Bumbae1:


So the guy should Sort it out right ?

TheSlyone2:

But don't you think you owe me explanation? Well, I was only joking. Mynd self knows me to be a disturbing type.


How body, sweerie

KennyID17:
Wow! Bumbae create topic!

Well lemme put in my humble piece, I'm not really experienced in these matters, but i feel d dude in question should make his stand known, if he really wants her, he would work with his fiancée to convince hos folks into accepting her.

I would advice u to tell ur friend to never go into this institution with her in-laws hell bent on frustrating her. That is just a recipe for disaster!

hope her potential in-laws have a change of heart and accept her if not she just gon' have to accept that this ain't meant to b.

Regards to this friend of urs! She can contact me, I'm looking to settle down!

dingbang:
abegi...

heckymaicon:
oko buruku se fe , ana buruku niko se ni. I'm very sure my fellow yorubas will understand

Halfricanadiian:
This is beyond the girl it's left for the guy to talk to his mum calmly about his love for his lady nd make her see reasons why he chose her among all ladies.
If the mum loves her son she won't take away his happiness just like that

Bumbae1:

Stick around maybe you can pick up some tips ..

1bkaye:
Any particular reason why they don't like her? What's the guy saying? Does he defend her? Is the guy very close to his family?

Bumbae1:
Hi All .. first topic lol been a while

So currently I have a friend who is going through some stuff .
She is so so inlove with her now fiancé but the problem is the guys family does not like her .. basically treat her like sh!t (3 year relationship)
She has tried everything to please them but the mum insults her calling her names and to leave her son ..regularly
You know how we females are when we get together for good gist now what advice would you give that friend?

As most are saying she should leave the guy as the family wont rest till she leaves ..

I told her to stay and fight for her man and parents have already lived their lives and she shouldn't miss out on true love just because they hate her ..

What will your advice be please ?
Guys input how should we handle your mum .. as we know mum's sometimes find it hard to let their boys go

Mature Advice please poor girl so miserable these days she just in two minds

Cc Mynd44 lalasticlala Seun

dejonathan:
Hmmmmmmmm

But am getting tired of her mums attitude cos me nd d gal no dey free... We're just dating like a primary 2 boy nd gal playing hide nd seek love

KennyID17:
Wow! Bumbae create topic!

Well lemme put in my humble piece, I'm not really experienced in these matters, but i feel d dude in question should make his stand known, if he really wants her, he would work with his fiancée to convince hos folks into accepting her.

I would advice u to tell ur friend to never go into this institution with her in-laws hell bent on frustrating her. That is just a recipe for disaster!

hope her potential in-laws have a change of heart and accept her if not she just gon' have to accept that this ain't meant to b.

Regards to this friend of urs! She can contact me, I'm looking to settle down!

Bumbae1:


Lol @ hook up she dey engaged o
Make she decide first nao before you step in

Thanks will pass it on

Bumbae1:


See a few of us said this ..
In the beginning he should have put his foot down .. but his just one of those respectful guys im telling you he wont even frown at his mum ..
she even accuse the girl of being barren lol how she knows i dont know
But even then he kept saying that's how my mum is she doesn't mean it .. now his mum has become terror for the girl .. and she isn't one of those mouthed girls either ..
just tired of the whole thing ..

kingDELE:

KennyID17:


Her hubby should be doing more, except u ain't telling us all, this ain't her fight alone, he should make sure he does his best to make them realise she is the best and only choice for him. His folks should understand and respect his decision.

For him to b considering marriage, he ain't no kid no more and he shouldn't allow family pressures sway him!

In short, all these boils down to d dude, according to ur story, don't sound like he really wants ya friend!

Once again, tell her to contact me, I'm looking to settle down!

Bumbae1:
Hi All .. first topic lol been a while

So currently I have a friend who is going through some stuff .
She is so so inlove with her now fiancé but the problem is the guys family does not like her .. basically treat her like sh!t (3 year relationship)
She has tried everything to please them but the mum insults her calling her names and to leave her son ..regularly
You know how we females are when we get together for good gist now what advice would you give that friend?

As most are saying she should leave the guy as the family wont rest till she leaves ..

I told her to stay and fight for her man and parents have already lived their lives and she shouldn't miss out on true love just because they hate her ..

What will your advice be please ?
Guys input how should we handle your mum .. as we know mum's sometimes find it hard to let their boys go

Mature Advice please poor girl so miserable these days she just in two minds


Cc Mynd44 lalasticlala Seun

Donjazzy12:

Why does her boyfriends mother hate her? Make una dey talk tori finish na!
There must be a reason. When she tells us the reason then we can advice her.

Bumbae1:

But the guy loves her too

But that is his mum .. he too doesn't know what to do about it and he can't tell his mum how to act .. you know its big taboo

Bumbae1:


Hmmm
So if he doesn't want her why get engaged after 2 years! E no make sense nao
Think his just a mummy's boy and being a whimp as you know women can see things guys wont see
also its not just what she says .. its behaviour and her actions too
Ok like not attending engagement party .. what is that telling the girl ?

ednut1:
love anyday, marry and travel abroad

Sunmibare6:
Prevention is better than cure.. Let her leave now .!

Bumbae1:

But the guy loves her too

But that is his mum .. he too doesn't know what to do about it and he can't tell his mum how to act .. you know its big taboo