| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jjjjj2017: 11:24pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
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| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Don't be offended with my words
But its like every blame should be on you because When you are in a relationship don't let factors such as "pastor, family and others influence your decision and judgement becuz I can see you are getting fed up but you put some factors into consideration b4 making your mind BUT YOU FORGET THAT DIS IS A LIFE TIME DECISION AND NONE OF DOZ PEOPLE WILl SHARE THE LIFE TIME PAINS OR REGRETS WEN TINZ GOES WRONG. 8 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jjjjj2017: 11:25pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
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| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Adicsonbaba(m): 11:26pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Sheflex4real:
I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Since all the funny behaviour is just happening I won't suggest u give up on what you have been unto for 2 years just like that. U want her back in her place here are the things you need to do:
1. Never ask her about her guy friend of hers anymore. That's shows you are not secure.
2. You need to give her a little break. By that I mean don't call her more than once in a day, call her when you assume she's less busy, if she missed the call Never call back until she reach out to you. Even it takes days.
3. While this is going on, Make sure you are not always available. Give her time to miss your present.
4. Try hard not to be miserable, cos she must not see or hear that you are.
5. Don't make the mistake reasoning, begging or buying stuff for her with the hope getting her back on track, It will only push her further away, cos she will see right through it, and Nothing kill attraction faster than desperation.
6. The next thing is make her jealous a little, I.e put you phone on password,when you with her and your phone rings, if it someone you can call back don't pick the call just put it on silence and pocket the phone, make it look like u have something to hide even though you have nothing to hide. But don't over do it though.
REMEMBER what ever you chase run and things you seems to be running from will chase you at some point. Its one off the law of nature.
Finally I understand doing those things will be hard "Really hard" but it is what it is!
If you do it right within a week he should be back on track, belief in me she dosen't want to lose you either, but the problem is you are always there, always around so she tend to take you for granted. If u were to be in her shoes u will do the same.
You need not worry about the new guys. You share with her what they don't "HISTORY" and that will always give u a upper hand.
Hope it helps
Don_Lex I throway salute for u boss.... Infact u deserve one million likes for all this.. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jjjjj2017: 11:26pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
tescoman90:
Don't be offended with my words
But its like every blame should be on When you are in a relationship don't let factors such as "pastor, family and others influence your decision and judgement becuz I can see you are getting fed up but you put some factors into consideration b4 making your mind BUT YOU FORGET THAT DIS IS A LIFE TIME DECISION AND NONE OF DOZ PEOPLE WIL SHARE THE LIFE TIME PAINS OR REGRETS WEN TINZ GOES WRONG. God bless you, the fact that he made mention Pastor & parent really pissed me off! 4 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by banmee(m): 11:26pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
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| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by mokset123: 11:27pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
If she doesn't stop such after much persuasion from you. Dump her quickly because she ain't worth your love, time and care. No time to say no time 4 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Man2utd(m): 11:27pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults What ever doesn't make you happy let it go, don't let anyone tamper with your joy... 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jjjjj2017: 11:27pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
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| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Lexusgs430: 11:28pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults If you don't marry her, would you die? Is it the families that are getting married or you? Your happiness comes 1st above any other........ It's best to remain single than married and distressed/ depressed...... 6 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by MrGunnu(m): 11:33pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults pls you need to tell her that u would leave her if she continues,dont be blind to love and if she does continue tell your pastor as no one would live with you when u get married and if you think you cant go on .Pray to God that if HE has someone better she should come and break the relationship for you.All the best 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by enemyofprogress: 11:33pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
That's what happens when a prick is too small and cannot reach a girl's throat for her to say thank you daddy 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Saintsquare(m): 11:35pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
acaolly1:
...and u are here still asking questions ode?  |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by obataokenwa(m): 11:35pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults Great advice from my pastor "Whatever you see in courtship will double after marriage" Bro, all the signs of early death and HBP is all over and you still want to confirm. Goodluck 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Duru009(m): 11:36pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Stop forcing this relationship bro. She doesn't love you or value the relationship. Stop wasting your time . life is too short !!!.
But if you go ahead. You will surely regret it. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon
You've been dating for 2 years. I hope the lady is not above 30 year of age. If so, have you made an introduction? Have you paid her bride price? She owes you nothing and she is hunting for her future husband. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Kachigifto3: 11:38pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
She doesn't love u dts all.. |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jaxxy(m): 11:39pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults I hv sm questions pls Are u guy practicing a no sex b4 marriage relationship i ask since u say ur pastor is involved. If so I don't think d gal is on dat page so u may want to stop being a gud boy and become a gorilla and if u can't cos if faith reasons. End it rite away and try to get over her or u can give her sm space and see how she reacts. Let he do all her rubbish and if she bothers to contact u tell her to tell u the exact truth or go to hell. Period. No long thing! |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Leez(m): 11:39pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults lmao anoda tales by moonlight thread bloggers kill us wit lies and nw dis ok no p carry on linus we behind u smh and sum pips actually believe ds is true |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by chronique(m): 11:52pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Dude, have you ever thought about the fact that God is probably trying to tell you something? Open your eyes and be wise; a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. I once had the opportunity to choose between two people and I asked some folks to pray with me and different people gave different conflicting advice on the people in question. One man didn't say anything. He just gave me this scripture(job 14:18 & 19) for one of them, and likened the other to Haman's wife. I went with my heart and the rest is history... Maybe you need to lay back and observe more. Your pastor might not be seeing what's happening due to several factors beyond human control. If a lady starts showing signs of wanting to cheat or misbehave, the chances of her actually doing it, is high. Be careful what you are going into. ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.
