TinaAnita:



Didn't he know she can't raise a finger to do something during courtship before 'wifing' her? Some men actually deserves a lazy woman for some reason.

bimchuswhat:


She should encourage her husband and endure now... Her approach is really bad. My husband lost his job too and I can feel what he is going through. I know how hard I work and all I do is to lift up his spirits and make him happy.
When things were cool we enjoyed it together so she should support him as well.... OP ..brace up and believe in yourself.....get something doing no matter how small.
Love in marriage is not conditional abeg.....it's not boyfriend..girlfriend love. For your bespoke turbans contact Diamond Turbans 07030277275.

Collyno82:
u are only but a half yard wife material

CapitalCee:


Abeg get out of here you daughter of Jezebel. That's why I don't pity any girl that is used and dumped by guys because most ladies are just too wicked

mylander:
Please advise.

I was in an employment of a bank until recently when my employment was terminated.

When I had the job, I took my family welfare as my priory. My wife and our only son were faring good, I always ensure we do not lack the basic necessities. Meanwhile, my wife did not have a job then. All the house upkeep expenses including the cost of running her postgraduate program were on me and I felt comfortable bearing the costs as the breadwinner of the family.

After I lost my job in the bank some month ago, my wife got an employment with the state govt. With her little income, she has been able to assist in bearing some expenses, even she pays for fuelling our car sometimes.

The drama has now started in the house and our marriage is on the verge of breaking up.

Any little issue, my wife will turn it to quarrel, different abuses. Funny enough, she would be referring to the financial supports she has been rendering in the house. This is a woman that did not work at all for 2 years and I was bearing all the expenses with pleasure. Now she had only supported me for about 4months now and she's is misbehaving.

To my surprise, my wife maintains a record in which she records every penny she spends in the house including food items and fuel. With this, she always ask me when will I pay him back.

At the instance of a simple argument/misunderstanding, my wife would be boasting of 'I paid for this, I paid for that....' 'If not for my support since you had problem at work......'

Please advise me, I am getting fed-up with the situation, my wife had changed totally.

yungmill:


Haven't you heard of or seen ladies who would turn the house upside down clean everything, cook everything before marriage only to turn into something else after marriage. Give me your answer in respect of this

Am waiting

ucheuzor1:

You are joking ryt??....where is it written that a wife will not respect his husband because he is not working. I beginning to doubt d reasonings of women. So fluidic.

FortuneTeller:


You are being very naive. She didn't marry him while he was unemployed, so why should she suffer now? I'm sorry to inform you but all things are conditional. No woman wants a broke man. It's not attractive. If he wants a peaceful marriage, he needs to find a job.

TinaAnita:


You couldn't even manage to answer a simple question? No wonder you failed jamb times without number. No woman, I repeat no woman would assume the responsibility of a man for a long period of time without throwing tantrums and let that sink into your empty brain. Anuofia

TinaAnita:


So any woman whose opinion contradicts your silly ideas is an asshole? My prayer is that you Lose your source of income so you would become a full time housewife since you would rather be a loser. Don't forget what the bible says, a man who can't take care of his family is worse than an infidel.

GodsLastBorn:
May God please remove anything like you on the radar, area, perimeter, 1mile radius from wherever me, my friends or any good man is forever in Jesus name Amen!!!!!!!

for better for worse? marriage=ATM ( if its not dispensing cash its useless and should be thrown to the dirt?! God May Jezebel never be in the same vicinity that I will ever be.

TinaAnita:



A half yard material is enough to sew a short skirt and a mini top.. That's a good start bruh..

mylander:
Please advise.

I was in an employment of a bank until recently when my employment was terminated.

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bimchuswhat:


She should encourage her husband and endure now... Her approach is really bad. My husband lost his job too and I can feel what he is going through. I know how hard I work and all I do is to lift up his spirits and make him happy.
When things were cool we enjoyed it together so she should support him as well.... OP ..brace up and believe in yourself.....get something doing no matter how small.
Love in marriage is not conditional abeg.....it's not boyfriend..girlfriend love. For your bespoke turbans contact Diamond Turbans 07030277275.

cococandy:

More attacks. Nothing reasonable

Blackmail won't get your sorry asses anywhere.

If you want your wife to be the breadwinner in the home, you have to be the home keeper. It's wicked to expect her to do both.

Such a common sense statement. Yet so difficult for your selfish minds to understand
I'm sorry your over inflated egos can't let you wrap your heads around such a concept. It is what it is.

FortuneTeller:


Good for you. It won't last for long when all the money is gone and you are the only one providing. Bless the woman who has been taking care of her husband for 2 years. It's a miracle she still allows him to eat the food she buys.

