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Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:29pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: My candid advice is you try it first. Am speaking from experience. My wife today was once a Muslim and a daughter to an Alhaji and Alhaja. Told her my feelings for her and we started dating. Mind you, it's not every relationship that must end in marriage. Some are meant to make you better. After dating for a while, we talked about it and she agreed to convert. Now she's a Christian and we are married. The funniest thing is that her mum also converted to Christian and also her elder sister. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Bimpe29: 12:30pm On May 24, 2017 |
That difference of religion makes it unacceptable to your family as well as hers, even though, both of you may not see it as an issue. More often than not, one of the couples with difference eventually revert after been married, due to marital conflict. You are advised to pray and don't start what you can not sustain appropriately. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: If your answer is yes, pls proceed. It's the very best. Being free to all. This will make you not think a faith is superior to another. This will make you see and view people from their personality first instead of their faiths. Matter of fact, it will make you live longer. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by jwart(m): 12:32pm On May 24, 2017 |
Diagnose all the necessary variables. History shows many that works well and many that fails. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by riseagain(m): 12:33pm On May 24, 2017 |
how we go come do with this matter?Abeg who get pin mouth blackberry charger? |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by waShine(m): 12:34pm On May 24, 2017 |
ImaIma1:You have heard the real facts frm the poeple wit exprnce, is u come back as muslim or no marriage |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by oscaruzie(m): 12:35pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: yeah, but interpretations should be guided by the Holy Spirit...have you not also come across the bible portion where God spoke to Peter in a trance, which had a cloth of different beasts and reptiles and all sorts, asking him to rise, kill and eat? Peter said he would not touch any unclean thing, buh God responded by saying he had cleansed them and he should eat? shortly after Peter went to an unbeliever's house, had communion with them and thus saved a whole household? e go be bros. peace. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Stevengerd(m): 12:36pm On May 24, 2017 |
Abujalover. Pls Dnt Just Try It, Love Is Never Enough. U Been A Christian And Her Been A Muslim Its Gonna Be Tough. Had Same Experience 2014, Bt Just Moved On With My Life, Tho We Are Still Frnds Oh!!! |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Shoboy6h: 12:36pm On May 24, 2017 |
My guy you're wasting time.. Tell her Jor.. Sorry for you if not the next visit you will pay her is in are husband house.. Remember say Aboki nor they waste time for marriage.. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by yayankainuwa: 12:37pm On May 24, 2017 |
I don't think u should continue wz this, am sorry if I sound blunt, but d fact is Islamically a Muslim lady is not allowed to marry a none Muslim. u may b in love, but ur marriage could hv implications as thus: 1. u convert to Islam, or 2. ur lady converting to xtian 3. u marry maintaining ur faiths. In 1-3 u may b having serious issues wz ur both families . I think u should drop d idea n maintain a friendly relationship |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by idu1(m): 12:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
shaddoww: Ahmed or Ahmad na em be hammed And hammed is other name entirely I tire for Afonja people. Even the muslims didn't know better. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
her religion is not an issue. go for it. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
Hi, Your story was quite similar to mine. I lost out on her because her dad clearly rebuked me not to visit her daughter again. "That, the moment we parted ways in secondary school, we have parted for life". Presently, she's married to a believer with 3 beautiful kids, and she's a believer now. She told me l should have been more persistent, perhaps her dad would have supported eventually, which he did with her husband. She said her husband and late dad were very good friends before her dad's death. Kindly express your heart intentions to her, ask her questions regarding issues relating to her conversion (mustn't be forced please), and raising the kids. If her response is positive in regards to conversion, and she's willing to stand by you - kindly go ahead. However, if she says no to conversion, it would definitely affect how your kids would be raised, in terms of spiritual allegiance. At this point, l would advise there's no point forging ahead. Aside that, don't forget to do your findings on her family's background please, before you take the major step of securing her heart. I pray God leads you aright. Take care ! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Jackipapa: 12:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