The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...
And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.
No insults 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by ashewoboy(m): 11:54pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:
Errrrrmmm, maybe you should read my post again. hmmmm. lie that you have nvr sent your nude to a guy before? your post says not to a side nigger buh you could send it to your boyfriend. who...res everywhere. |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 24, 2017 |
You want to be married to her because of church and family ties. Good luck with that. Love is a good thing, but how many people know that love, just like fire needs to be mastered. It is okay to fall in love, but make sure you control the love and not the love controlling you. It destroys the self confidence when not controlled.
You need to report her flirtations to the very people you think are going to be disappointed and make sure you have a female companion that reveal to you the cards women play, so you can know the art of the deal.
Learn to master love using this experience, and you would have earned the Title of King Solomon. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:06am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Oyindidi:
Op, pls tell me how she flirt with the guys, I didn't see it in your post.
Everyone ignored the fact that she is selling and has a shop. Op, mind telling us her line of business? to slap u dey hungry me,aswear  .....##banana fall on u.... |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:08am On Jun 24, 2017 |
ifenuwon:
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She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them. The above in bold is when you should have put a stop to this madness.... Anything after this point is a direct consequence of the above ill act that you didn't correct. The hard truth is that, if she is openly dating other men, and starts having a loud mouth about not being your wife, then bro thank your blessings as you just got a free ticket to remove that liability from your life. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by davillian(m): 12:14am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Seems like she sells pussy @ her shop. Gimme her shop add make I colect 1mouth. |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Obekpa55(m): 12:31am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Sorry to say this but it is truth. Your girl is f..king tight and u are seen as useless material. Bros dont be surprise if u marry her n u cant fit satisfy her in bed. Mark it bitter truth. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by obindomanya(m): 12:37am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Azumoney44:
wrong person found in church, kwantinu i tell u ehh, church these days ehh. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by bezimo(m): 12:40am On Jun 24, 2017 |
That your girl is not ready for marriage. If not she won't be frolicking with a strange man. Don't waste your time move on. Dump her fast because she doesn't love you or deserve you. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by NovusHomo(m): 12:41am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Let her go! 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Curvinus(m): 12:43am On Jun 24, 2017 |
Op I wouldn't ask you to walk away as I doubt you would last two weeks before crawling back on your fores to go plead with her to accept you back which would even make matters worst. Again, your in a vulnerable state now and you dont want to come across as butt hurt.
However, I would want you to see her as a virus that has breached your firmware and penetrated your core with the ability to manipulate and control you.
So the way to go about this now is to try towrest the ballance of power away from her by becoming more alert so you can view your relationship as a third party to see where youre overcommitting.
If you find that youre over expressing your emotions or expending a lot of resources, you have to cut back on all these, including phone calls so you can show her who is boss.
Then the next stage is to mirror her actions by assembling your own harem. Please be sure to always deny and never admit any wrong doing as looking after yourself isn't wrong anyway.
If you follow all these and not bother to go see her, you'd be amazed at ahow you'd rewire her hind brain to only crave your c.ock. Then bang her real hard and stop worrying about an outdated and acheic institution. Hope ure not ugly shaa. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:43am On Jun 24, 2017 |
ChiefSweetus:
Even if her totò dey draw like okro
And dey warm like Bunsen burner
And tight like juventus defence
I beg you
Bros
No. Confront. Am
Walk away and never ever talk to her again
Closure will make this DISRESPECTFUL SLÜT regret nothing.
Let her go and fuckkkkkkkkkk. When she starts regretting and comes back. Ignore her some more.
Let her forever wonder - WHAT IF
WHAT IF I WASN'T AN INSATIABLE SLÜT?
WHAT IF I WAS WITH OP RATHER THAN THIS MEDIOCRE SLOB I EVENTUALLY MARRIED because OP was wise enough to cut me off like the worthless bïtch that I am?
Anyway I know you won't take this advice.. cos you're a spineless pusśy-whipped punk who thinks he is in love and can't do better than a cheat who has ZERO regard for you.
So go ahead. Sit her down and cry like a pant. And let her confirm in her mind that true true you aren't worth it and all the guys banging her hot wet totò are more man than you'll ever be you hopeless and clingy fuçk!
WORD! You be chairman abeg. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Organs(m): 1:13am On Jun 24, 2017 |
adetayo234:
From your comment, you have a side nigga. And probably he also fuckss you. So, how are you different from a heartbreaker. All the side nigga needs to do is to give you sweeter sex, and you will call it quit with the main person, causing him a heartbreak. Aunty, you aren't better. You are in the same class from your analogy ure pathetic. See how you concluded. Its like saying even if you want to eat frog eat the frog that has eggs. It does not necessarily mean you eat frog. Go back to secondary school and study english comprehension with Effective English. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
