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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by marooh: 11:16am On Jun 23, 2017
Annie2059:

what is this one saying... off point

Haba na ur fellow man be that nah
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by rhames(m): 11:19am On Jun 23, 2017
BiafraBushBoy:
Nice thread...

Only lazy folks are scared of dating independent ladies...

The only type of girls I hate to mingle with, and they are the most difficult...

Are those with little or no sense of humour..

Yellow Card
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by ikorodureporta: 11:47am On Jun 23, 2017
Thez are the types guyz giv 1 zero. Jst giv dm a htfk...thatzall
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Amicable24: 12:01pm On Jun 23, 2017
24sqm:
What percentage of ladies fall into the aforementioned categories?


Few!!!



Shame on em me.

Fixed.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by ajog1: 12:16pm On Jun 23, 2017
bjhaid:
a lady with good morals is better than a religious lady.
You couldn't have said it any better-character is the key thing.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 12:22pm On Jun 23, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Well, like someone rightly said, only lazy men are scared of girls who earn more or richer than them

So your BF run when he figured you're above him? Chai! cheesy cheesy
Baby he no only run o
Man really fuk up sha ! He now stole money ontop as cherry on the icecream angry god purnish that basterd sha .. e no go better he will die poor dat 2k wey him teef is causing issues right now ( heard his in bang up ) grin my God is working for me
But yes he was an eye opener wahlahi hence y I don't even show off make person no kidnap me grin
You now how des South Lon nigz b
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 12:22pm On Jun 23, 2017
Aderola15:


Lol. They have unsolvable Ps. lipsrsealed
U eh grin Rola baby I hail u

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 12:25pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Take it easy madam. No be fight nah cheesy
Chews kulikuli ..

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:25pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

lol tosyne know say me no dey that category he just wan spoil my tea this morning
grin
I am waiting angry
Can you imagine we can't be proud of ourselves what nonsense ...
they don't know a made woman makes it easier ! Make person retire by 40 go Dubai go collect sun for head grin



Lmao cheesy
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 12:26pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Lmao cheesy

Y u dey smile cheesy e dey sweet u ba
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:30pm On Jun 23, 2017
madridsta007:


THE FEMINISTS: These ones are always on the edge of something... Either an argument, a shout-match, a competition, a debate, an online-fight etc. They think it is appealing, as it fetches them the "likes." Eventually they change— but at 29/30 years.
I swear you no lie at all.. They've been the ones that dish out insults and rain curses on me each time I speak what they don't want to hear cheesy

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

U eh grin Rola baby I hail u

Mamaly wink wink wink

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Bahddo(m): 12:42pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

*) who said I have met a lot of guys? Read my post correctly
*)where did u see I typed all guys ?

Op has a point not all but there are guys out there who find this intimidating(FACT) some wont even let you pay on a date wtf .. u may not but that is your cup of tea .. I'm chatting about those who do ... so not understanding your post.

Why wont the lady be proud do you know we work 10 times harder to get to where we are .. I will be proud all day long whoever can kiss tranformer.. imagine the trash we should not be proud of our success ... undecided what fuckery .. pompous I get it but proud !!! You having a real laugh mate
yeah, everyone should be proud of their achievements regardless of gender.

Ladies don't work 10 times harder than men to get anywhere though. I've worked in many different teams and I'm talking from experience. Most of y'all just expect to work less than guys and still get the same or even more rewards and recognition on a platter of your feminity. Always needing more support and encouragement.

Some would even get jealous of fellow ladies that put in the required effort and reap success, spreading nasty tales about them sleeping their way to success. There are only a few exceptions, the real boss ladies .

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:44pm On Jun 23, 2017
VargasVee:


Had this after party, I don't usually go to them unless someone drags me grin

So I went, met one girl so we talked a bunch. It turned out she was from Nigeria too. We were in contact for a while and she invited me to dinner at home. Before then she already told me about the parents, father works in an insurance company and the mom at a top law firm. Man that was one of the worst I ever been to. When it was meal time, I saw the hubby coming out of the kitchen, smiling forcefully. Im a great cook myself so no issue. The man changed, we all sat down then the woman told her to go and dish the meal.