The road you are about to tread is a delicate one. Pls i know what it takes because I am a product of such a marriage. My mother Christian married my dad a muslim. The problem is not only my father as at the time but my fathers family. It was HELL on earth for both my mother and we the children. by the grace of God we are able to survive but it is still hunting us till date for what we should have achieved years back is what we are now pursuing at this age. It affected every aspect of our life negatively. Bro pls think seriously before you leap. It may or may not be your case. Serious thinking bro for the sake of the unborn children. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by tintingz(m): 12:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
KingEbukasBlog:Mark Zuckerberg is born a Jewish but not a practicing Jews(Judaism). Religion, tribe are barriers for two lovers to have each other and parents are also the cause most times. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by livinbygrace: 12:43pm On May 24, 2017 |
ollah1: Say whatever you like,Truth is always bitter. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Timoodi: 12:43pm On May 24, 2017 |
if you tell them to stop watching romance film, them won't listen e.g telemundo zee world! how can the relationship ever work,it will look more like a divided family than united, i didn't say man ooo!for the sake of unity in your future family, snap out of it!also remember couple who pray together remains together ,united in love and stick together,obviously you won't be able to pray together 3 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 24, 2017 |
OGA JUST MOVE ON B4 YOU END UP WITH A HEART ACHE. This relationship will never work in real life. Unless ofcourse its a movie. then you get a happily ever after |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Geminiboy: 12:46pm On May 24, 2017 |
bro make your intention known to her, my cousin married an alhajis daughter, this one her father has a big mosque in his compound, the father agreed, but they did a nikkai marriage which was the father's wish, they are happily married with kids now, |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:48pm On May 24, 2017 |
livinbygrace: Truth is different from jargons. The latter is what you wrote. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 12:49pm On May 24, 2017 |
Pangolo123: Thanks bro for your reply. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by FriendNG: 12:49pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover. A marriage between a Muslim man and a Christian woman is acceptable while A marriage between a Christian man and a Muslim woman is not permissible. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 12:50pm On May 24, 2017 |
Timoodi: Chris oyakilome and okotie prayed together with their respective wives and even wrote books and councelled people. What ended their affairs? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by MakeADifference: 12:50pm On May 24, 2017 |
In most / all the cases you've listed the MAN is the Muslim. Islam allows a Muslim man to marry out (as I have read in various commentaries). Islam doesn't encourage Muslim females to marry out as it seems. shaddoww: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by godric(m): 12:52pm On May 24, 2017 |
Go ahead if you know your love is strong enough. I am a living withness, am a Muslim and I married to a pastor's daughter and to God be the Glory we are still waxing stronger. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by zicoraads: 12:52pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover:See, I was in this situation for years. We dated for about four years and it wasn't easy. Till now, I'm still hung over that lady like kilode. But, this isn't language barrier. This is religious. And I'll tell you the truth, this isn't something to just ignore. Because trust me, it's much easier for a Christian lady to convert. Muslims hardly ever do so. And that will always bring problems between you two. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by aishatu19(f): 12:56pm On May 24, 2017 |
See me the power of love. this is the first time Nigerians are sharing views without name calling or bashing. In fact eh. Gov't should pay #5 million to any couples willing to marry from another tribe (and religion) to heal the divide. You see? Tribalism is a learnt behaviour. Politicians na bastards. Meanwhile, God Bless Nigeria! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Elle277(f): 12:56pm On May 24, 2017 |
I won't even allow that love to see the light of the day, unless his religion is unknown to me at that point in time, there is more to marriage than love, Love is what we see most times, can fly away anytime, the ones you nurture stands..#bewise 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by eddyline(m): 12:58pm On May 24, 2017 |
truth be told, the parents of the girl will not consent to you marrying their daughter. it is against their religion for the female partner to marry outside the religion but as for the male, they are permitted to marry from a different faith. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:00pm On May 24, 2017 |
light does not have anything to do with darkness, Christians shouldn't mingle with those muslims, take a look around the world and see all the atrocities attached to them. Its very dangerous. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by jonbellion(m): 1:01pm On May 24, 2017 |
KingEbukasBlog:where did you see mark zuckernerg being a practising Jew you this boy 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by charlesluthor(m): 1:01pm On May 24, 2017 |
bro jst make ur feelns knw to her. we dnt even knw if she loves u. U re jst assuming she loves u. Girls can be confusing. Make ur feelns knwn nd hear her response. afterall, not all relationships leads to marriage |
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