Destinyy22:
I met this awesome guy a month ago, we fell in love with each other and started dating. Later discovered he had a girlfriend somewhere and still loves her so much, I started nagging cos I let go of every other man in my life just to be with him and he wasn't willing to do same. Guess I nagged too much about it and now he wanna leave. I don't wanna lose him, haven't met anyone like him before. I've sent numerous messages and calls to apologise and promised to forget about the other lady but it seems he has made up his mind. Please what do I do ? Took me a long while to find him , don't want to lose him . I 'm 23 years old.

TrapQueen77:



SmellingAnus, what can u say abt it?

Some men ooo...why they must have booboo in every hood ? Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days...

TrapQueen77:
Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days...

it's not hard in this part of the world where I live

DLondonboiy:


But m loyal and loving na

Destinyy22:
Please what do I do ?.

heykims:
If it took u a long time to meet him, then it's a lie u let go a lot of men for him.
He has a girlfriend and still fell in love with u, then u are a side chick because he loves his first girl more and has therefore refused to part with her.
The truth is u want to snatch another woman's man.
U shouldn't be the one opening the thread for advice but that first girl!!

However life isn't fair, therefore try as much to win his heart setting a short time frame. If he still insists being with the girl after d time lapses, pls quit to limit d emotional torture.. .

Dotwillis1:
it's not hard in this part of the world where I live

9jayes:
I don't always leave any girl who gives me mouth action so soon. Next time u meet just suck his brain out of his dick

thank me later

Dotwillis1:
honey don't tie your destiny with someone who doesn't worth it. You are still very young at 23, thank your stars he didn't keep you till 28 before you discover he has another gf.. Their is still more life to live, more people to meet, More heartbreak awaiting buh then more better men to meet (like me ) ... Be wise! Stop begging! ... Its bad to nag, buh you love him and had to react that way....move on, you don't know what other things he still gon do that will hurt you. Thanks dear. I really appreciate. He's a good guy though.

.might not be easy to let go..buh you have to.

Destinyy22:
We haven't had sex. Thanks

9jayes:

You need to sex him ASAP

DLondonboiy:
That's life for you...

You see this 23year old girl crying and chasing a guy that doesn't care about her. In her mind, he left cause she was always nagging, but that's really not the full story. He left cos he's done with her. But you would see another guy, who genuinely loves this 23year old, begging her and chasing her, but she no go "send" the guy..Funny world.

Moral lesson: Who can tell me the moral lesson of this story?? Anybody?

TrapQueen77:




Aha...which part of the world u live?

I wudnt mind sailing til i find that paradise

right in my abode

TrapQueen77:



SmellingAnus, what can u say abt it?

Some men ooo...why they must have booboo in every hood ? Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days...

Destinyy22:
Thanks dear. I really appreciate

SirMichael1:



What nonsense! As if sex rejuvenates a relationship.


You try to hold a man with sex, he has sex with you, pretends to be seriously in love with you and then bam!


...your friends are calling you from the other side telling you how they saw your man at a wedding marrying another woman.

Youre heartbroken, you curse, you tell tales about how you gave him your body, your soul your spirit and what not


Pussy doesn't keep a man.

greatnaija01:
I guess you are financially dependent on him, its not just that he is so fantastically NICE... abeg no one will buy that lie. YOU NEED HIS MONEY and HE NEEDS YOUR LOVE. but he does not trust you totally with HIS LOVE. so you need to understand that if you help him break another girls heart now, in future some other girl will help him break your heart. KARMA is real.... learn from tonto dickeh

you obviously do not think of the future, cos you just want to keep him when you are a tenant in his heart, the land lady owns the heart. This may be a bitter pill but it will CURE YOUR CLOUDY THOUGHTS.
Loose Him and Let Him go.
I wish you can learn to be independent... It is the most attractive quality in a lady