Do you know this lady didn't allow the husband to even join the discussion or ask me anything. She kept on talking and asking me, at a point I was gutted, my friend noticed and excused us. Mate, up until now I can't help but have pity for the man. I wonder what goes on there when there's no visitors.
Waaat! This is unbelievable oooo!

Can you now see that women can't handle the amount of power naturally bestowed unto men?
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:48pm On Jun 23, 2017
sosa993:





well till now I don't really know what a Nigerian man wants. all I know is when you see one that doesn't see you as threat cos you're richer or doesn't treat you like dirt cos he a richer than you, then go for it.
This Nigerian men matter don tire me. Glad I've been able to meet the a good guy when I was younger, at least he's taught me not all men are this same.
So, now that you're an adult, you haven't seen any man that has proven to you that all men are not the same?
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 12:48pm On Jun 23, 2017
Bahddo:
yeah, everyone should be proud of their achievements regardless of gender.

Ladies don't work 10 times harder than men to get anywhere though. I've worked in many different teams and I'm talking from experience. Most of y'all just expect to work less than guys and still get the same or even more rewards and recognition on a platter of your feminity. Always needing more support and encouragement.

Some would even get jealous of fellow ladies that put in the required effort and reap success, spreading nasty tales about them sleeping their way to success. There are only a few exceptions, the real boss ladies .
Why I say 10 times harder is because of TIME! You men don't carry kids for 9months, it takes a lot out when you are a career woman for guys this is not the case ..
Once you give birth who will look after the child ;0 ( lets just say no help yet) the lady has to do it all which is extra work .. for guys this is not the case .
How many stay at home husbands do we have But women are expected to stay at home by default ..
Well for me .. I work 10 times harder cause I know I want a family so I have to retire early grin just incase one devil push am n he cheats or walks out I know my children will be blessed same way and would not have to ask or beg for kobo ..

Ps I am the exception! Been working from age of 14 started at KFC ( then I had friends who laughed at me .. wearing the uniform ) or whatever worked while I studied .. worked while at college and Uni .. now I run my own business so you see I AM PROUD ! Why cause I know what I went through and I know how hard I have worked for even money I make .. Same ppl that where laughing come to me for money now ..

But some guys still find it intimidating Fact

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by madridsta007(m): 12:49pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
I swear you no lie at all.. They've been the ones that dish out insults and rain curses on me each time I speak what they don't want to hear cheesy

They hold the WBC, WBO, IBO, IBF World Heavyweights Titles in Insults and Abuse. When I see them, I run! No time.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by makydebbie(f): 12:52pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Waaat! This is unbelievable oooo!

Can you now see that women can't handle the amount of power naturally bestowed unto men?
Stop using one story to judge other women.

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:53pm On Jun 23, 2017
madridsta007:


They hold the WBC, WBO, IBO, IBF World Heavyweights Titles in Insults and Abuse. When I see them, I run! No time.
Me sef dey run ni oooo baba... I no want person wey go give me HBP cheesy

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by VargasVee(m): 12:55pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Waaat! This is unbelievable oooo!

Can you now see that women can't handle the amount of power naturally bestowed unto men?

The most can't. That's btw. You alright?
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by VargasVee(m): 12:57pm On Jun 23, 2017
makydebbie:
Stop using one story to judge other women.

That's example. There are worst stories believe me
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 12:59pm On Jun 23, 2017
makydebbie:
Stop using one story to judge other women.
Hmmm.. Sighs!
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by tosyne2much(m): 1:00pm On Jun 23, 2017
VargasVee:

The most can't. That's btw. You alright?
Yes I'm very alright bros
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by chikk(f): 1:00pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lord have mercy?!!! What the hell do men want then? @ 3, 4, 5 really

A lady is independent you complain, she asks you for money, ah.... Naija women and money!!
She's an olodo, nawa!!! She's intelligent you feel threatened!!!
She's classy, oh well, you can't cope. She's naive, wahala dey.

