funmisticqueen:
I tried once, it was a struggle, try looking for a reason to love him when there wasn't any

funmisticqueen:
I tried once, it was a struggle, try looking for a reason to love him when there wasn't any

Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

jakandeola:
I will neva respect any girl dat say she dont date broke guys. I test a girl she saw me and act as if am nothing, I just said hi and wish to be friends she snub me. later at a party she saw me spraying money and I wear suit she was now trying to be close I just tell her not to bother

Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

Cinderella5:
A broke guy is not equal a broke girl, a broke guy is equal an ugly girl. Girls aren't termed broke.

Cinderella5:
money makes ladies look good too, with the right clothes, hair, cream, make up, she will become beautiful.

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc

greyboy5000:
first of all no girl is ugly.. but some are beautiful than others ..on the issue of broke guys..change is constant..that means a broke guy today will not be broke for ever you know..even some of the rich men of our society today were once broke..

themonk:

you have a stupid mentality.

themonk:

you have a stupid mentality.

uyisteven:
One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving..
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No mind me...I just wan comment..Boredom dey my house.

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

themonk:

you have a stupid mentality.

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

Cinderella5:
money makes ladies look good too, with the right clothes, hair, cream, make up, she will become beautiful.

Draei:

A girl is labeled broke financially & mentally
the moment she hunts after all-ready made men.

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

funmisticqueen:
I tried once, it was a struggle, try looking for a reason to love him when there wasn't any

bpee:
The question should be " who is a broke guy"?
Cos some guys earn 350k to 400k and are still broke,,they have so many bills to settle,,parents,family members they are sponsoring( including the growing ones) at the end the guy has little or nothing left,,while a guy who earns 100- 150k might have very few or no responsibilities at all?
So who is a broke guy?
Is it measured only on a guys's earnings?

Cinderella5:
I can see you are one of those trying hard to impress onlookers with the hope of getting a pm from a man who would see you as a good wife material.You are also the type that begs guys for recharge cards.
If you read my posts to understand my line of reasoning, you woundnt have wasted your time typing this long post. I never talked about total dependent on a guy. It's about a broke guy who never has, you will be deluded if you are suggesting money is not important in a relationship. This is not western world where you both go out and settle each other's bills, certain responsibilities are for the man and it should remain so.

chronique:
It's funny how guys spend so much just to impress broke ladies and at the end of the day, the guy might be richer than the parents of the girl he is trying to impress; of what use is all that stress?

Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc

IdeyFindWife:


Ahhh, fyne gal, i nor para for u in particular o, but those generalized stereotypes are over-flogged already!

A worldview incorporating a working model of the Liberated modern woman does not employ archaic conditions to love like financial status. Such women create their own realities, they simply take and give love regardless of societal norms, mores and expectations or silly entanglements like ethnicity, money, religion etc!

Naija "Feminazis" are mostly an hypocritical lot because most are just a greedy bunch seeking somebody to spoon off of, some are seeking completely unrealistic utopian relationships/partners, some want to get without giving but everybody are shouting like men are the devil. Of course, we have the many who genuinely got hurt in the game of love!

you're not mixed-blood nigerian btw, are u dear? if u are, what other nationality?

@Lefulefu, help a bros o...dis tin wan kii me die dis weekend o!

mhayorr:
And the only reason to have lovdd him was for the money

mhayorr:
And the only reason to have lovdd him was for the money