chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

dapsoneh:
she neither said 'daughter or Son' so. Why did u say she shouldn't deny her? Or do u knoow her

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

modelmike7:
Honesty pays.... Never ever deny your baby at any time pls. She should be your EVERYTHING for now. The most important thing now is to work on your self to be a real lady with good prospects and not like our self proclaim "slay queens and slay mamas". You have a bright future ahead sis. The Mr Right will come in due time. Regards to your daughter...........
Btw, you are beautiful!! All the best!!

WORLDPEACE:


Humans are liars. This is true with both sexes. We are like icebergs that you see in the ocean; What is under the water is more than the part you see floating. Women may say that they want a guy who is God fearing, polite and all that but the single most important factor is what the man owns materially. This is often not what the most decent girls project but it is the single most important factor. This is not the visible to all at first glance but a man neglects it at his own peril.

Now you must sell yourself like a man would. Go out there and get money if you don't already have. Be successful and you will become attractive to men, both rich and broke guys. Then you will have to take your pick from these men. Don't hate the roles reversal, just accept it for what it is. People care about what other people will say than about their own personal happiness. FRIENDS AND RELATIVES WOULD FIND IT MORE RATIONAL THAT THEIR LOVED ONE IS MARRYING A SUCCESSFUL MOTHER OF ONE THAN A KIND HEARTED MOTHER OF ONE. They will give other surface explanations to people for why they like you but the larger part of the iceberg under water says something else. You will do yourself great good by accepting this reality.

Of course you may be fortunate and find that great dream man that is not drawn by this but it's better to ready yourself for it. You are more likely also to be married to a single parent like yourself so look for ways to meet such ones. I am not trying to paint a picture of doom and gloom, I am just showing the fastest route to your goal.
Lastly, I want to say that it is not a bad thing for a man to get married to a woman because of her money among other things. It is only bad if that is the only reason. In other words it is only bad when a bad man marries a woman for her money.
I wish you success soon.

Nma27:
My dear the issue of do changing is just too flimsy and minute to be d reason behind you having problems in your relsp... Lolz you are funny, there's nofin to b ashamed of

modelmike7:
. . . . . i do my research before i comment bro, I DONT JUST COMMENT!!! The daughter is a girl!!!

ayindejimmy:


NEVER hide the truth cos when it comes back to hunt and taunt you, the outcome will be devastating.

You have to start dating matured men. If you've kept your sanity and pride since your first child, I don't see another issues there.

[s]I've dated single ladies and I'm currently dating a lady with a child[/s] - it's not a disease. The first thing she told was that she has a son. But I've seen qualities in her before then. So it doesn't change anything. She's even more modest than te singles I've dated.
It's a matter of how you've been able to pick yourself up and rebrand yourself.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

Nutase:
[s]Go back to politics section before we stone you comot for here[/s].

sasko:
What happened to the relationship that produced the child...be honest
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this topic is now on 5th page and Op ignored my simply question. .hope is not what I'm thinking


some ladies willingly opted for baby mama just for material benefits but when the pay check stops flowing they claim victimisation
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chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

maasoap:

If I'm still single, I could put up with one that has female child but not one with a male child. There is tendency for male child to grow up in your house with love and still becomes a rebel under your roof just because you're not his biological father. He could become violent but females rarely become violent even if they turn rebel.

Bolincosugar:

Dont for any reason deny your child. He or she is your pride.

My daughter will be 3 in July and i don't for any reason deny her.

I make sure I talk about her to everyone that comes my way.

Even my employer and colleagues knows about her.

Have gone for an interview whereby i had to tell my interviewer about her.

Any man that does not want her can never need me.

so don't start a relationship that is built on deciet.

Your own man will surely come to stay just stay focused.

Very positive about my status

Mr right o ya show face oooooo

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

TonyeBarcanista:
You want deny me of my freedom abi?

Your Momma must hear this

Mimzyy:
Tonyebarcanista, I just dey look u Mschewww