who will understand, because A GTB staff can nt go ZENITH Bank to collect salary 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Opakan2: 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Next time you'll close your legs till marriage in case you don't know.. no sane man will consider a lady attached emotionally elsewhere not to talk of child.. who should foot the bill or carry d cross of another man if I may ask It's your cross anywaiz, you'll have to carry it 3 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by kkboy(m): 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Your problem is that you have been going into relationship with immature and unexposed folks. Step up your game, fashi, small boys and stick to matured men I bet you having a baby will even make you more loved and appreciated |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ghostmist: 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
nasha1:She does not choose the men. Men do the picking...if non of those people you specified picked her, what will she do? Absolutely nothing! Women are often deluded in thinking they have the option of "choice" when it comes to men. However, the grimm reality is that, it is the men who choose... Also, the number of men that are likely to show interest in them decrease the older they get 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:16am On Mar 25, 2017 |
How early do you tell the guys that try to date that you have a child? chiomababy22: |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by MARKone(m): 9:17am On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:Dont ever think of denying ur child, or not telling ir partner. One day you will meet that man that will lobe you and your daughter. taking her as his own, there are men out there. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:17am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Never deny your child. Someone would eventually accept you with everything good / bad. But honestly, you have to work twice as hard as a single baby less girl to hold down a man. Maybe it's an ego thing but men don't like taking care of another man's kid. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ZoneBslayer(m): 9:19am On Mar 25, 2017 |
NgoziOkoli:the guy just reiterated what the op herself said for Pete sake! why do you lots love deception? the op already admitted the fact that her child has been a deal breaker in her relationships, so why are you attacking the person you quoted? oya tell the op that everything is all rosy, since you all prefer sweet nothings to hard truths.. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Jabioro: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2017 |
You want to the deny your precious gift.Dont ever do that., all those men given you excuses base on your child were not in love with you.. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2017 |
There was never love in the first place for those guys the way I see it. Possibly they wanted the sex and that ends it, bearing another man's burden seems to be a burden - to them and not a disease. Unless in time past they won't have their own kids. Ask for God's guidance on your knees. And always be honest, God will surely give you someone - Someday. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Women choices are limited to the Men that approach them... they have a limited option of choice. While as for us Men, we just have the illusion of infinite options to choose from.... just because a man approaches a lady doesn't mean she would be interested. At the end of the day both parties have to choose each other. ghostmist: |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tintingz(m): 9:21am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Marriage is good but it is not for everybody. I will advice you to focus on taking care of your daughter and don't ever deny her. Nigerian men don't go for after one and this is mostly a problem from the guy's family. Nigeria parents always pressure ladies especially, to get married, there are even single ladies(non-single mum) in their 30s not yet married and they are desperate. Keep your esteem high, there will be that man that will accept you and your daughter. @chiomababy22 |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tayoxx(m): 9:21am On Mar 25, 2017 |
NubiLove:simple... for me I've got no issue with someone being a single mum or not.. so long as u rock my boat.. we go cruise..having a kid is a big news.. don't break it to me in the middle of the journey.. tell me from the beginning lemme know what I'm up against |
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