TinaAnita:



It happens. Same way some men turns their wives to punching bags after getting married, from a caring and loving boyfriend to a wife beater.. And like I said before, some men deserves bad women for some reason.

cococandy:


When they don't have anything reasonable to counter with, they go personal with family attacks and attacks on sex life.

So what? I'm a bitter lesbian. Yes
Also a bitter wife with a suffering husband.
All of those are accurate. Now that we have gotten the 'facts' out of the way, can you two geniuses focus on the topic and tell me how it's fair for the bread winner to also be the home keeper?

Miserable Fvcktards. The truth does hurt you misogynistic asses don't it? That's why you can't stand me.

cococandy:

More attacks. Nothing reasonable

Blackmail won't get your sorry asses anywhere.

If you want your wife to be the breadwinner in the home, you have to be the home keeper. It's wicked to expect her to do both.

Such a common sense statement. Yet so difficult for your selfish minds to understand
I'm sorry your over inflated egos can't let you wrap your heads around such a concept. It is what it is.

GodsLastBorn:
May God please remove anything like you on the radar, area, perimeter, 1mile radius from wherever me, my friends or any good man is forever in Jesus name Amen!!!!!!!

for better for worse? marriage=ATM ( if its not dispensing cash its useless and should be thrown to the dirt?! God May Jezebel never be in the same vicinity that I will ever be.

emynike2001:


Hahahahaha i say AMEN for u.

maasoap:

I'm not surprised by this contribution of yours, you're a woman. If husbands could realise that women needs one thing to make home liveable and peaceful under any circumstances, and that's communication, domestic quarrels will reduce a lot.

freshvine:


Why should I indulge you on the Op unfortunate experience in the hand of a vexatious woman like you? It's obvious you're feather of the same flock.

The fact is that the Op married a woman who never loved him but saw him as a gateway to disposable income and now things have come to a head, she's confused cos she never factored the uncertainty period. To her, it's unbearable and not what she'd bargain for.

Majorly the blame should be on the male folks for not conducting due diligence before thinking of settling down with a lady. When we ladies see that a man is financially secure, we pretend and commit into relationship just to secure our liability.

Have you not seen ladies who used their contacts to reengage their husbands, why can't she also contribute to her husband setting up a business, just 4 months and she'd already began stressing the man... what a hell.

Before a man lost his job shouldn't call for role reversal. The man definitely will help, or do you expect him to explain all that too and also if there's enough workload, she should engage the service of a house help not to belittle the man with chores cos he's temporarily out of job.

Girl joke apart, what lies did your mum told you about your father... I can understand the disconnect of no father figure

CapitalCee:


I give up !!!? This girl is a witch and a devil's incarnate

CapitalCee:


OK bros, I need to get any job I mean any job at all that can pay me salary, no matter the amount please help me I no longer want to do MMM if you have any or connection just let me PM you.

Ifyone123:
Bro MMM stil pays ai...d reseason y i mentioned MMM is dat his MONEY works for him witout sweat...Den he cn direct his sweat into looking fr a job. N wen i said MMM i mean lil like 20/30/40k. He will b getting interesting witout sweats. d people dat ar crying on MMM brekdown ar d greedy ones...It wz ivn a serious from page warning on MMM 'Use you SPARE MONEY' but greed cn let piple knw sup. If i am stil wrong wif wat i hv jst said plz point it out.

Question: is it better he stays at home spending d lil he got? is it beta he spends d lil he got nw into transportation and noting is coming in? bro MMM cn solve dat problem. he gets interest fr it to run around n do oda tinz til he finds his feet or do u want him to beg his wife for transport money which will break his heart cz she must insult him or do u want him to go beg his friends for transport money n his friends will mock him/help a lil den stops at somtime or people dat wunt ivn help atool.


plz if am stil wrong...do fix me right, tnx

freshvine:


Why should I indulge you on the Op unfortunate experience in the hand of a vexatious woman like you? It's obvious you're feather of the same flock.

The fact is that the Op married a woman who never loved him but saw him as a gateway to disposable income and now things have come to a head, she's confused cos she never factored the uncertainty period. To her, it's unbearable and not what she'd bargain for.

Majorly the blame should be on the male folks for not conducting due diligence before thinking of settling down with a lady. When we ladies see that a man is financially secure, we pretend and commit into relationship just to secure our liability.

Have you not seen ladies who used their contacts to reengage their husbands, why can't she also contribute to her husband setting up a business, just 4 months and she'd already began stressing the man... what a hell.

Because a man lost his job shouldn't call for role reversal. The man definitely will help, or do you expect him to explain all that too and also if there's enough workload, she should engage the service of a house help not to belittle the man with chores cos he's temporarily out of job.

Girl joke apart, what lies did your mum tell you about your father... I can understand the disconnect of no father figure

Collyno82:
but remember no one go to the market to buy a half yard material