I just give up for naija men Biko.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by nigercoolnews: 1:02pm On Jun 23, 2017
see happened to a guy that planed to drug his girl friend for SEX

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yiI0gLbv-qQ
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by makydebbie(f): 1:04pm On Jun 23, 2017
VargasVee:


That's example. There are worst stories believe me
If those stories are personal experiences, then bro, I've to advice you to change your circle. Stop moving with the same kind of women. That'll help you more not to generalize.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by makydebbie(f): 1:07pm On Jun 23, 2017
chikk:
Lord have mercy?!!! What the hell do men want then? @ 3, 4, 5 really

A lady is independent you complain, she asks you for money, ah.... Naija women and money!!
She's an olodo, nawa!!! She's intelligent you feel threatened!!!
She's classy, oh well, you can't cope. She's naive, wahala dey.

I just give up for naija men Biko.
Babe, I'm as confused as you're. Alot of insecure men.

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Bahddo(m): 1:08pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

Why I say 10 times harder is because of TIME! You men don't carry kids for 9months, it takes a lot out when you are a career woman for guys this is not the case ..
Once you give birth who will look after the child ;0 ( lets just say no help yet) the lady has to do it all which is extra work .. for guys this is not the case .
How many stay at home husbands do we have But women are expected to stay at home by default ..
Well for me .. I work 10 times harder cause I know I want a family so I have to retire early grin just incase one devil push am n he cheats or walks out I know my children will be blessed same way and would not have to ask or beg for kobo ..

Ps I am the exception! Been working from age of 14 started at KFC ( then I had friends who laughed at me .. wearing the uniform ) or whatever worked while I studied .. worked while at college and Uni .. now I run my own business so you see I AM PROUD ! Why cause I know what I went through and I know how hard I have worked for even money I make .. Same ppl that where laughing come to me for money now ..

But some guys still find it intimidating Fact
wow, congrats! Now that's what I like to hear, not how life is hard cos one is female and then sitting back. The fact that some find your ambition and success intimidating don't mean shyte. There are still some for whom there's nothing sexier than a lady that believes in the power of her intellect, knows what she wants and goes for it.

As for the difficulty of juggling career and family, well... There's only one thing I never argue with - nature. There's a reason ladies are the ones with the ability to conceive and give birth. But it is not compulsory to; it's there just in case you'd like to use it. Basically, everyone has the same 24hrs/day, and what each one is able to achieve with theirs is down to choice not so much about gender.
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Lalas247(f): 1:10pm On Jun 23, 2017
Bahddo:
wow, congrats! Now that's what I like to hear, not how life is hard cos one is female and then sitting back. The fact that some find things intimidating don't mean shyte. There are still some for whom there's nothing sexier than a lady that believes in the power of her intellect, knows what she wants and goes for it.

As for the difficulty of juggling career and family, well... There's only one thing I never argue with - nature. There's a reason ladies are the ones with the ability to conceive and give birth. But it is not compulsory to; it's there just in case you'd like to use it. Basically, everyone has the same 24hrs/day, and what each one is able to achieve with theirs is down to choice not so much about gender.

God should send those type of men my way .. wink
Nice chatting dear like your way of thinking open minded .

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Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by VargasVee(m): 1:13pm On Jun 23, 2017
makydebbie:
If those stories are personal experiences, then bro, I've to advice you to change your circle. Stop moving with the same kind of women. That'll help you more not to generalize.

Thing is, personally I hate drama in my life, any sort.

And the last 4 type of ladies the operator mentioned cannot live without one. They always think they are doing you favours by having anything to do with you. It's just the way they're wired.


Tell me then, the rich ladies you know, how many of them are down to earth and don't throw their weight around?
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jun 23, 2017
Okohlient:

So whats the difference ?
The 'weak guys' already fall into 'some guys'

Bro how does WEAK mean same thing as SOME undecided undecided
I cannot conman teash u English naa
Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by AHCB: 1:18pm On Jun 23, 2017
makydebbie:
Babe, I'm as confused as you're. Alot of insecure men.
Oh really?

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